What kinky thing does he secretly love?
What used to be thought of as kinky sex is practically considered vanilla sex these days. It's not that people's sexual tastes are all so outrageous, it's that people are much more willing to experiment and try new things. It's not just about the missionary position, it's about the missionary position dressed as a clown... sitting on a cake.
Sex is no longer only about the act of procreating — it's about fun, fulfillment, and satisfaction. Most people are having sex before marriage and most people have more than one partner in their lives. Now if someone chooses to get married, they can see if they're sexually compatible with their future spouse.
How can someone know what they like without trying it first?
There are so many sexual fetishes and kinks that it's impossible to keep up with them. Many times, these fetishes — such as a penchant for latex or a thing for feet — develop at an early age. As long as kinky sex or fetish play is done between two consenting adults and no one gets hurt (in the wrong way), this kind sex can add color and flavor to one's sex life.
When we're in long-term relationships, sex can get boring or predictable. But adding in some toys, fantasy play or any other kind of kinky/fetish sex can rejuvenate sex. Creativity, imagination, and open-mindedness are crucial to a satisfying and enjoyable sex life. When experimenting, trust is critical, and having safe words and parameters set up beforehand are imperative.
Kinky sex can feel dangerous and exciting, but it shouldn't actually be hazardous to anyone's health. Safety is just as important as openness. Some people may be shy about sharing their deepest and more taboo desires, so sometimes we need a helping hand in finding out what their secret sexual appetites are.
Aries are the most primal sign of the zodiac, so they like their sex to be raw and high-adrenaline experiences — think extreme sex, not in terms of wild and outrageous, but in high energy. Aries are into such high-intensity sex that they bang the bed hard against the wall and enjoy morning sex, hair-pulling, and wrestling. It doesn't matter who is pinning who because the partner on the bottom is likely to flip the top over and take control.
Taurus love introducing food elements to their sex play, and whipped cream and chocolate are often involved. Edible lube is OK, too. Don't worry about making a mess with that chocolate sauce; Taurus will be happy to lick it off anywhere it might be. Taurus doesn't just want an appetizer, so no quickies; they're in for the whole meal.
Geminis don't have the largest attention span, so be prepared to keep them entertained with sex that is fast, furious, and energetic. They like sex with many partners, sex toys, tickling, and lots of witty sex talk. After sex with a Gemini, you'll be exhausted but completely satisfied. Don't worry; they'll be good to go before you've even caught your breath.
Cancers need to feel loved and that includes when they're having sex. They like big breasts, leather (because it hugs the body), nipple play, belly-rubbing, fur, sucking (everything), and role playing. Some go for becoming adult babies, and like to get feed and have their bottoms powdered.
It's not surprising that many Leos are exhibitionists and enjoy having sex where they can be seen. They also love hair-pulling, biting, scratching, and stripping. Sex is a show for the Leo and they'll do everything to make it memorable and exciting for their partner.
Virgos enjoy BDSM, especially if they're the submissive, and they'll go full throttle for bondage, latex, handcuffing, masks, and fantasy role play of doctor/nurse. Since they don't enjoy a mess, Virgos are especially happy when their dom makes them clean something.
The body part most associated with Libras is the butt. I guess because there are two equal sides to it? I don't know, but apparently, Libras love some butt play, including spanking, anal sex, and analingus. They also love switching things up and participating in S/M, cross-dressing and dressing up.
Scorpios love pushing the element and taking sex right to the edge, and that includes edging. They like blindfolds, bondage, dungeon play (of all kinds), shower sex, and semi-public sex such as sex in a store changing room, a work bathroom, or in a car. But they don't need it to be extreme, they just need it... all the time.
Sagittarius just want to have fun, so they like very playful sex that involves games, costumes or inventive location. Sagittarius needs a partner who is spontaneous, flexible and up for anything, or they'll get bored. Keep the Sagittarius guessing and excited, and you'll keep them around.
Out of all the signs, Capricorn is the most surprisingly kinky. You might not think that somebody who is so solid and dependable likes to get freaky when it comes to sex. They're pretty much open to anything, especially if it will please their partner.
Their turn-ons include high heels, older men or women, and earthy types. Another thing you don't have to worry about with a Capricorn is their staying power; they can go and go and go. A Capricorn partner is always satisfied.
Aquarius individuals are definitely not into ordinary sex; they like anything that seems progressive or racy. Since they're open to almost anything that isn't the norm, they have a tendency to go for things like cyber/phone sex, threesomes, foursomes, sex toys, bad girls, bad boys, and wicked dirty talk. The more unpredictable and wild, the better for the Aquarian.
Pisces are extremely visual, so one way to get them excited is to send them a nude pic. They need very little stimulus to start fantasizing what sex would be like with someone, so by the time they're at that point, the sexual experience is enhanced by all the pre-fantasy work that has taken place.