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Why You Find Him Attractive But Things Never Work Out, Per Astrology

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Why Your Zodiac Signs Are Compatible But It Never Works Out, Per Zodiac Sign

Our zodiac sign can tell us a lot about ourselves, it gives us insight into our personalities that can be really helpful in our day to day lives, work, and relationships. It also can be a fairly accurate predictor of compatibility. There's a reason why you're still single and looking; you may be attracted to the right type of person but, for some reason, it doesn't work out just yet.

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Certain traits in the real world mesh together better than others so it makes sense your zodiac sign can help to point out what signs would fit best with yours. It’s a cheat sheet to help you avoid relationships that just won't work out. The traits were already there; the zodiac is just giving you a helpful nudge in the right direction.

It’s a science really. Star signs that fall at the beginning of the season tend to fit the best with Sun signs that fall at the end. As signs that are season beginners tend to be more dominant and in control and end of season sings are go with the flow and lead back they fit together and balance each other.

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But that's not always the case, especially with mid-season signs. For them, it’s much more on a zodiac to zodiac sign basis in astrology. They could be very compatible with a certain horoscope from the beginning or end of a season, but it can be tricky to pinpoint which ones are the best fit. 

The thing about attraction is it’s right away it’s there or it’s not. For some horoscope sign combos, the flame is there, but it fizzles out quickly. For others, the natural behaviors of their zodiacs just don't mix and there's nothing there at all. If you’re lucky, you can find someone whose interests and zodiac align with your own for that mythical eternal flame.

There's more than one compatible zodiac sign for everyone, so which one is the horoscope sign that you're super into, but probably won’t make it with when dating? Here's the run of each one in astrology.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

For all you rams out there your attraction to Gemini is immediate. You are both high energy multi-taskers and you’re drawn to their creativity and how much you two have in common. You can talk for hours and can easily exchange ideas freely. However, it’s these qualities that can lead to your downfall. You both are so high energy that your relationship can sometimes be hectic and this can lead to a lack of stability and inevitably your relationships tragic demise.

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20) 

For you, the willing and open nature of Libra is an immediate turn on. You both love to indulge and enjoy the finer things in life together. However because Libra is so naturally romantic and you’re so naturally indecisive this can make Libra feel ill at ease and will cause them to wonder if they made the right choice, no matter how good the physical relationship is.

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Your attraction to the motivated Capricorn is what gets this relationship started, you admire how driven and passionate they are. Capricorn respects you and is drawn in by your care-free nature, however, finance is to be the ultimate downfall here, you both love to enjoy life but when it comes to the important decisions, such as financials you are torn by Capricorns desire to spend frivolously and your natural frugal nature. This will rapidly become a big problem in your relationship which will inevitably divide you.

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

The free spirit of the Sagittarius is what draws you in at first. Their outgoing and social butterfly nature is charismatic and charming. However, where Sagittarius is flying high you’re much more down to earth. So while this is a fun and exciting relationship in the short term the Sag’s flighty nature and blunt tongue are bound to hurt your feelings and tear you apart long term.

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)

You and Sagittarius are similar in a lot of ways. You both have a great love of travel and adventure so you click immediately, you understand each other and for awhile, this is a very advantageous partnership. However, Sag’s tendency to be blunt and unforgiving can injure your ego and cause you to become resentful in the long term. Their cruel sincerity is something you can relate to but not necessarily handle in a partnership.

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

Initially, a partnership with Pisces seems like the perfect match, after all, opposites do attract. You have a lot in common and its fairly easy for both of you to agree on things despite your different temperaments. However, over time both of your generally unpredictable mood swings will separate you and a change in personality for both of you would have to be necessary for your relationship to be successful.

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

You will draw the attention of Gemini immediately, your story telling skills, and ongoing quests for social justice are inspiring. Your initial attraction is based on how well both of your two traits blend. However, you are a natural romantic and Gemini is always blowing in the wind, which makes you feel unstable and will eventually cause you to doubt if they really are the one for you, stability is key.

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

For you and Aries the initial attraction is steamy, to say the least, you are both highly romantic by nature and will appeal to each other's passionate side. You are the sensitive one in the relationship and Aries tends to be more hot-headed. When the power comes into play Aries wants to dominate and take the lead but you won't take that laying down. So naturally conflicts are bound to arise and disagreements are more common than not in long-term making it difficult to stay together.

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

You and Aries make one heck of a powerful combination, you’ll fall for each other fast and hard. You both are social by nature so you’ll have a great time together going out and enjoying the best of nightlife and social scenes.

But, your arguments have a tendency to get heated, fast. With Aries quick temper and your blunt tongue hurting each other's feelings is just another day in the life which means that in the long term you’re not a great match.

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

They say opposites attract, but for you and Gemini that may not be the case. You’re attracted to each other's personalities and different views on life but over time that starts to wear down. At first, your easy breezy ways seem attractive to Capricorn, and their serious no-nonsense is kind of sexy.

But after a while, you both realize that your differences maybe cant be put aside, you may just be too different to reconcile. Despite your steamy first encounters this is not meant to be.  

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

At the beginning you and Aries are attracted to each-others powerful and dominant personalities, you’re pulled in by their strength and free spirits. However, sometimes you’ll find it hard to connect, spiritually or psychologically.

You both are very well matched when it comes to intellect, but in other ways, you’ll have trouble establishing a deep connection. When it comes to looking for a long-term relationship you two are spiritually mismatched. 

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

The initial attraction between you and Aries at first is very strong and seems like a very appealing combination. But in the long term, this relationship is exhausting for both parties, it will be difficult to find common ground and you agree on almost nothing. Neither of you are very compassionate or considerate about each other's problems, and it will more often than not lead to some pretty intense fights.