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Falling in love with the wrong person is so heartbreaking.
By Josephine Fuller — Written on Aug 03, 2018
Sometimes you just fall in love with the wrong person. Why are the wrong people just so alluring? It's hard to tell unless you date them for a little while, and when you fall in love after a few great experiences with a person who isn't good for you, it's heartbreaking.
Whether it's their sense of humor, how they speak, or just their looks, on the surface they appear so nice. There are times when those good qualities are a trap.
They're hiding all these ugly things underneath good jokes and cute smiles. If you keep finding yourself in the same situation as this, you've wondered why and couldn't find out a clear answer.
Astrology may reveal why you keep falling for the wrong person or date them without seeing the red flags first, by looking at zodiac sign traits.
Yes, there are people who appear compatible for you, but at the end of the day, they are the wrong horoscope sign for your heart.
Sometimes it's hard to tell in the beginning if a guy is a winner. Not all of them are douche bags right off the bat, and sometimes we still go after the ones that are. It's hard deciding who we're going to let into our lives, and even harder when they hurt us.
Taking responsibility of who you attract and doing something about it is the only way to make sure the cycle gets broken and you actually end up with a decent guy.
He can tell you why you're going to fall for him, and why you shouldn't.
It can be hard, especially if you have a "type", to get past your usual dating habits. If you usually go for the hunky Aries who loves to work out, and you're a couch potato, it's probably time for a change. Not every zodiac sign is going to fit perfectly into the mold of what they're usually like, but it is a great guideline for how your new boo will be.
Don't let the pros outshine the cons.
If you love the way your Sagittarius cracks jokes all the time but hate literally everything else, it's probably time to move on.
Really get to know who this person is, and not with rose-colored glasses on. Find out about what each horoscope sign has that makes you fall for them, and then why it doesn't work out, according to astrology.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
The Aries men will draw you in with their confidence. Their enthusiasm and optimism will make it seem like nothing could go wrong in this relationship. And then it will. His impatience and aggressive tendencies will lead to your relationship 's demise.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
You will be attracted to their sensuality and how reliable they can be. The fact that they're usually surrounded by fancy things is also pretty nice. But not all that glitters is gold. The bulls can be very stubborn and possessive. Don't let their uncompromising ways rule your relationship.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
The Gemini seems like the good guy. He's gentle and affectionate, kind of like a puppy. But this puppy can be a total dog. His indecisive tendencies and inconsistent life will send you running.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers are huge sweethearts. They want to give you everything in the world and then some. If you don't have the proper reactions to good deeds, you could quickly come in contact with their moody side. Their insecurities and never-ending suspicions could quickly push you over the edge.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Will you let his arrogance and lazy ways get in the way of your dream relationship? Probably, and for good reason. Your Leo might be very kind and passionate, but don't let that make you overlook the bad side. Do what's best for you and leave.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
A Virgo will pull you in with their loyalty and hardworking attitude. Once you realize how critical he is of you, it'll send you over the edge. things you once loved about him will be things you now hate, and it's best to get out of there.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
You might think everything is going well until you realize he's just been avoiding confrontation and carrying a serious grudge toward you. All of that diplomacy and gratuity will flow out the window, along with any hope of a strong relationship.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
The Scorpio is the best friend that you fall in love with. It's great for a while until you start to see his jealous, violent and secretive ways. Once you see the darker side it'll definitely make you want to run, and you should.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
His corny jokes and constant optimism are going to make you form a giant crush on him. In a few months, you'll realize all that optimism was actually empty promises. The impatience and rude one-liners are what's going to send you over the edge.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Caps seem like they've got it all together. Responsible, disciplined, and they're great at managing their life. After they've drawn you in with all of that, they'll push you away when they start to try and manage YOUR life and show their condescending attitude. Run while you still can before you get sucked into their 5-year plan.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Everyone wants a man who's independent and constantly moving forward. But one who runs when they hear the word "commitment" or anything that has to do with emotions is not the dream.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
You think you're going to get a wonderful, emotionally adept boyfriend. You think it's going to be a fairytale, you're wrong. Pisces just want to escape reality, they're really sad and often fearful of everything. If you're ready for that, then go ahead. But if not, get out of there fast.