The stars can tell you if he's falling for you.
People are mysterious — that's a fact, especially people of the opposite sex. It's difficult to decipher the things they say or do, even when you're not invested in them. But when you are interested in them, it becomes much more difficult.
When you're dating someone and hoping that by getting to know them you'll develop strong feelings and a bond that ultimately will lead to love, you can get overly interested in every little action or word that they say.
You just want to find some small indication that what they're feeling matches your own feelings, or if you aren't feeling it then breaking up with them will devastate them. We just want to know where we stand with people, and men are notoriously close-lipped about their feelings.
Since expressing their emotions can be challenging for men, women have to find other ways to know if they're into them or not. Cue: wacky rom-com.
We've all done things for love; some of them we're not proud of and some we justify to ourselves as necessary. We talk to our friends and figure out game plans, we read self-help books, and even seek out spiritual or new-agey type advice.
Not knowing if someone is as into you as you are into them can drive you a little insane. If you're like me, you over-analyze every little thing they do, trying to get some clue about their feelings. But astrology can help.
While astrology can't tell you for certain about another person's behavior, it can tell you possible interpretations of certain behaviors of the zodiac signs. While not every single person of each sign behaves in the same way, astrology can give you a general idea about why each zodiac sign acts the way they do. Here's how to tell if he's falling in love with you.
Aries are the most openly demonstrative of all the signs, so if he's falling for you, you'll know by his persistence. He'll want to be with you all the time, will constantly check in with you when you're not together, and will demonstrate all his most endearing qualities. Yes, he's great with people anyway, but you'll know he's into you by how he focuses so much of his energy on you.
Taurus are surprisingly subtle, so it may be difficult to figure out that they're falling for you. If they laugh at your jokes and the laughter isn't just with their voice but with smiling appreciative eyes, that's a strong indication of their feelings. Another way to tell if a Taurus is falling for you is in the small, sweet things they do for you and how they seem to come alive when around you.
Geminis are social butterflies and they are very interested in people, but if your Gemini is falling for you, they'll be listening intently to everything you say, and they will seem to be endlessly interested in everything you have to say. They'll also call, text, and message you at random times for no good reason but to talk to you about your life.
For a sign so well versed with emotions, Cancers keep their feelings close to themselves. You may not know they're falling for you until you're practically standing in front of an officiant on your wedding day. However, one of the ways they indicate intense feelings is through their tendency to act like overbearing jerks.
It's not that they don't think you can take care of yourself, but they want to protect you and keep you safe. If his protective streak is notched up where you're concerned, that's as good as serenading you outside your window, along the lines of Lloyd Dobler in Say Anything.
Now, Leos aren't the subtlest of the signs and you'll definitely know if he's into you with the grand gestures like filling your house with flowers or saying that he loves you via the ribbon board at a baseball game. Yeah, you'd have to be kind of dense not to know how your Leo feels for you. He'll also love showing you off to his friends and has no problem sharing his feelings with them and you.
Virgos are kind of the opposite of Leos, and while Leos get bigger and bolder around those they're falling in love with, Virgos get quieter. You might think you've done something wrong or that they're mad at you, but they're just thinking about you a lot and what they can do to help you.
And since they're so reserved, if they think someone else is competing for your love, they'll just fade into the background. When your connection becomes crystal clear and there's no way your Virgo can deny it, he might be a little more forthcoming.
Libra men are pretty open when it comes to happy, positive feelings like love — it's the negative ones they'll shy away from telling you. So if your guy is falling in love with you, he'll show it by making an effort to spend time with you. He will show his intentions with classic love body language such as kissing, hand holding, hugging, and touching in public. PDA is OK with him; he wants everyone to know how he feels about you.
Scorpios are intense, but when they're falling in love you'll feel the intensity as if it's a laser beam. When he looks at you, you can almost feel it physically, and he doesn't even need to touch you for you to feel the heat of his passion. He knows what he's doing. If you can't handle the heat, you may not be able to handle a Scorpio in love.
It may not seem like a big deal, but when a Sagittarius makes time for you, it's their way of saying how much they care. The Sagittarius man has people to meet and places to see, and if he finds you captivating enough to schedule you in, that's a huge sign that he's falling in love big time.
With a Capricorn man, it's not much of a mystery if he's falling in love with you for he'll probably tell you directly. It may not be the most romantic declaration of love you've ever experienced and for a moment you may even question that you heard him correctly, but that's just his way. Capricorns can be kind of blunt but their hearts are in the right place and you'll never question his love for you once you have it.
Aquarians can be mysterious about their feelings but it's just the way they are. He knows that he's falling in love, he just doesn't see any reason in showing it. You may need to do some investigative work on your own and look at his social media or ask his friends and family what he's said about you. It seems like a very high school thing to do, but Aquarius' can really keep you guessing.
Pisces men have a way of turning things around on you. They're the ones who will freak if you don't return a text or a message. He's just showing that he's falling in love with you by making himself somewhat emotionally vulnerable to you.
He'll be able to do things for you before you're even aware that you needed them done; it's a little unnerving. When a Pisces' love grows, he'll make you feel more deeply heard and understood than ever before.