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Your Man's Biggest Insecurity According To His Zodiac Sign

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Trying to live a life where your insecurities follow you everywhere is really, really hard. Watching someone you love trying to deal with them is just as difficult.

Insecurities hold us back from being who we want to be and doing what we want to do, and often times it feels like there's nothing we can do about it.

Insecurities come in all shapes and sizes — they don’t always have to do with hating something physical about ourselves. Some of them have to do with things we dislike about our personalities.

Sometimes it’s getting irrationally angry, and not being able to help ourselves. Other times, it’s our inability to trust someone — even if we really do love the person. 

Everyone has their own way of dealing with their insecurities, but most people don't realize that they don't have to deal with them alone. Insecurities don't absolutely have to be a burden on your life if you can feel comfortable enough to step out of your box and get help from someone you love.

Sometimes, you just need the right partner with the right amount of patience and understanding to sit by your side and help you work your way out of these insecurities and into a life where you can be your confident self.

If you look to astrology and to your horoscope, it gets easier to identify the zodiac signs that need someone who can help them see their self-worth. Many of us have insecurities that hold us back, but sometimes we honestly just need a little push from someone other than ourselves to get us back on track and focused on being happy.

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You can't force yourself to ditch your zodiac sign insecurities — these things take time and effort, but even with that, it can still feel like an uphill battle. But, surrounding yourself with people that love and understand you is the first step in attempting to shed the insecurities that lurk behind you and rid of them forever. 

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

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An Aries man’s major insecurity is that he moves too fast, whether it’s in life or love. He’s a bit impatient and won’t sit around waiting for the stars to align for him to make a move, he’ll make it anyway.

When an Aries man finds a partner who matches his pace, everything feels like it equals out and they work together.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

taurus zodiac sign insecurities

A Taurus man’s number one insecurity is that they often need reassurance from their partner when they’re in a relationship. He starts to get anxious and feels like his relationship isn’t the same anymore, and asks questions like “how do you actually feel about me?” even if the relationship has been ongoing for years.

A Taurus man needs his partner to be gentle and patient with him, even when it gets hard.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

gemini zodiac sign insecurities

One of a Gemini man’s insecurities is that he can’t make up his mind. He wants too many things at the same time, and sometimes, that gets in the way of a relationship.

For a Gemini to be successful, he and his partner need to always be on the same page, mentally and emotionally.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

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A Cancer man’s top insecurity is his self-worth. He doesn't’t believe he is worthy of any love or affection, and this will definitely hurt a relationship.

In a relationship, a Cancer man needs his partner to be loyal and understanding. He needs security in a relationship to help him lighten up and see his potential.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

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Leo men are most insecure about their tendency to be lazy. They can’t help it, but they don’t always do everything by themselves not because they can’t, but because they don't want to.

A Leo man needs his partner to be his guidepost and ultimate motivator. Someone to help keep him on track is beneficial to his success and growth as a person. 

READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

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A Virgo man’s major insecurity is his inability to trust others. He’s opened his heart up to too many people and has been hurt too many times.

A Virgo man needs his partner to be all in. Not that he’s looking for a partner for life, but rather someone who he can trust and won’t give up when they get bored. 

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

libra zodiac sign insecurities

Libra men are very insecure about their tendency to always put everything into a relationship, and then end up getting hurt. A Libra cares too much, too quickly, and it always leaves him in pieces.

A Libra’s partner needs to also be his best friend, someone he can always turn to.

READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

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One of a Scorpio man’s biggest insecurities is his constant need to always be right. Arguments will last for hours just for the sake of a Scorpio being right, even when he's wrong.

In a relationship, a Scorpio man desperately needs a partner that has respect for him and his opinion. He needs someone to understand his side of everything, even if it’s bogus.

READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

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A Sagittarius man’s major insecurity is his lack of commitment. Sometimes, he just isn’t reliable.

But, when a Sagittarius finds a partner to match his pace, he begins to feel a sense of reliability coming back to him.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

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Capricorn men are most insecure about failing. They work so hard, yet they have this fear in the back of their mind that they are going to fail no matter what they do.

A Capricorn’s partner needs to help him relax and enjoy life as it is and help him realize it’s OK to fail sometimes. It’s part of life.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

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An Aquarius man’s biggest insecurity is his temper. Often times, he gets easily angry at small problems, rather than letting them go.

Just like everyone else, an Aquarius man needs his partner to be patient and give him time to recuperate when his attitude heats up.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

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A Pisces man’s major insecurity is that he fears for what people think about them. He keeps himself contained and never shows his real self, fearing people will judge him.

A Pisces man doesn’t need his partner to “fix” him, he needs his partner to be just as outgoing and eccentric as he is. When he realizes his partner is as goofy as he is, he’ll start showing his real self in no time.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces (As Written By A Pisces)