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6 Dirty Text Messages: Powerful Sexting Advice

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6 Dirty Text Messages: Powerful Sexting Advice
6 Dirty Text Messages That Will Turn Him On, Build Sexual Tension & Keep Him Thinking About You.

Sending your man dirty text messages is a great way to keep him thinking about you and to turn him on when you are not together. It's actually something that I talk about in great detail.

(P.S. These are just a small section of the dirty talking tips from the Bad Girl's Bible site).

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Pre-Foreplay - A really great use for dirty text messages is so that they act like a kind of 'pre-foreplay' or 'foreplay before foreplay' with your man, turning him on before you even see him.

The key to sending a good pre-foreplay dirty text message is to be only a little bit explicit with what you say. In other words, don't go overboard. This will make him fill in the blanks with his mind, wondering exactly what you're talking about. So maybe you'd like to see some example dirty text messages that you could send to your man...

Can't wait to see you later, got a little surprise for you! x

What do you want me to wear later? Use your imagination!

Guess what color panties I'm going to wear tonight?

Another way is to send him pictures of things that you want to try with him. One example would be different sexual positions.

Keep Him Thinking About You - Pre-Foreplay type text messages are certainly great for turning him on and getting ready for sex, but what about some text messages that aren't so dirty and keep you on his mind all day long?

No problem. I got you covered with this detailed section on dirty text messages.

The key to sending your man dirty text messages that keep him thinking about you is that you need to be slightly ambiguous, while letting him know that you were thinking about him. But again, you don't necessarily have to be that explicit or nasty in what you send.

Here are a few examples of what you could send to your man:

Just saw something that made me think of you x

Had the weirdest dream about you last night...

Did I see you in the mall/on main street/at the movies/wherever today.

Notice how these text messages will keep you on his mind without being totally nasty and dirty.

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Use Dirty Text Messages From Time To Time - One of the biggest problems people have when they start using dirty text messages and sending them to their partner is that they go overboard with them. The notice that they work really well the first few times they use them, so they start using them all the time.

Unfortunately if you use dirty text messages all the time, then they will lose their effectiveness. Instead, if you want them to retain their effectiveness, then you need to use them sparingly. This way, your partner will never know when they are going to receive one from you. 

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