I Believe
I help women learn how to stop people pleasing, communicate their desires confidently and get their needs met with ease.
About Deb Dutilh
Hi and thanks for stopping by to meet me, learn more about what I do as a Relationship and Compatibility Coach and how coaching with me can benefit you. You may be assuming that I am only talking about relationships between men and women, but there is a lot more to it than that. Our relationships are the basis for identifying to ourselves who we are in life. Whether we are parents, colleagues, friends or lovers, our most important relationship is with ourselves. It may come as no surprise to you that successful relationships start with self-love and self-acceptance and this is where I come in.
I specialize in helping people gain new insights and tools to create, cultivate and communicate confidently and gracefully for long-lasting ultimate fulfilling relationships. My clients tell me that when they finally pushed away their fears, increased their self-confidence, and were given an easy to use system for recreating their relationships, not only did they have a whole new positive outlook on life with visions of a beautiful future, but they felt more loveable, more fulfilled and more enthusiastic about their lives in general. They truly believed in their ability to successfully create long-term passionate partnerships and felt more freedom and joy in all other areas of their lives. Nothing is more rewarding to me than seeing the veil lift and the transformations taking place with an attitude of “I can do it!” and renewed enthusiasm when asking “what’s next?”
I've been an expatriate for 35 years and have weathered the joys and upheavals of living abroad. It's a lifestyle that I thrive on - discovering new cultures, languages and adapting. However, intercultural relationships often carry their own set of challenges that go unaddressed provoking miscommunication and misunderstandings. This is why I also work with expats, people in intercultural relationships, and others experiencing culture shock and reverse culture shock which can wreak havoc on couples and families.
My background includes over 25 years of international experience in teaching and personal development. I am a Certified Professional Coach through the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC), and NLP Certified Life Coach and Practitioner. While living in France I directed a 24/7 Suicide Crisis Line and worked as a vocational trainer for adults. I have also completed comprehensive training to become a Master Practitioner of the Energy Leadership Assessment known as The Compatibility Index. With this amazingingly accurate assessment, I will tell you in 45 minutes what is holding you back from having the healthy relationships you desire and give you tips for improving all your relationships. You'll experience more joy and less stress in all areas of your life. Who wouldn't want that?
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Deb Dutilh Success Stories
Your Dream Work Is Amazing!
Women dealing with stress
I want to thank you so much for your time and guidance in helping me interpret my dream. I found your dream work amazing! You are very good in reflecting back and I found it so interesting to see how the dream was about my current state and what I felt about myself.more
Babette Bensoussan, CPC, ELI-MP, Business Coach
Sydney, Australia
I Have A Better Understanding Of Some Key Issues I Was Burying
Women who are single parents
With the help of Deb's dream work I'm able to get a better understanding of what I may be suffering through. During the waking hours my mind may be too full of responsibilities and unimportant thoughts to allow me to view my emotional issues clearly, but at night, when my subconscious breaks through, things that may need my attention have a clearer path to the front of my mind. Until working with Deb's dream work guidance, I wasn’t able to understand what I was "telling myself" in my dreams and I rarely even remembered my dreams because there was no reason to. Deb taught me how to read some basic symbols that appeared in my dreams and also understand the female/male qualities represented in my dreams. Together, she and I conceptualized key issues that I had buried, but that my mind/soul needed me to view, understand and meditate upon.more
Andrea Rosenfeld,Professional Fine Artist, NJ
My Recurring Dream Stopped
Women dealing with stress
I had a recurring dream that, try as I might, I was unable to interpret. Because I believe dreams to be important messages in my life, I had great anxiety around the possible meaning of this particular dream. I needed help from someone experienced in dream work AND someone I felt I could trust. Deb was the perfect combination of professionalism, knowledge, insight, and compassion. With her guidance, I was able to go deeply into my feelings and discover what meaning the dream held for me. My cloud of anxiety lifted, and I had a major movement and release in my energy centers and best of all, the recurring dream stopped. Most importantly, working with Deb opened my eyes to how I was holding myself back from living up to my true potential. I can now get out of my own way and be fully, authentically me! What’s better than that?!more
I Finally Understood My Recurring Dream Thanks To Deb
Client
I had a recurring dream that, try as I might, I was unable to interpret. Because I believe dreams to be important messages in my life, I had great anxiety around the possible meaning of this particular dream. I needed help from someone experienced in dream work AND someone I felt I could trust. Deb was the perfect combination of professionalism, knowledge, insight, and compassion. With her guidance, I was able to go deeply into my feelings and discover what meaning the dream held for me. My cloud of anxiety lifted, and I had a major movement and release in my energy centers. Most importantly, working with Deb opened my eyes to how I was holding myself back from living up to my true potential. I can now get out of my own way and be fully, authentically me! What’s better than that?!
Teresa Jenkins
"I'm much happier in my couple."
Couples
"I deeply admire and respect Deb’s combination of high energy and wisdom that comes from a place of emotional truth and a variety of life experiences. Before working with Deb, I was so out of touch with my feelings that it took a ton of work to prepare myself for the idea of asking for what I really wanted and needed from my partner. Now this whole side of my life feels much lighter because Deb provided me with a practical road map and tools for making changes. I’ve learned how to express myself with confidence, am more connected to my feelings, less judgmental of myself and others and much happier in my couple."
Joanne S.
"I'm much happier in my couple."
Co-habitating couples
"I deeply admire and respect Deb’s combination of high energy and wisdom that comes from a place of emotional truth and a variety of life experiences. Before working with Deb, I was so out of touch with my feelings that it took a ton of work to prepare myself for the idea of asking for what I really wanted and needed from my partner. Now this whole side of my life feels much lighter because Deb provided me with a practical road map and tools for making changes. I’ve learned how to express myself with confidence, am more connected to my feelings, less judgmental of myself and others and much happier in my couple."
Joanne S.
A Happier Household For My Family
Couples
“Deb is a compassionate, experienced coach who helped me sort out how I wanted to approach and experience a difficult relationship in my life. Deb always makes me feel heard, understood, and has been a terrific ally in creating a happy household for my family. It’s impossible to put a value on having a coach available to support me in reaching my goals and Deb has been more than wonderful. I’ve been able to do more with her, in less time, than I’d likely make happen on my own. So glad I found her!”more
I'm Ready To Start Dating Again
Single women
“Deb’s flawless European style, compassion and maverick, “live life on the edge” attitude helped change my entire outlook on the world. Her simple to use system is effective, fun to work through and deeply insightful. With Deb’s help I have regained my self-confidence and self-esteem and am embracing the thought of getting back into dating, something I have been avoiding for years.”more
My Relationship Is More Fulfilling
Couples
“Working with Deb Dutilh has been extremely beneficial on my journey to self-rediscovery. Learning and practicing the Energy Leadership principles has helped me to understand what blocks hold me back and how I can shift my energy to lead a more fulfilling life. By learning how to recognize and shift my energy I have a more positive outlook at work, I engage better with my customers and coworkers and as a result I am attracting new customers. My relationship with my partner and children are more fulfilling as well and we communicate better.more
After working with Deb, I am ready to take a leadership role in my life again. Instead of just letting things happen to me – I am going to make them happen!
I would highly recommend working with Deb Dutilh, she will challenge you to live the life you truly desire!”
George S.
I Can Take On The World!
Women seeking spiritual guidance
“Coaching with Deb opened up inner pathways to unleash my full potential. She made me feel relaxed, calm and neutral, providing a comfortable space to be me. Instead of just telling me what I wanted to hear, she helped me clarify what I really wanted. Her passion and focus helped me be true to what I was really going after. Her "Circle of Excellence" truly made me feel like a bright shining light with the confidence to take on the world!! I use it now whenever I face challenges. Thanks Deb for being your authentic self!”more
I Can Take On The World!
Women seeking spiritual guidance
“Coaching with Deb opened up inner pathways to unleash my full potential. She made me feel relaxed, calm and neutral, providing a comfortable space to be me. Instead of just telling me what I wanted to hear, she helped me clarify what I really wanted. Her passion and focus helped me be true to what I was really going after. Her "Circle of Excellence" truly made me feel like a bright shining light with the confidence to take on the world!! I use it now whenever I face challenges. Thanks Deb for being your authentic self!”more
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