What Does His Kiss Mean? 9 Types Of Kisses Decoded!

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The Best Kissing Tips For How To Kiss A Guy Or Girl Like You Mean It
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There are many different ways to kiss your lover, and knowing how to kiss a guy or girl in certain ways allows you to communicate something different about what or how you're feeling in the moment, whether you're making out, making up or out in public on a date.

But usually, when you're on the receiving end of any of these types of kisses, it's hard to channel your inner Jane Goodall and make notes about the experience.

Don't worry, y'all.

We've got you covered with both kissing tips, as well as the scoop on what kisses of different kinds mean.

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Here's a field guide to the major types of kisses, how to kiss a guy or girl like you mean it, and what you're saying with every smooch.

1. The Peck

Sounds innocent, doesn't it? But this quick lip-on-lip contact still sends a message.

The primary one?

"I want to kiss you and — hopefully, sometime soon — make out, but it's early and we're not there yet, so this peck on the lips is a suggestion that there is to be much more smooching in our future."

2. The Long Peck

This is a lingering, closed-mouth kiss on the lips. It's very sensual, yet still somewhat chaste and restrained. It's how grown-ups say, "We are so about to make out big-time."

This extended peck is usually followed by a knowing smirk and, sometimes, an audible "mmmm ..."

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3. The Woodpecker

These are rapid-fire pecks. Playful and cute, these say, "I really like you, a lot, but I don't want to get myself all worked up right now."

These kisses convey a lot of affection without allowing things to get too hot and heavy.

It's also a good option when it comes to PDA. No one wants to watch you swallow each other's faces while they're having their morning coffee.

4. The French Kiss

The French kiss is the king of kisses and involves open mouths and some form of tongue interaction.

It's too complex and nuanced for one description, so we've broken it down even further:

  • Standard French Kiss: Moving your open lips against each other with some tongue interplay can be very sweet, very hot, very passionate, or all of the above. This kiss really gets the hormones racing and says, "I would like to sleep with you."
  • Tongue Tango French Kiss: Ideally an elegant ballet of tongue play, the Tongue Tango occurs when the tips of the tongues push off of each other and twist around. This kiss says "I think outside the box in and out of bed" This kiss, however, is a close relative of the dreaded Lizard Kiss, where tongues dart in a stabbing, lizard-like motion. What's the lizard's saying? "I am a creep." So be careful.
  • He's Eating My Mouth French Kiss: This kiss leaves the kissee with what we call a saliva beard. Basically, the kisser opens his or her mouth as wide as possible, rolls their tongue all around and down their partner's throat and then, inexplicably, slides it all over their poor partner's face. This kiss says, "I want you to think I'm really sexual and passionate but in reality, I am totally oblivious to your vibe and will probably stink in bed. Big time."

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5. Love Bites

Getting in a little nip of the lip or neck means "I'm playful," and might also reveal that you're not totally opposed to a little bit of pain with your pleasure.

Try not to draw blood, though.

6. I Love You/I Hate You

This one involves a sudden, passionate embrace after bickering.

This kiss is unchoreographed mayhem at its best. It says, "You make me so mad and I can't stand you but I must have you and that makes me even more mad which makes me want you even more, damn you!!!"

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7. Hard-mouth-closed

This one is featured in many classic films. It occurs when the leading man finally pins down his female nemesis/love interest and plants one on her. It's often accompanied by a wrist grab so that you don't push him away, you firebrand!

It says, "I'm going to teach you not to sass me and give me guff, by gum!"

8. Against The Wall

"I want you so bad."

Although this kiss usually happens spontaneously and in a semi-public setting (e.g. alleyway, bar bathroom, book reading, etc.), you always wish there was a bed nearby that you could collapse into, because — damn it! — this is hot!

9. The Bend Back

Old-fashioned and romantic, he leans into you and bends you backward, often with one hand holding the small of your back, and the other placed gently against the side of your face. Swoony.

This is generally for people who are uber-comfortable with each other, have a sense of humor and are absolutely crazy about each other.

This kiss says, "Darling, I am yours. Hold onto your petticoats as my white steed approaches to whisk us away to fairy-land."

Yeah, it's a fun one.

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Gwendolyn Bond-Upson is a freelance writer and frequent contributor to YourTango.

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