Here's How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work (When It Seems Impossible)

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Advice For How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work
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Long distance relationships are hard, and it takes a special kind of dedication and plenty of relationship advice to make one happen.

If you want to know how to make a long distance relationship work, whether you're getting ready to get into one or have been in one for a little while, there are plenty of tricks you can use to make things easier on you and your partner.

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Making a long-distance relationship work is possible nowadays. Thanks to technology and the internet, you can bid farewell to expensive long-distance calls and snail mail to keep in touch with your significant other.

There are many ways you and your significant other can stay connected: You can do video calls through Facetime or Skype, send messages via chat, or many other messaging applications. The options are countless.

Even though you have the technology to help you in keeping your relationship alive, this is sometimes not enough, however.

There are still other things you and your significant other need to do to survive this time apart.

Here are 6 simple pieces of long distance relationship advice that will make your relationship stronger than ever:

1. Set communication arrangements

Being with someone in a different time zone can be difficult. That is why it is essential that you make your communication arrangements work for both of you.

You'll need to choose the communication approach that will work for you and your significant other.

You may consider the answers to some of these questions in making your arrangements: Do you want to set a regular schedule for catch-up calls? Who has a more flexible schedule? Who should make the call?

You can add more agreed points in your communication arrangement, as long as both of you are comfortable with it.

2. Send meaningful surprise gifts

Don’t rely too much on technology to keep your relationship afloat.

Yes, technology is helpful, but nothing beats surprising your partner with tangible materials. I'm not saying to buy your significant other jewelry and gadgets (although you can do this if you want!).

Having something that they can physically see and touch will help remind them of you.

Even though you are miles away, your gift will serve as a proximal reminder of your presence and will make them feel loved, too.

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3. Make time and effort to visit each other

Visits are the best part of being in a long-distance relationship. It's like your reward after not seeing each other for a while!

Also, there’s something magical when you get to finally hold hands and kiss your significant other. When you get the chance to visit each other, take time to meet his friends, colleagues, or family members.

They are part of your significant other’s life, so it is important that you interact with them. When your significant other pays you a visit, you should also introduce them to the people who are part of your life. too.

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4. Have faith in your significant other

Trust is one of the most important factors in making a relationship last. If you trust your partner, it means that you have faith in your relationship.

Also, if you're being faithful, you'll feel more confident and secure in your relationship. You can build trust by being open and honest with your significant other, and talking about your feelings when they come up.

Avoid hiding anything from your partner, as this will only make you doubt each other. Lying is the worst thing you can do in your relationship — especially to your long-distance significant other.

5. Talk about your life with other people outside of your relationship

Talk about what’s new with your friends and family. Since your significant other won't always be there when you have family gatherings or every time you hang out with your friends, keeping them updated with the latest happenings in your circle will make them feel that they were involved, even if they are miles away.

You will also develop trust because you can tell your significant other everything that's been happening to you and the people in your life.

6. Set goals and timeline for your time apart

Setting goals and timelines on how long you will be apart and when you'll see each other again will help give both of you something to look forward to. It will also give you hope on the days that you're down.

Those goals may be simple, like setting up a date on your anniversary getaway, or setting goals for a major life event like moving-in together.

By doing this, you and your significant other will remain optimistic because you're looking forward to reaching your goals in your relationship, and you're still getting to see and spend physical time with one another.

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