What He Loves Most About Sex, According To His Zodiac Sign

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What you love most about sex and what you’re best at in bed can be VERY different, but if you look to astrology and to your horoscope, knowing your zodiac sign's preferences when it comes to sex can be really helpful when trying to determine what your guy is really looking for (and LOVING) in the bedroom.

For example, I love being on top during sex, but am I good at it? Not really. Especially after I’ve had a few drinks; then I’m more like a zombie about to topple over.


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But anyway. My point is, these topics can lead to two totally different conversations — what you're good at (and what you are shy about) and what he (or you) REALLY loves about sex anyway (whether or not you think you're any good at it).



When you think about what you love to do in bed, you might think about how your partner makes you feel, but there are some things about sex that are, well, personal to each one of us.

We all have those weird little things we like that we don't tell anyone about.

Maybe he lights candles and makes the whole night about what you want, or maybe she’s scary good at being dominant and has a ton of tricks up her sleeve to keep things interesting and romantic all at the same time.


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When you think about what you’re really good at, you probably think more about your own skills — whether that be how good you are at dirty talk or your secret (and very effective trick) to making him moan.

But whatever it is that you LOVE most in bed – whether you’re actually any good at it or not – you probably look for a partner who can complement your interests; that is what makes sex most enjoyable, after all.

If you already have a partner then you know what I’m talking about, but if you don’t, then you’re probably actively or even subconsciously looking for someone who is good at doing what you love most in bed (see how I linked the two together?).


Once you find that partner, whether you’re looking for long-term or you just want to keep things casual and low key, you need to find out what he’s interested in so he keeps coming back.

The way to do that is simple: you need to learn more about him.

Of course, if you’re only ever having casual sex with each other, there might not be a lot of opportunities to get to know each other better.

So, how do you remedy this? You find out what his zodiac sign is. Duh. That way, you can figure out what he loves most about sex without going through the awkward conversation about it, or worse, trying everything in the book until he responds positively to something.

So, if you’re curious about what his zodiac sign is crazy about in bed, keep reading. You might even be able to use this information to your advantage next time you’re together.

ARIES (Mar 21 - Apr 19)

Aries what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

Aries is a pretty adventurous person in general, so it’s no surprise that he likes bringing this adventurous spirit into the bedroom, too. What he really loves most about sex is trying new things.

This can mean positions or places, but either way, if it’s exciting or daring, he’s totally in.

This need for excitement isn’t always fulfilled by his partners, so when he does find someone who is willing to be just as adventurous as he is, it makes the sex that much better.

When sleeping with an Aries, you don’t often have to worry about what he’s thinking or what he really wants in bed. Why? Aries obviously isn’t afraid to speak his mind and that doesn’t change in the bedroom.

You don’t even have to be that adventurous either; as long as you’re open-minded, you’ll have a good time together.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)


TAURUS (Apr 20 - May 20)

Taurus what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

What Taurus loves the most about sex might be a little weird to some, but to him, it makes perfect sense. Being such a sensual, romantic person, Taurus prefers to “make love” rather than “have sex.” And to him, there is a difference.

Having sex can be so impersonal, which Taurus is NOT a fan of. Even if he’s in a casual relationship, he likes taking things slow and being romantic.

To Taurus, making love is about getting to know the other person’s body. It’s more about making a connection, even if only for one night, rather than tearing each other’s clothes off and getting it over with.

When having sex with Taurus, expect to be busy all night; he wants to be the guy you can’t stop talking about, even after it’s over.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)


GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Gemini what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

For Gemini, variety is the spice of life. He hates being bored in bed and if your routine is exactly that – a routine – he’ll lose interest fast. Gemini is naturally a multi-talented man, so when it comes to sex, he’s good at a LOT of different things.

That said, he likes being with someone who thinks like he does, so he needs a partner who is down for whatever.

Gemini’s love for anything different and exciting also stems from his fear that sex will one day get boring. He would rather spice it up constantly now and then get into a routine later (once he’s found a partner for life), instead of doing the same move over and over again.

Keep things interesting and you’ll keep your Gemini man happy.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)


CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

Cancer what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

Cancer lets his more sensitive side show in the bedroom, which often leads to some very sensual sessions. What Cancer loves most about sex is simple: romance.

He loves lighting candles, putting on soft music, covering the bed in rose petals… the works. It doesn’t matter if you’re just friends with benefits or something more, Cancer loves making the night as romantic as possible.

Romance might not be your thing, but if you’re getting together with a Cancer, that opinion will surely change. He’s the type of partner to get you to think about sex as more than just a physical activity.

Instead, he wants sex to be something that makes his partner feel loved and cared for.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)

LEO (July 23 - Aug 22)

Leo what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

Leo loves being a leader in life, so it’s no surprise that he likes being dominant in the bedroom. He doesn’t like being told what to do, but he does like being the one to call the shots.

Expect a lot of communication between you and Leo, too, because he knows that his words can be persuasive, so why not use them in the bedroom?

Leo has a way of making pretty much everything look sexy, so even if you’re not much into the dominant/submissive dynamic, he can change your mind pretty quickly.

One thing people forget about Leo, however, is that he isn’t selfish in bed. Just because he’s in charge doesn’t mean he isn’t going to take care of your needs, too. Leo can be both generous and in command.

READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)


VIRGO (Aug 23 - Sep 22)

Virgo what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

On the other side of the spectrum, Virgo loves being submissive the most. He spends much of his time taking care of others, including friends, family, and his significant others, so it’s only natural that he would want to move himself into the role of being cared for.

It isn’t so much that he likes being dominated, but rather that he likes having someone tend to his needs.

Virgo often takes care of his partner during sex, being more of a giver than a receiver, but being in a submissive role is something he loves more than anything.

Instead of tending to someone’s every need, he can completely relax and unwind. This balance of caregiver in everyday life and being cared for in the bedroom is what brings balance to his life.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

LIBRA (Sept 23 - Oct 22)

Libra what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

For Libra, sex is all about harmony, so the thing he loves most about sex is connecting with the other person.

He’s all about give and take, which means that sex needs to be equally as satisfying for both people. More than that though, connecting with his partner is important to Libra because he doesn’t really like the idea of not knowing who he’s sleeping with.

Connecting with his partner is actually very sexy to a Libra man. It means he can explore your body – and let you explore his – so that sex becomes more intimate instead of just something to do.

This might be wildly different from the relationships you’ve had before, but you’ll definitely never forget what it’s like to have sex with a Libra man.

READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)


SCORPIO (Oct 23 - Nov 21)

Scorpio what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

Scorpio loves one thing about sex more than anything else: being rough. Because he’s already an incredibly passionate and intense person, being rough in bed is the only obvious choice for Scorpio.

Making love or taking your time during sex doesn’t appeal to him as much simply because it’s not in his nature to be attracted to these things.

If you want to get more specific about Scorpio’s interest, “being rough” really means everything from hickeys and spanking to making the walls shake. Scorpio is guaranteed to go all out when being rough, so if you can’t handle it, you better find another partner.

That said, Scorpio still cares about the comfort of his partner and wants them to enjoy themselves, but he’s still going to want to take things to the next level, as long as he knows they’re comfortable.

READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)

SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 - Dec 19)

Sagittarius what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

If you asked Sagittarius what makes life most exciting, he would probably say something along the lines of “being spontaneous.”

Sagittarius loves bringing this unexpected thrill to the bedroom, too… or rather, NOT the bedroom. Sagittarius’ spontaneity often means that he can get frisky anytime, anywhere.

What does that mean for you? It means being up for having sex in places besides your bed, if you get my drift. He isn’t so much into it because he’s an exhibitionist, but rather because he doesn’t want his sex life to get boring.

And constantly having sex in a bedroom is considered boring to him.

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CAPRICORN (Dec 20 - Jan 19)

Capricorn what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

Capricorn finds sex to be hottest when he’s doing it with someone he loves. I know, I know, it might not be your cup of tea, but he honestly enjoys sex most when he knows that the person he’s with is someone he cares about most.

Being someone who is always looking for that special someone to spend the rest of his life with, sex is really just part of this search.

Capricorn’s desire to have sex with someone he loves also stems from how this makes him feel. Being with someone familiar is important to him because it makes him feel safe. Instead of having infrequent, erratic relationships with friends with benefits and one night stands, sex with a soulmate is his ultimate goal.

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AQUARIUS (Jan 20 - Feb 18)

Aquarius what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

Aquarius likes bringing innovation and originality into all aspects of his life, and his sex life is no exception. What Aquarius loves most about sex are the endless possibilities of getting creative.

Toys, positions, costumes – he’ll try it all.

This isn’t just to find what he likes best, but also to be able to say, “Yeah I’ve done that already,” and be in a league of his own when it comes to sex.

Aquarius is very progressive when it comes to sex, so he’s often ahead of the curve when a new trend or position starts getting popular. He might not necessarily love everything he tries, but at least he can say he’s tried it.

What’s more, having a partner who’s up to try pretty much everything with him is a huge bonus.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)


PISCES (Feb 19 - Mar 20)

Pisces what each zodiac sign loves most about sex

Some people think Pisces’ dreamy nature gets him into too much trouble, but it actually helps him in the bedroom. What Pisces loves most about sex is fantasy and he’s constantly looking for ways to incorporate it when he’s with his partner.

He is naturally a very imaginative person, so it’s not uncommon to hear him talk about crazy things he wants to try in the bedroom.

Fantasy has a broad meaning for Pisces, so you never really know what he wants to try until he explains it to you. It could mean role playing, dressing up, or dirty talk, but whatever he wants to try, Pisces is surprisingly more open-minded than people give him credit for.

Don’t let his romantic mind fool you; he can be just as freaky as some of the other signs.

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