This is why he's into you.
You’re ready to love again... at least you think you are. You had a bad breakup and you took the time to heal, or maybe you’ve never really fallen in love before and you want to feel those feelings. It can be difficult to know if what you’re doing will attract that wonderful, exciting love that you so deserve.
There’s a lot of advice out there on how to find love and they all vary greatly, but some suggestions on finding love continue to make sense even though they’ve been around for ages. Since love is a natural part of the human experience, it makes sense that the things that attract love into our lives are instinctual.
You can’t have a lasting love unless you’ve made space for that love in your heart and your life. If your heart is closed to love, there’s no place for it to go. This means it’s probably best if you’re over your ex and that you’re at a place where you’re open to the idea of a relationship.
If you want someone to love you, you need to love yourself. Yes, it’s a cliché but that doesn’t mean that it’s wrong. How can you respect the person who loves you if you think you’re unlovable and that there may be something wrong with them for loving you?
You also need to have a life that is wonderful and challenging all on its own. You shouldn’t depend on someone else to make your life better — it’s up to you to create the kind of life you want.
Being loved is incredible and we all deserve it. When you’re your best self and living a fantastic life, you will attract love. Who wouldn’t want to be associated with someone exciting, dynamic, and fabulous?
Here’s how to find love that you deserve, based on your zodiac sign.
You aren't afraid to put yourself out there. You almost always say yes — to spontaneous weekend getaways, group activities such as paintball, and even charity events like fundraisers and marches. Sometimes the best things in life come from the unplanned and the unexpected.
You get rid of those tapes that are on repeat in your head that tell you that you don't deserve happiness or that you'll never find love. You replace them with affirmations and you try to refocus on your positive characteristics and on all the love you already have in your life.
You're not obsessed with finding love, you're just more interested in having a great time in your life. You know that there's more to life than romantic relationships and that love from one's family and friends is still love. If you find your boo, then great; if not, there's still a lot of good times to be had.
You're optimistic about love while at the same time you're able to enjoy the pleasure of your own company. Take yourself out for dates? Why not? You're amazing. You're more concerned with growing as a person and getting out of your comfort zone than being upset because you're still single.
You don't change just to fit someone else's preconceived idea of what you should be and you stay true to yourself. You live the life that you've created and you love it. You'd be miserable if you lived the life that other people thought you should have.
You work against your instinct for control and perfection. You don't have a checklist of your perfect person — those only lead to frustration and unhappiness. You try to be open to whatever may happen and you attempt to look past flaws and imperfections. While your go-to is usually research, where love is concerned, you try to rely on your feelings.
While it can be challenging, you try not to take rejection personally and sometimes you've got to put yourself out there and make the first move. If you get rejected, you just move on. You don't want to have any "woulda, shoulda, coulda" feelings when it comes to love.
It's not easy but you've let go of your past relationships and you're no longer making plans on how to make them love you again. You're not torturing yourself looking at their fabulous life on social media. You're open to someone new in your life and you're excited about the prospect of a new relationship.
You know what kind of relationship you want and you're honest about your feelings. At least initially you're going to want a relationship with very loose ties, something that's casual and easy going. You know you're not the type to go on one date and then elope the next day.
You're aware that commitment is challenging for you, so you want to take smaller steps so that when it's time to commit, it won't be so scary.
You are driven and you put everything you have into accomplishing your goals. You do what you have to do, especially when it concerns something that you're passionate about such as your work, your family, and your love life.
You refuse to be in a mediocre relationship just to avoid being alone. You won't settle for less because you know your own worth. It's better to be available if the right person comes along rather than biding your time in a boring or toxic relationship.
You practice self-care and are kind towards yourself. You try to celebrate yourself and what you give back to the world, whether it's fabulous pieces of art, beauty, or insightful words. You don't need someone to validate you... you can do it for yourself.