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Once you have their love, do you know how to keep it?
By Alexis George — Written on Feb 10, 2019
Everyone acts a little bit mysteriously when they feel that they are falling in love. But if you're trying to understand whether or not a Scorpio is in love with you, this may not be the case.
Scorpios are considered to be more secretive than other zodiac signs; that is, until they are in love with you. The intensity of their commitment can be difficult to comprehend, but it's not something to be taken lightly.
Relationships are hard. They come with many obstacles and they require having a willingness to overcome them. This is why in any relationship it is important to understand your partner.
One way to do this is by spending time with each other and having open conversations about why you are the way you are. Once you have done this, to continue to better understand your partner by looking at their zodiac sign.
Zodiac signs do a great job of helping us to understand our lover’s strengths, weaknesses, likes, dislikes amongst other things. We can use this information to help us find ways to not only make them fall in love with us, but to keep them in love with us.
So, what do you need to know if you are interested in a Scorpio? Well, as a water sign, it is probably good to know that Scorpio horoscope signs live to express emotions. They are known for being amongst the most open and honest individuals, and they expect their lovers to reciprocate that energy.
Because they dislike being lied to and feeling betrayed they are often cautious in relationships. It takes them quite some time to trust their partner. However, if you are patient with them then once they fall in love they will do everything in their power to make the relationship work.
On your part keeping them in love can be a bit challenging. They can get bored fairly easily and therefore need change. So, if you can, find different ways to keep them on their toes.
A Scorpio will be happy that you aren’t afraid to switch things up every now and again. If you find yourself being scared about dating a Scorpio, don’t worry.
Listed below are a few things you can do to make sure that you are the person they want to be with forever, per astrology.
1. Always be honest.
Scorpios place a high value on honesty. When you are able to engage in open conversation and tell them the truth no matter what, they will respect you for it. It is already hard for them to trust people.
But knowing that you are willing to be upfront with them puts them at ease and therefore makes them stay in love with you. They find comfort knowing that you won't force them to dig tirelessly for the truth just to end up feeling betrayed.
2. Don't be afraid to play games.
Of all the zodiac signs, Scorpios are the most sensual and there is something about games that turn them on. Come up with games to play in the bedroom and other areas in your love life to keep things interesting.
They will admire be excited that you make an active effort to spice things up from time to time. Giving them the opportunity to do things they never would've thought possible, even exceeding physical limitations will have them grounded like never before.
3. Keep it mysterious.
Scorpios are known for their mysterious appearance. Therefore it comes as no surprise that in order to seduce them you must keep an air of mystery around you. They will love that they can never fully predict what you'll do next.
A Scorpio will be excited to be kept on their toes no matter how much time passes. Not many people can keep them entertained so they will respect you for being able to keep them intrigued.
4. Challenge them.
A Scorpio loves to be challenged. This is partially because they themselves can play hard to get, so they like when their partner can match that energy. This means having confidence within yourself and still reminding them that although you are together, you are still a great catch.
It's good to let a Scorpio know that they must work to keep you there. Having this mentality will fascinate them. When it is all said and done they want to be able to say that they accomplished something by capturing the person that always seems to get away from everyone else. If you can manage to continue to find ways to keep your Scorpio lover on their toes, then you should have no problem keeping them madly in love with you.
Alexis George is a writer who covers love, relationship advice, astrology and personality topics.