5 Common Mistakes That Can Ruin Your Relationship

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5 Common Mistakes That Can Ruin Your Relationship
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By Unwritten

Most people want to meet their soulmate and live in harmony with them.

However, it’s not always easy to build a strong relationship that will satisfy both you and your significant other.

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Here are five relationship mistakes to avoid, so that you and your lover will both be happy in your relationship.

1. Lack of sex

Sex is often one of the most important parts of a relationship. If one partner constantly refuses to have sex, this could create tension in the relationship.

There are many reasons why people refuse sex, like exhaustion or health issues that cause painful sex.

For example, women with uterine fibroids are more likely to refuse sex, because the fibroids can cause pain and bleeding. Timely, proper fibroids treatment can help you reignite your sex life. This way, your significant other won’t lose their sex drive or seek sex elsewhere.

2. Disappointment in your partner

Sometimes, our lovers don’t live up to our expectations, which can create conflict and mistakes.

Maybe your significant other is more focused on his fantasy football league than his career, which bothers you. And maybe you’re not as passionate in bed as your partner likes.

If you want to resolve the conflict, start with improving yourself. Being attentive to your partner’s needs and behavior also really helps.

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3. Loss of intimacy

If you don’t call your partner to share about your life, you’ll lose intimacy and trust in your relationship. Because social media is so firmly entrenched in our lives, though, we may be more likely to share good news on Twitter than call our spouse.

However, refusing to share with our partners upfront can create problems in our relationships.

4. Lack of self-improvement

If you want to have a harmonious relationship, it’s important to improve yourself alongside your partner. If you don’t, the gap between you and your significant other will continue to grow, and you’ll drift apart.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery said, “Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” If his direction is personal growth and yours is just daydreams, you could be headed for a breakup.

5. Loss of trust

A lack of trust leads to a loss of reliability and security in your relationship. Losing trust in a partner can affect both partners in a relationship.

Your significant other may begin to reproach, interrogate, and guilt you if you’ve breached the trust in your relationship. They also may try to take away your freedom, and you’ll have to fight to earn it back.

If you feel like your relationship is hurting, be mindful of these five common mistakes that can pull couples apart. If your relationship is struggling, work to rebuild trust, intimacy, and support in your partnership for a harmonious future.

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