3 Tiny Ways To Keep A Man Attracted And Lusting For You Forever

The easiest way to get the man of your dreams.

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Ever wonder why men sometimes act so hot and cold? One day, he’s totally into you and very affectionate, and then without any obvious reason he stops calling, acts distant and withdrawn, and no longer seems to be interested in you. It leaves you wondering what you did or said to change his mind about you. What’s going on? The bad news is he may not feel attracted to you anymore, but may not want to admit to you. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start feeling it for you again if you know what to do. If you can learn how to create intense feelings of emotional attraction inside him, everything in your relationship will feel more effortless. Here are a few tips for creating that attraction.


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Here are 3 ways to keep a man attracted and lusting for you forever:

1. Understand why a man may see you as needy, even when you're not

Did you know that a woman doesn’t have to be needy for a man to get that feeling? The ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support to your girlfriends can bond your friendship, but that kind of talking and intimacy may make a man feel anxious and smothered by you. Constantly asking a man such things as “Why didn’t you call/text?” when barely any time has passed may also make a man think you’re needy.




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2. Avoid the predictable, boring behaviors of other women

A man loves being around a woman who has more to talk about than the boring, everyday stuff. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment for life, and bring a unique and upbeat energy that will set you apart from every other woman he knows.



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3. Create a level of unpredictability

If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be constantly thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of unpredictability and it will work like magic. Another idea: use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it because it is one of the primary male languages for bonding and connection. Men usually lose interest in a relationship and leave when they stop feeling that gut level of emotional attraction. That’s why it’s important to know what to do to trigger those feelings to keep the spark alive and healthy in any relationship.

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Christian Carter is a dating coach and author of the e-book Catch Him & Keep Him. He has helped more than three million women become more successful with men, dating, and relationships.