Getting A Boyfriend Is As Easy As Changing The Way You Think

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Saying "yes" can have a tremendous positive impact on your dating and your overall life experience. This is particularly true if you are prone to saying "no." When you say "no," you limit yourself drastically.

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Being discerning is appropriate and smart. But being negative and limiting your opportunities consistently, significantly minimizes the potential to achieve your desires and learn how to get a boyfriend.

When you say "no," you are literally keeping yourself single. That's okay if you prefer your single status, but if you want to find a loving partner, saying "no" on a regular basis does not serve you.

I'm happily married now, but I'll never forget a time when I was 24. I was with my friend Nancy and her boyfriend Scott playing pool and this nice guy started talking to me and joined our game. As we were leaving he asked for my number. 

I didn't know what to do and this had never happened to me before. Should I give him the number or not? My friends said not to and I felt torn. I left without divulging my digits.

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To this day I wonder about him. We had similar interests and he was easy to talk to. He seemed like a nice guy, and he was a carpenter so he could build and fix things. It was a crossroads in my life. There was an ember ready to build into a potentially nice fire, and I snuffed it out by negative thinking and saying "no."

When you say "yes" to yourself, you allow the Universe to help you meet your match by using positive thinking. When you meet lots of men, the right man has a chance to cross your path. When you say "yes" to situations and men, you are a pleasure to be with, live more fully, and believe that all your efforts will pay off.

And it will! It worked for me. It's worked for millions of women who want to really understand how to get a boyfriend.

Just for today, catch yourself when you want to say "no." Say "yes" at least once when you want to say "no." You can become a "yes" person and you can find the love you want. People find love everyday.  Say "yes" and you could be next.

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This article was originally published at It's Never Too Late for Love . Reprinted with permission from the author.