Dating/Being Single Support

Years in Practice

3-5 years


Deans NJ 08852 - United States



Additional Expertise

Consultant, Personal Development Coach, Relationship Coach

I Practice in

Multiple states/provinces, please inquire



I Believe

You can have a life of abundance - You can release blockages holding you back - You can have the relationship you want, but first you've got to love yourself.  Once you decide you're worth it you'll never look back and you'll wonder why you waited so long.


About LJ Innes

First, you've got to love yourself.

My goal is to empower people to be the champions in their own lives and to have a winning relationship with themselves - allowing them to enhance all of their other personal realtionships, because as I often say, "First ... you've got to love yourself."

I am an intuitive and empathic life student.  Over many years I have absorbed the teachings of many enlightened speakers and authors and have been inspired by them to find my own path to personal freedom and happiness.  Now I use all that I've learned (and we never stop learning) to help others reach into their "true selves" to find their own best path to happiness.

Not unlike anyone else, I've made mistakes in love, friendships and relationships in general.  The thing about "mistakes" is that they can be transformed into lessons that teach us how to reach into our own souls, to find peace and happiness within ourselves and thereby allowing us to connect with others in a true and authentic way.

I can help you do what you want in this life and truly be happy - I know, because I did it.

  • Loving Yourself for Who You Truly Are
  • Finding the Right Relationship for You
  • Becoming a Dating Superstar!
  • Self-Empowerment Skills for Men and Women (I'm an equal opportunity empowerer)
  • Demystifying the Man Mind - What is He Thinking
  • Getting to the Core of a Woman's Heart - What is She Looking For in a Relationship
  • Can Friends Become Lovers and Vice Versa

My passion is to not only help you find the passion in your own life, but to live it each and every day.

Stop by my website - read a few articles, sign up for my emails and of course you can always write to me right here on YourTango.com.

LJ Innes Success Stories

Building Confidence and Enjoying Successful Relationships

Single women

From Needy to Fulfilledmore

DB came to me after losing most of her close relationships - her daughters didn't want any part of her, her friends were dwindling by the minute and the more she felt like she was losing, the more desperate and needy she became - which drove the remaining friends and family away.

DB and I worked together at breaking down her life into steps:

  • What she was doing in her own life to feel self-love, self-fufilled 
  • What her goals were - what she wanted from her relationships, what she wanted to give to her relationships;and
  • What her perfect friends/family relationship would look life if it were "perfect." 

We also talked about identifying the key reasons why people were leaving her life (and so abruptly).


After just a few sessions, DB was able to overcome her confidence issues - her self-love issues - and in a very short time, DB no longer looked to others to complete her, which was the biggest reason why people were turning her away. 

She has repaired her relationship with her daughters and recovered most (but not all) of her most treasured friendships (because both parties have to be willing to repair the relationship) and she is living a happier, more fulfilled life where her relationships enhance her life, but she is no longer depending on them for her happiness. 

DB learned the difference between being lonely and being alone - she involved herself in projects that made her feel complete and successful and she is enjoying new and renewed relationships.  She writes me often to thank me and tell me how much she is enjoying life - and that makes me happy.

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