Couples/Marital Issues

Years in Practice

10 years +


Calgary AB T2H 2G4 - Canada



Additional Expertise

Divorce Coach, Life Coach, Marriage Educator, Mediator, Personal Development Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner

I Practice in

All areas, please inquire



I Believe

“The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you’re in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls you.”

~ Tony Robbins

About Bob Tomes & Jane Warren

Hi! Bob & Jane here.  Our guess is that you’re here reading this it's because you're longing for a vibrant life, a passionate relationship and a deep sense of purpose. You’re either in a relationship that needs to end, ending a relationship and searching for the best way forward or in a relationship that is capable of being even more intimate, passionate and playful – but you don’t quite know how to achieve that.

Relationships have life cycles and wherever yours may be at, what’s at the heart is your desire to live the fullest, most expansive, passion-filled life you possibly can. Your intimate relationships are your greatest teachers! Unfortunately being in intimate relationship sometimes involves painful, heart-wrenching choices. Fortunately they can also bring huge joy, support and evolution.

Both of us have been through our own divorces. That experience set each of us on a path of discovering ourselves at a deeper more vibrant level than either of us could have imagined. That path led us to each other and together we have created that rich, supportive, discovery-laden relationship that people now tell us – “we want what you have”!

Let’s be clear though, you don’t really want what we have – you want your very own vibrant life and vibrant relationship! We’ve devoted our lives to continuing to develop that for ourselves and guiding people who truly want the same for their lives.

We provide support across the relationship life cycle. We have two separate (but ultimately interconnected) opportunities to support you at whatever place in the relationship life cycle you currently find yourself. SpringBoard Divorce focuses on using the pain of divorce to springboard yourself into your vibrant new life. Vibrant Couples focuses on starting, re-igniting and evolving your intimate relationship into the creation of a lifetime of passion and play. Wherever you are, we’re here to help.

We offer couples relationship coaching, group programs and our signature Ultimate Relationship Adventures! If you’re in a relationship and looking to grow and thrive at a whole new level then call us today to set up a free 30 minute call to see how we can support your vibrant life and relationship.

If you’re struggling in your relationship and contemplating (or in the middle of or coming out the other side of) divorce, grab a copy of our free eBook 6 Ingredients for a SpringBoard Divorce and learn the little things that make a huge difference.

Here’s to your vibrant life!
Jane & Bob

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