3 Reasons Men Go Absolutely Crazy For Big, Beautiful Plus-Size Women

Curves, curves, and more curves.

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I'm a young, good-looking (I've been told this, by women and men), college-educated, employed man. And I just so happen to have a preference for plus-size women.

What do guys think about plus-size women?

Now, I'm betting I'm getting reactions from two "sectors" of readers. The first sector is saying, "So, you think you deserve a medal because you like big women? That's not something you're supposed to brag about," and the second saying, "You like fat women ... so what? Why write about that?"


For those in the first aisle of bleachers, I decided to write about my adoration of curvy women because there may be more than a few of them out there who don't know that there are attractive men who want to date or lust after them ... or marry them.

We live in an imperfect, unfair existence, and shapely women sometimes don't get the public fawning that smaller women do. It may not be the experience of all plus-size girls, but it is for far too many.

Guys do like both skinny and curvy girls, it just depends what they're into really. 

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For those of you of the second opinion, my intent isn't to waste your time. But I figure if I tell you about the kind of women that drive me crazy (in a good way), then maybe it will inspire someone else to share an account of what makes their heart skip a beat.

Do men like plus-size women? As a man, I feel like it's important to come out and say, loudly, that I dig BBWs (Big Beautiful Women) because lots of women want to know, what do guys think about plus size women? But what is it about plus-size ladies that turns me on?

Here's why men like plus-size women.

1. They're confident and comfortable in their own skin.

Big women are beautiful.

Many plus-size women are attractive because they have natural confidence, much like their thinner counterparts, but many bigger women may not. These women usually develop confidence over time, and it's hard-earned confidence.


Unfortunately, a large number of curvy women may have had to go through abuse (mental, and possibly physical) and ridicule in their younger, and even adult years. That's beyond sad but what’s actually wonderful about this awful treatment is that once these ladies get through it, brush themselves off, and thrive, they end up possessing an air of confidence that's regal, special, and magical. 

And it's really sexy.

Ever seen a curvy queen stroll through a party, and slay, effortlessly? I have — and it's hot. I totally respect it. It's earned confidence that also doubles as a victory lap for a woman who's determined to win at life and you can see she's able to feel good in her own body. 

And I can't get enough.


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2. Their curves are super-hot.

Why you should date a plus-size girl? Curves, curves, and more curves, that's why.

A BBW just does it for me. There's something about a shapely figure, individual style, and again, confidence, that drives me wild. Not that I don't notice thin women. I do. I have. Full disclosure: I've dated thin women in my time, but my preference is BBW.

3. Their butts are to die for.

What do guys find most attractive? Butts.

Seriously. ​I'm a lifelong butt man. Smaller women can have nice fannies, but no one does junk in the trunk like plus-size women.


If a guy doesn't turn his head when a hot BBW walks past wearing leggings, he's blind. Or gay. Or crazy. He's not one of my homeboys.

Plus-size women rock and I want everyone to know.

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Greg Simms Jr. is a veteran writer, editor, and pop culture critic. He has an interest in lifestyle, self-love, and sex topics.