5 Things You Can Do To Give Yourself WAY Better Orgasms

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Let's pretend that you just had an orgasm.

WOW. That orgasm seemed like it was pretty good, right? I'm going to assume you're nodding, which I'll take to mean you agree with my assessment. (Also I'm sorry I didn't ask for your consent before walking into your room — that was creepy of me.)

Moving on. If you know how to have an orgasm and you have them reliably, it can leave you feeling trapped in a familiar cycle of pleasure that never quite blows your socks off. 


The good news is, there's a way to fix that. When just having an orgasm isn't enough, there are plenty of things you can do to make your orgasms EVEN BETTER.

Fortunately, AdamandEve.com can help — in more ways than one. Not only do they have everything you'd need to super-charge your orgasm, but, if you enter the code TANGO at checkout, you can get 50% off (!) almost any single item of your choice and free shipping on your entire order in the US. (Of course, certain exclusions apply.)

They also offer a 100% satisfaction guarantee, backed by a 90-day no-hassle return/exchange policy, so, if you get something that is not quite right, you aren't stuck with it. (Bless 'em.)


Now that you know where to get the tools, if you want to take your pleasure to the next level, here are five easy ways to up your orgasm game. 

1. Own multiple vibrators 

One of the best ways to get into an orgasm rut (a wonderful rut, but a rut all the same) is to use the same vibrator, in the same way, every single time. Women's sex toys are a gift from the goddess, but, if you keeping using the same brand over and over again, your body gets used to having an orgasm in exactly the same way. 


You want to surprise an orgasm out of your body, and just like that time you threw a surprise party for your cousin Steve, the best way to do it to make sure your body doesn't see the surprise coming. 

You can do this by investing in more than one vibrator. Got one that buzzes on your clitoris? Grand! How about experiencing a classic Magic Massager? Or one that is suction-based?  Or a high-end one that self-thrusts? (The future is now.) Keep the vibrators coming and your orgasms will be fresher than a tube of Pillsbury rolls — and that's DAMN fresh. 

2. Use lube 



Lube. Is. Always. GOOD. 

Sure, when you are having sex, you want to make sure there's some friction, but you don't want friction that's going to lead to chafing, burning, or microscopic tears that become infected. 

So whether you're having anal sex or vaginal sex, play with lube! I mean, don't just play with it, use it too. 

Novelty lubes that warm your body up isn't a bad way to get your feel extra orgasmic, either. 

3. Explore your backdoor


Sure, we're women. This means we don't have prostates. But that doesn't mean our backdoors have to be a no-go when it comes to sex or masturbation. Start off small, sticking a finger inside of your anus. Like the sensation? Awesome.

Now, buy a small anal plug or an anal massager (like the Adam & Eve L'Arque Massager) and insert it the next time you are having sex, masturbating, or just feel like channeling your inner freak as you go about your daily life. This added pressure could lead to orgasms so fly Spiderman would eat them for lunch. And, if the sensation works for you, there are SO many options when it comes to anal sex toys for women — your explorations can continue at your own pace.

4. Play in the water 



Sex is all about experiencing pleasurable sensations and heightening them. Sure, your sheets feel great brushing up against your skin during sex, but that's old hat. Try introducing new sensations, like water. Note: I do not mean pouring water on yourself a la Flashdance, but if you feel so moved, who am I to judge?

What I DO mean is try out exploring your body in the bathtub or shower with some waterproof toys. (The Adam and Eve Thruster or the Wild Butterfly Massager also make GREAT options.) Nothing like getting wet when you're getting wet! 

5. Explore your fantasies 


Say the words "roleplaying" or "sex fantasies" and most of us tend to crinkle our noses. But role-playing and fantasies don't have to be cheesy, nor do they have to be the last resort of a couple in a sexual drought. If you're nervous about exploring new grounds, find a company that sells "beginner" bondage gear. Get acquainted with things like bondage tape, fantasy gear, or an under-the-bed restraint system.

Explore the kinks that interest you and see how examining those hidden corners of your mind can affect your orgasms! I think you'll find they make the whole experience SO much more fulfilling — who knew that orgasms could get even BETTER? 

I am so excited about the journey you're about to have! (Please, do not send postcards.)

Remember to visit AdamandEve.com to find every orgasm-enhancing bit of gear we mentioned above AND enter the code TANGO at checkout to get 50% off almost any single item AND free shipping in the US!


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