5 Things Wildly Successful Relationships Have That Failing Ones Don't

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When it comes to relationships, there's a lot of material written about how to repair the disconnect that so often occurs between partners. However, there's a lot to be learned from successful relationships as well.

Here are 5 important attributes of successful relationships:

1. Respect:

This is the #1 factor in a healthy, strong relationship. Respecting your partner allows you to accept who he or she really is, without trying to change the person. Respect also allows for you to really listen to each other.

2. Good conflict management:

In any relationship, there's going to be a time when the two people run into a conflict simply because they're two different individuals. Strong couples can handle their conflicts in a way that allows them to hear the other's needs with respect and understanding. Through this process, they actually become closer to one another.

3. Humor:

In general, humor is a great stress-buster. Successful couples are able to use humor to help during times of stress. Additionally, they have an attitude that allows them to let go of issues rather than holding on to grudges.

4. Support for each other:

People and relationships grow and change. In a successful couple, this process is supported. Rather than trying to get one's mate to be who you want him or her to be, you accept and encourage their strengths.

5. Friendship:

It's important that a couple feels that they can support one another. Additionally, sharing information (even gossip) actually has been shown to be connecting. Finally, that which is shared and private is kept within the boundary of the relationship.

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