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How To Handle Your Boyfriend's Friendship With His Ex

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Does your man maintain a relationship with this ex-girlfriend?

Is your boyfriend still close with his ex? Does their relationship make you uncomfortable? If so, you're in luck.

In this video, dating coach and Your Tango Expert Annie Gleason gives advice on what to do if you find yourself in that situation. She explains that it's natural to feel jealous that your man is still friends with an ex-girlfriend.

So what should you do? Annie Gleason says to let him have the friends he wants, even if that happens to be an ex. "I think your job is to reframe your attitude so that you're seing it from a positive prospective — that you trust him, and that you're learning to trust him more. Because that way, he's going to act in a more trustworthy manner anyways."

To learn more, check out the video above.

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