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21 Dirty Talk Examples

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21 Dirty Talk Examples
You might have to cover your ears for what she's about to say
These 21 dirty talk examples will show you exactly what to say to your man to turn him on.

Before I give you these 21 dirty talking examples, I first want to talk to you about why you should learn how to talk dirty to your guy as well as how to talk dirty to your man effectively so that you arouse him, build sexual tension, keep him thinking about you and ultimately have a more fulfilling sex life together.

(P.S. If you are looking for my most explicit & hot dirty talking examples, you will find them in the dirty talking section here.)

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Why Talk Dirty To Your Man? The most powerful thing it does is that it keeps your man thinking about you. By using dirty talk in more subtle, indirect ways, your man will never be quite sure what you mean and as a result he will end up constantly thinking about you and what you said. This is crucial for keeping him attracted.

As well as keeping him thinking about you, talking dirty is also incredibly hot and arousing to your man if you do it right. As you can probably guess this makes it great to use if you want to make sex hotter and more enjoyable than usual. I strongly encourage to really use these examples.

The third thing that talking dirty to your guy does is that it builds sexual tension. Sexual tension is what makes people crave sex and enjoy the build up to it. Sexual tension is crucial if you want to prevent your relationship from getting boring. It's something that I go into in depth in this dirty talking article.

How Should You Use These Dirty Talk Examples? In total I am going to give you 21 examples of dirty talk that you can use on your man. But, I want to first show you how to talk dirty effectively.

Many people think that it's what they say to their man, but the truth is that it's actually how you say it. Think about this for a moment. If you turn to your man with a goofy grin and in a squeaky voice you quickly say, "I want you so bad" then it's going to sound a little weird.

But if you slowly walk towards your man, put your hand on his chest and look seductively into his eyes before using a sultry, sexy voice to whisper in his ear, "I want you soooo bad right now" then it's going to sound really hot to him.

Do you notice the massive difference between the two examples that I just gave? One is super hot, sexy and a major turn on for your man while the other is so awful that it will have the opposite effect and most likely turn him off. 

So if you want to deliver these lines effectively, then have a long hard think about these 3 things:

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A) Your Voice Tone. Sometimes a deep and soulful tone is great for building sexual tension and keeping him thinking about you, while other times a more excited, varied tone works great for turning him on.

B) Your Voice Speed. Speaking slowly is almost always more powerful than speaking quickly when talking dirty. Keep Reading...

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