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Here's Some Powerful Sexting Advice To Keep Things SPICY!

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These 6 dirty text messages will surely keep his attention!

Sending your man dirty text messages is a great way to keep him thinking about you and sex when you are not together. It's actually something that I talk about in great detail.

So, if you want to learn how to sext, here is some great sexting advice you should follow if you really want to surprise and titillate your man.

1. Make an effort with pre-foreplay.

Sexting steamy messages to your guy can be a great pre-foreplay or "foreplay before foreplay," turning him on before you even see him.

The key to learning how to sext and sending a good pre-foreplay dirty text message is to be only a little bit explicit with what you say. In other words, don't go overboard. This will make him fill in the blanks with his mind, wondering exactly what you're talking about.

So, maybe you'd like to see some example dirty text messages that you could send to your man:

  • Can't wait to see you later, got a little surprise for you!
  • What do you want me to wear later? Use your imagination!
  • Guess what color panties I'm going to wear tonight?

Another way is to send him pictures of things that you want to try with him. One example would be different sexual positions.

2. Keep him thinking about you.

Pre-foreplay type text messages are certainly great for turning him on and getting ready for sex, but what about some text messages that aren't so dirty and keep you on his mind all day long?

The key to sexting your man dirty text messages that keep him thinking about you is that you need to be slightly ambiguous while letting him know that you were thinking about him. But again, you don't necessarily have to be that explicit or nasty in what you send.

Here are a few examples of what you could send to your man:

  • Just saw something that made me think of you. 
  • Had the weirdest dream about you last night...
  • Did I see you in the mall/on main street/at the movies/wherever today?

Notice how these text messages will keep you on his mind without being totally nasty and dirty.

3. Use dirty text messages from time to time.

One of the biggest problems people have when they start learning how to sext and start sending them to their partner is that they go overboard with them. The notice that they work really well the first few times they use them, so they start using them all the time.

Unfortunately, if you use dirty text messages all the time, they will lose their effectiveness. Instead, if you want them to retain their effectiveness, then you need to use them sparingly. This way, your partner will never know when they are going to receive one from you. 

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If you want to learn more about writing and sending dirty text messages to your man, then you will find my most powerful & naughty advice on this page, where I share my best dirty talking tips and sex techniques. It will show you everything you need to know about how to have a fun & exciting sex life.

 

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