He is just using you for sex?
By Lori Pinkerton — Written on Dec 16, 2011
This topic may be taboo for some and a reality for others. If you have dated for any length of time you have been a “Booty Call” a time or two. Yes, this means you! There is no shame in it, hell there has even been a movie titled Booty Call. Some of us have been a willing “Booty Call” and others have been one unsuspectingly. For those of you who have unknowingly participated in “Booty Call” activities, I’m going to share with you the top 5 signs that you’re a “Booty Call” so that next time you can choose to continue to play along or not.
- 1st Sign That You Might be a “Booty Call”: His Phone Never Leaves His Sight
If the man that you’re seeing can never be separated from his cell phone, you might be a “Booty Call”. If he is a Customer Service Representative for T-Mobile (nothing wrong with Customer Service Reps) there is no reason why he has to be connected to his phone 24-hours a day unless he doesn’t want you to know who he is talking to or “sexting” with.
- 2nd Sign That You Might be a “Booty Call”: He Never Stays For Long
If all of your encounters with him seem rushed or time sensitive, you might be a “Booty Call”. Wonder why he keeps looking at his watch or checking his cellphone clock for the time? It’s because his “main lady” will be wondering where he is and why isn’t he calling or texting her. He will also never stay the night with you either so don’t bother asking.
- 3rd Sign That You Might be a “Booty Call”: He Never Answers His Phone After 9pm
Does he only have time for conversations during daytime of evening hours only? If so, you might be a “Booty Call”. He can’t answer his phone after dark because his live-in lady will be suspicious and she may even answer his phone. Your calls usually go to voicemail don’t they.
- 4th Sign That You Might be a “Booty Call”: Public Meet-Ups are a No-No
When was the last time that you meet him at a Chili’s? I’ll rephrase, when was the first time you met him at a Chili’s? If the answer is never, you might be a “Booty Call”. You meet him at your place at night, right? If you do get the chance to visit him at his place, your rendezvous is hurried and you are rushed out of the door (usually after sex) like it’s closing time at your local bar.
- 5th Sign That You Might be a “Booty Call”: Sex is the Only Reason He Sees You
Does he allude to the fact that he wants to have sex with you prior to all of your encounters with him? I know this sounds redundant but if he does, you might be a “Booty Call”. I know many women that believe that the more sex they have with a man the more he will bond with them. Wrong! It’s a scientifically proven fact that men don’t bond like women during sex. Your flawed strategy is working to his benefit.
These are just a few of the signs that show you what you may already suspect. He is showing you all that you need to know to make an informed decision whether you want to continue to ride the “Booty Call” carrousel or not. This has a public service announcement.
If you don’t want to be a “Booty Call” then contact me NOW at lori@loripinkerton.com or look at my Be His One and Only webpage. Now if he is an Ex Boyfriend booty call or a Friends With Benfits, then for SURE check out our Attract Your Ex webpage.
Wth much love,
Lori Pinkerton