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Why He Seems Uncomfortable Around You, Per Astrology

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Why You Make Him Feel Uncomfortable, By Zodiac Sign

Do you ever find yourself in situations where a particular guy, doesn't even have to be one your interested in, gives you the cold shoulder and you can't sort out why?

This can count as well for the times, sad as those times may be when It is someone you are quite curious about. 

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These are the guys that maybe get you to wondering if you have an invisible second head only they can see.

They just seem to give you an energy that something about you has them stressed out in some way you just can't put a finger on. 

There are certain personality traits by horoscope sign that can indicate what vibes you may be giving off, the type that may challenge the expectations of another person. 

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With that said though any man or person that's going to resort to rude or cold tactics is probably pretty insecure themselves and you may be reflecting back to them something, they haven't been able to understand just yet. 

You shouldn't ever feel bad for who you are. Certainly, we all have done things we've felt less than proud of but being yourself should never be one of them. 

Regardless of how you may have come across, assuming you weren't being mean in some way, If someone else feels inclined to judge your book by your cover then it's really on them to resolve or not. 

If you're at all like me you may even walk right up and ask them what's up if it bugs you enough, hey, it can be helpful to just know and if you find out they are being shallow in that way, well then at least you know. 

For instance, I have a close friend who at one time had a boyfriend, this guy was a butcher, seriously a real butcher by profession. He is Over 6 ft tall, I am 4'11 He always acted oddly around me, kind of cold and rude.

I was always polite to him though, so eventually, after they had dated a year she was curious enough about his strange behavior to inquire, she told me he admitted that I was intimidating to him, so okay, well good to know. What can you do? She ended up breaking up with him not long after anyway. 

I think most of the time it's some type of intimidating feeling they may be dealing with and you may never know what it stemmed from. 

Here is what makes each male zodiac sign feel uncomfortable around a woman, per astrology.

ARIES (March 21-April 19)

If your are an Aries then you know you can have high energy levels at times. That's not an always type trait of course, but often enough you may talking in a commanding way and like to have full attention when you do. 

Some men can be out off by that, possibly because they are intimidated by a woman that isn't just meek and quiet, leaving them to make the rules. You are a forceful personality at times and that's a birthright.

If they don't like then that's their issue, maybe they should join in, they'll never know how exciting an Aries conversation could be if they don't. 

TAURUS (April 20-May 20)

For you, Taurus out there, if some guy is giving you the cold shoulder and you have no idea why there could be a chance that you were coming off aloof. 

You know Taurus can be stubborn, that trait will include your high standards. If you don't think the company your in is up to your level, they will definitely know. A man could sense this and be put off.

Remember though if he feels intimidated, well then that's his issue, not yours. Taurus ladies know what they like and that's just that. 

GEMINI (May 21-June 20)

Gemini ladies you know you are sometimes all over the place. That's okay it's because of your mercurial and that's a key trait of your star sign. You can come across as not really listening to others at times because you are distracted by so many other things including what you want to say. 

You can be fidgety and there will be people that will notice this behavior and they may not understand it. If you know you have that tendency, then consider how you'd like to handle the situation. 

You certainly don't have to adjust yourself to suit anyone else, keeping in mind that learning to gain some calmness in life will only help you but I don't think you should do it to suit someone that's going to judge you for that quality. 

CANCER (June 21-July 22)

Cancer ladies are some of the most emotional of all the horoscope signs, this quality can sometimes come across when you're not happy and show as reclusiveness. Your worrying nature can come across as sullen at times. 

If you've been feeling particularly down due to insecurity or conflict then that vibe will be noticed and some guys don't know how to take that.

If you didn't even feel like being around bunches of people and you reluctantly did, then you may show this inadvertently. 

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LEO (July 23-August 22)

Leo's you know that you love to have a good time. Honestly, there will be guys out there that your energy can stun in a way. They just may not see a way in for themselves, to the good time you're having because you're having it on the stage in your head, possibly leaving them feeling left out. 

You may interrupt in your excitement and put them off. In general Leo's are typically conscientious so knowing this about yourself may be something you are working on. 

If a guy is giving you rude treatment because you're enjoying yourself then he's likely insecure and you shouldn't feel like it reflects on you. 

VIRGO (August 23-September 22)

Virgo women can be a bit on the critical side, sometimes that can come across as being controlling. You see the smallest of details and that can include seeing flaws in others. 

This trait can lend itself to you finding that you are involved in talking about other people's issues and worrying that someone is telling yours around as a result. 

If you were spending time talking about the things you see as wrong excessively they that can put a man off. If you were behaving in this way then you may want to consider how it affects you. Any man worth your time will help you to find balance in those things and not judge you for it. 

LIBRA (September 23-October 22)

Libra ladies can sometimes get involved in dramatic situations. Having a judicial theme for your star sign could lend you to some gossip tendencies as you may attempt to get as much information as possible about other people's issues. 

You may be doing this in an attempt to find a way to help others regain their balance, thinking the more you know the better you can help. Your diplomatic nature will guide you into situations that need balance. 

You could put a man off with these tendencies as he may take it at face value as you just enjoying strife. You know you really want everyone to get along and do the right thing, If he doesn't want to take the time to look further then you shouldn't worry, be yourself and the right people will appreciate your desire to help. 

SCORPIO (October 23-November 21)

Scorpio ladies, you can sometimes be aggressive. That aggressiveness can sometimes come across to others as a cross-examination of sorts.

You may have a tendency to pry into people's lives, digging into them as fast as you can do determine who they are and where their weaknesses and strengths lie. 

There will be people that don't appreciate the speed and sheer force you can exhibit in getting in as deep as you can and fast. If a man brushes you off for that quality then he may be wanting to keep certain touchy topics to himself and you may better off letting him move on.

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22-December 21)

Sagittarius women, you probably already know that not everyone can take your energy well. That's likely a lesson you've learned along the way. you can sometimes be really brash, brazen and this can be perceived as rude to some people. 

You may say what you think and have no compunction about doing so. You may not always consider the other person's feeling when you think they aren't quick enough mentally for you. 

This quality can turn some men off and leave them looking for the door or someone else to talk to. If that does happen though, then he probably couldn't keep up with you in important areas anyway. 

CAPRICORN (December 22-January 19)

Capricorn ladies, you may have a tendency to feel distant to others, sometimes you may come across as cold a little at least yourself. You may have a serious countenance, you may have a serious and practical manner.

f you were put off by the people you were around in some way, then you may have been really reserved and even bored by those around . 

If a man has noticed this trait and returned that in kind, then he is likely struggling with some of his own issues and you probably sensed that about him anyway. 

AQUARIUS (January 20-February 18)

Aquarius women, you may know that you can sometimes come across as cold yourself. With that in mind, if you find a man has shut you down for seemingly no reason, here is why.

You may have shown the Aquarian quality of shutting people down quick if they don't appear to be quick on their feet in conversation. 

If he wasn't keeping an open mind and approaching things adventurously enough then you may have a tendency to be dismissive after you've noticed that about him. 

If that was the case then he likely felt that sting and has withdrawn confused. It's okay though because you will most likely be unconcerned and move onto someone or something more engaging anyway. 

PISCES (February 19-March 20)

Pisces women, in conversation with people that may not know you well yet, you may vibe on the odd side. No offense in that at all, just that you may seem to have something always below the surface that others sense but can't sort out.

This quality could leave a man feeling uncomfortable about what he just doesn't know. You may be a bit eccentric, really your very deep and there is a lot below the surface you don't share easily. 

If a man is put off by these qualities instead of being intrigued then he probably wouldn't be worth showing the deeper parts of yourself to anyway. 

Amanda Ilene Sawyer is a writer and Mississippi native who is interested in science, anthropology, and spiritualism. When she's not writing about astrology, numerology, and tarot, she enjoys running her business and designing macrame pieces for her Etsy shop.

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