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I hereby release you from my projection that you are the cause of my feelings AND I hereby release you from my expectation that you are the solution to my feelings.About Lewis Brown Griggs
As a diversity trainer for 35 years, I still specialize in helping people "maximize their relationship potential” - from the boardroom to the bedroom. Thank you for taking a moment to learn a bit more about me.
My clients engage me as a catalyst to understanding (and welcoming) their differences as a means of getting and staying connected — to themselves and to others. Our differences have a way of dividing us, yet our sincere understanding of those differences will almost always unite us. I work with highly conscious clients interested in experiencing and enhancing their intimacy through their monogamous relationship.
As children we each learned the survival skills most conducive to our getting the approval that kept us safe. Whatever survival skills we mastered enabled us to continue those tactics for better and for worse in order to succeed throughout our lives. And so often we unconsciously attract and/or co-create personal and professional relationships through outdated survival skills. We almost always start out in a connected relationship only to find ourselves no longer feeling the depth of connection and compassion we hope and strive for. Our differences seem greater than our connection.
With personally facilitated co-active coaching, we can erase or edit those survival patterns we learned so young, and re-write our personal (and professional) life script. This re-writing enables us to fully create and live out our dream of being all we are capable of being, for ourselves and for our partners.
My life changing learnings from two Near Death Experiences (see my TEDx Talk "The Gift of Near Death" and documentary "Beyond Our Sight") called me to become a professional helping individuals to have better relationships from the boardroom to the bedroom. In our love relationships, we need to interact with 100% honesty, authenticity and personal responsibility in order to enhance our spiritual, emotional, sensual and sexual intimacy. If we settle for no less, then we can experience a profoundly life-affirming love and connection with our partner.
I have lived and worked all over the world, hold an Amherst College BA and Stanford University MBA, and am a CTI-Certified Professional Co-Active Coach. In my free time I love to spend time with my family, walk in nature, enjoy the geese and ducks on my houseboat, kayak with the seals, play endless tennis, and enjoy life with my partner. You can learn more about my approach to personal intimate relationship by viewing my interview with Moriah Fey on Love's the Magic, and Life with Jessica discussions about my near death experiences and perspectives on love and spirit. I also invite you to visit my Facebook page, and look forward to connecting with you.
