This Personality Test Reveals What You Secretly Find Least Attractive About Falling In Love

This Optical Illusions Test Reveals The Personality Traits You Secretly Find Least Attractive About Falling In Love
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What turns you off big time?

When you're in the first exciting stage of dating and starting a relationship with someone, it can be easy to see the world through rose-colored glasses. After all, falling in love is a transformative experience during which even our grumpiest personality traits are overtaken by our new found attraction to pretty much everything, so much so that even the rainiest days lose at some of their depressive characteristics.

Some days the optical illusions that burgeoning romantic relationships cast on our lives are so vivid you may as though you've entered the world of a old school musical and that you yourself are only one moment away from bursting into song as bluebirds circle above, joining you at the chorus.

Soon enough, however, the inevitable moment arrives when we have to face the truth that nothing and no one is perfect, even when it comes to love.

 

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No matter how much you dig your partner and no matter how happy you are in your relationship, there is something about falling in love, being in love, and maintaining that love that can be, well, less than perfect.

In fact, there are some aspects of being in love each of us doesn't find anything attractive about at all. Of course, it's not always easy to admit this to anyone, including to ourselves. After all, we don't want to come across as being cold or unfeeling.

Well my friends, you are in luck, because while you might not be able to figure out what it is you find unattractive about love, I can absolutely help you suss it out, and all with the help of this personality test. Once you know what to look for, you can keep your loving relationship strong without any chance of self-sabotage. It doesn't get much better than that!

Simply look at the picture below and make a mental note of the image you see first.

Then scroll down to find out what this optical illusions-based test reveals about the personality traits you secretly find least attractive about falling in love in new relationships.

If you saw ...

1. The astronomer

If you saw the astronomer first, the thing you find the least attractive about falling in love is allowing yourself to be vulnerable.

You've read the books, you've done your homework, and you know that in order to foster intimacy that goes the distance you need to let yourself be vulnerable, but to you, it feels like a fool's errand.

Try to remember that though you have been burned before, there's no way to know what will happen in the future. The best thing we can all do is learn from our mistakes, stay humble, and resolve to be unafraid to let love inside.

2. The telescope

If you saw the telescope first, the thing you find the least attractive about falling in love is learning that the person you love has flaws.

You know that nobody's perfect, but to you there is something just crushing and awful about the first moment you realize the person you love isn't always going to live up to the heights of that pedestal you put them on.

Unfortunately, leaving someone the minute you realize they are a human being won't solve your problems. No matter who you love, there will always be a moment in time when you realize that they have their imperfections. Focus on embracing reality instead of running from it.

 

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3. The face

If you saw the face first, the thing you find the least attractive about falling in love is the rosy-colored glow it gives to everything around you.

You know it's nice, but you're also a realist and you hate knowing that something as trifling as "having feelings" could ever impact you the way it does other mere mortals.

Accept that happiness can come with the territory and it isn't something to sneer at. Some people go lifetimes without experiencing what you happen to have stumbled into right now.

4. The bridge

If you saw the bridge first, the thing you find the least attractive about falling in love is the way it can isolate you.

Of course, everybody goes through a so-called "nesting" period when they first start dating someone, but you fear that taking this time could make your friends resent you, or worse still, forget you!

Balancing your friendships with your romantic relationship isn't an easy feat, and there's often a learning curve - people know that. Go easy on yourself and take the time you need to get into the swing of things. Real friends will still be there when you are ready to reconnect.

 

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Rebecca Jane Stokes is a writer living in Brooklyn, New York with her cat, Batman. She hosts the love and dating advice show, Becca After Dark on YourTango's Facebook Page every Tuesday and Thursday at 10:15 pm Eastern. For more of her work, check out her Tumblr.

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