21 Examples Of Sexy Dirty Talk


21 Examples Of Sexy Dirty Talk
These dirty talk examples will show you exactly what to say to your man to turn him on.

Before I give you these dirty talking examples, I first want to talk to you about why you should learn how to talk dirty to your guy as well as how to talk dirty to your man effectively so that you arouse him, build sexual tension, keep him thinking about you and ultimately have a more fulfilling sex life together.

(P.S. If you want my most powerful tips on talking dirty, giving great oral sex and having a fulfilling sex life, you may be interested in my free newsletter here)


Why Talk Dirty To Your Man? 
The most powerful thing it does is that it keeps your man thinking about you. By using dirty talk in more subtle, indirect ways, your man will never be quite sure what you mean and as a result he will end up constantly thinking about you and what you said. This is crucial for keeping him attracted.

As well as keeping him thinking about you, talking dirty is also incredibly hot and arousing to your man if you do it right. As you can probably guess this makes it great to use if you want to make sex hotter and more enjoyable than usual. I strongly encourage you to really use these examples.

The third thing that talking dirty to your guy does is that it builds sexual tension. Sexual tension is what makes people crave sex and enjoy the build up to it. Sexual tension is crucial if you want to prevent your relationship from getting boring.

How Should You Use These Dirty Talk Examples? 
In total I am going to give you examples of dirty talk that you can use on your man. But, I want to first show you how to talk dirty effectively.

Many people think that it's what they say to their man, but the truth is that it's actually how you say it. Think about this for a moment. If you turn to your man with a goofy grin and in a squeaky voice you quickly say, "I want you so bad" then it's going to sound a little weird. But if you slowly walk towards your man, put your hand on his chest and look seductively into his eyes before using a sultry, sexy voice to whisper in his ear, "I want you soooo bad right now" then it's going to sound really hot to him.

Do you notice the massive difference between the two examples that I just gave? One is super hot, sexy and a major turn on for your man while the other is so awful that it will have the opposite effect and most likely turn him off. 

So if you want to deliver these lines effectively, then have a long hard think about these 3 things:

  • A) Your Voice Tone: Sometimes a deep and soulful tone is great for building sexual tension and keeping him thinking about you, while other times a more excited, varied tone works great for turning him on.
  • B) Your Voice Speed: Speaking slowly is almost always more powerful than speaking quickly when talking dirty.
  • C) Your Body Language: If you tell your man, "I love your bum in those jeans" but you are not even looking at him and your body language is completely closed off, then he'll know that you don't really mean what you are saying. But if you maintain eye contact and are facing him and touching him then it's going to much more effective.

Okay, these are just some the most basic aspects on why and how to talk dirty from the detailed dirty talking instructional video that you can watch here. Now it's time to learn some dirty talk examples!

Dirty Talk Before Sex (these also work great over the phone or as text messages or even Facebook messages)

1. I need you right now.
2. I get so turned on just thinking about the last time we made love.
3. I feel so weak and turned on at the same time when I'm in your arms.
4. I want to give you the best oral sex you've ever had.
5. I want you to slowly kiss me from my lips, down my neck, onto my breasts and all the way down my body (feel free to reword this to something even dirtier if you like)
6. I just want to be used by you tonight. Can I be your personal toy?
7. I can't wait until we're both alone so that I can blow your mind.
8. I want to tie you up later and have my way with you.
9. Feeling you on top of me and in control is the hottest thing ever!
10. I was thinking about you last night before I went to sleep...
11. I love how you look at me when we're together, it's so hot!

Dirty Talk During Sex
12. Just lie back and let me take care of business.
13. I love feeling you in my hands!
14. Keeping going, keep going!
15. I love how you taste.
16. Don't stop, it feels so good!
17. You dominating me is such a turn on.
18. I want you to take control of me
19. Stop talking and just do me!
20. I never want you to stop, it feels so good.
21. I want you to finish wherever you like.

More Powerful Dirty Talking Examples - The dirty talking examples you have just read are some of my more basic ones. If you want to learn my more advanced and 'out there' examples, along with how to give a great blowjob, then you'll find everything on the Bad Girl's Bible site. Click here to find out more.

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