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7 Sexy Moves Men Secretly Wish You'd Make In The Bedroom

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By Sujeiry Gonzalez

Have you ever wondered what men really want in bed? I have. There’s been moments where I’ve nibbled on my boo’s ear and wondered: "Am I doing this right? Does he like it?"

Yes, moans are a great indication of a job well done, but men can fake feeling good just like women can. As a matter of fact, a Time Out study discovered that 30 percent of New York men have faked an orgasm. 

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So, let’s get a few sex tips straight from the horse's mouth, shall we? Here’s what men want you to know about what they like in bed: 

1. Take control.

As much as our hombres love to be "macho macho" men, they also love being dominated. Maybe it’s a mommy thing; Latina moms are no joke!

Regardless of the reason, climb on top of him, grab him by the wrists and make him your bitch. You can even use whips, chains or a blindfold. Ask your man what he prefers, and ask him how rough he wants it.

Make sure to choose a safety word!

2. Blow him.

Who knew?! Kidding.

Men love blowjobs. It’s quick (if you’re doing it right and know his sweet spot), and you can blow him pretty much anywhere. One man even told me he loves “spontaneous BJs.” So get on your knees and blow, chicas

3. Talk dirty.

Men love it when you utter filthy words in their ear. “I want a woman to tell me what she wants in a really nasty way,” said one chico from Boston.

How nasty? It depends on the guy. Some men love it when women curse. Others want a woman to talk about how much you love their junk. Describe it in graphic detail, explaining how good it feels in your.... you get the jist. 

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4. Show him what you want.

“I love it when a woman takes my hand and puts inside her,” one hombre admitted. It’s not because he doesn’t know how to find your spot; he just thinks it’s sexy when a woman can lead the way.

Again, men love it when women are aggressive and confident in bed. Show him what you want with your fingertips!

5. Masturbate in front of him.

Whether you are using a vibrator on your clitoris or using just your hands, masturbating is such a turn on for men. You can touch yourself pre-sex, or you can just masturbate in front of him while he jerks himself off.

“It’s a fantasy,” one guy admitted, “maybe because of porn, but it’s hot to watch a girl give herself an orgasm.” Yes, chicas, men love voyeurism. Put your hands in your panties, and put on a one-woman show! 

6. Talk to him in Spanish.

It isn’t a cliche; men love it when you speak to them in Spanish during sex. Call him “papi” or tell him to give it to you duro while he’s sexing you doggy style in front of a mirror. No matter what words you choose, he will be in heaven! There’s nothing like the mother tongue to turn a man on.

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7. Praise him.

All men want to feel like they are the best you’ve ever had. So praise him like the Greek god he wants to be.

During the act, tell him how good it feels when he licks you there. Tell him that he’s driving you loca because his Johnson is in control. That will not only boost his confidence, but it will also motivate him to open up about what he wants sexually.

He will tell you what he truly desires, and that’s what you want — because he’s the horse that really matters. 

This article was originally published at Latina. Reprinted with permission from the author.