The stars know how to make him want you bad.
There are times when having someone want you isn't enough; you want them to crave you with every fiber of their being. You want them to have an uncontrollable lust for you that can't be satisfied with just one night or one encounter. Sometimes we want this to make ourselves feel powerful, and other times it's about trying to have more control in the relationship.
Since the beginning of time, men have had a thing for the chase, and once they've had the person they are chasing, their interest may not be as intense; sadly, sometimes their interest is completely gone. One way to keep someone's interest burning like a hot flame is to give them what they lust for but to hold something back, so they're never quite satisfied.
Often times when we're in a long-term relationship, the sex can get a little familiar and the spark can go out. You want your man to ache for you, to be obsessed with you, and for your sex to be as hot as it was at the beginning.
More men than you might think are hard-wired for long-term lusting, and it's just a matter of doing and saying the things that really excite him. Things like employing a little mystery, not being too available, mixing things up, and delaying gratification are all great things to do when you want to restart his desire for you.
How about touching him when he least expects it or changing your perfume? You be surprised at how small changes can affect your partner. Men have a tendency to turn off from the mundane.
Astrology can give you some pointers on how to restart your man's engine and make him lust for you bad. And in one article on Thought Catalog, writer Lola Black spells out exactly how your man wants you to have sex with him, based on his zodiac sign.
Here's what the stars say will make your man crave you sexually.
Aries men really like to be dominating in the bedroom, and if you tap into that and become his little sex slave, he won't be able to resist you. Let him tell you what to do and plead with him to take you right there on the floor. The more you let him believe he's in control, the more he'll want.
Sex isn't just about getting off for the Taurus man; he'll get even more turned on by seeing how into it you are. Taurus men really admire people who are able to show their vulnerable side and their humanity, so make sure your Taurus knows you appreciate all of him, not just his dick.
Geminis aren't shy about wanting to experience everything, and that includes sex. When he tries a bunch of new sex positions, toys, and the filthiest dirty talk you've ever heard, go with it. If you can match his creativity and willingness to try something, he'll be hooked.
Cancers crave touch and caring, so for them sex is all about foreplay. Make sure you're never short on time when having sex with a Cancer. In fact, it might not be a bad idea to masturbate before your date with him so you don't get pink balls from all the touching, kissing and no penetration.
Leos thrive on praise, so don't stop telling him how hot he is when he's naked or how amazing he feels. If you can take your dirty talk mastery to the ultimate level, your Leo won't be able to get enough of you. And be sure to say his name often; for some reason, this will make him positively ache for you.
Virgos are complicated, but to really get them to want you bad, you have to do it in the most straightforward way possible: ask him what he wants and then do perfectly. So simple and yet so effective for a Virgo, it's as if you're reading his mind and instinctually knowing his true self.
Libras don't want a quick bite, they want a whole meal. You're going to need to be very attentive and pay attention to every every inch of his body with your mouth, hands and body. Libras aren't just going for the orgasm; they want to connect with you on every sensuous level, and once they do they're not going to be able to get you out of their head.
Don't let the fact that Scorpios are the sex geniuses of the zodiac deter you. Scorpios are intense and passionate, and your best plan is to let him be in charge. If he sees that he can trust you with his wildest desires and you're honest about yours, he'll become obsessed with you — which, depending on what you really want, could be really good or kind of scary.
Since Sagittarius love trying new things, it can be challenging to come up with something they've never done. But if you relax, have fun, and let your imagination go a little freaky, you'll not only surprise yourself, but your Sagittarius as well. Throw in a little risk like public sex or wearing a raincoat with nothing underneath, and you'll do more than just intrigue Mr. Sagittarius.
Capricorns may be all business during the day, but at night they definitely like to let their freaky side come out. If you can make your Capricorn man feel comfortable enough to actually relax and have fun with you, he'll want to have that again and again.
Aquarius men want to please their partners. Make him go down on you and don't let him up for air until you're screaming in ecstasy. The more you orgasm, the better for an Aquarius man. You can forget about his pleasure; it's all about you because that's what he wants. Do things you've always wanted to do but never dared and he won't be able to get enough of you. Talk about mutually satisfying.
Pisces take sex and turn it into art. They love any kind of tantric sex, new age revisioning of sex, and sex where the parties become one in not just physical ways, but emotional and spiritual ways. Not everybody is in for the kind of ride that Pisces offers. The depth of the sex can be scary for some people. If you show that you're open to this kind of sex, Pisces will want you like no one before.