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It’s always strange when a man goes cold and stops treating you in a loving way
By Steven Hall — Written on May 22, 2019
It should hurt you to your core, the man you've spent time forming a relationship with is now treating you like a stranger.
Why is that?
There’s plenty of reasons as to why your man may be angry most of the time it won’t even be your fault. Maybe he got yelled at work today.
Perhaps he missed his train and had to wait an hour to go to work. Or maybe he simply is just tired and not in a good mood. Whatever the case may be it’s important to know what you can do to help him.
When you see him acting this way it’s normal to want to react and fix the problem immediately, but it’s important to have the emotional strength and not get carried away by helping him with his internal problems.
The great thing about men is that most are straight up about what is making them angry, so simply asking him politely “what's wrong?” goes a long way.
The sooner you find the problem the easier it will be to solve it. It’s also true that some guys tend to build up walls, don’t try and force him to talk about what is making him unfriendly. What’s better is to give him space to release his anger.
Zodiac signs can give us a clue as to what might be making your man unfriendly. Bear in mind that these examples may not always be the case but it will steer you into the right direction.
This is why he’s unfriendly and doesn't always want to talk with you, based by zodiac sign, per astrology.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries loves to feel like they are the greatest thing since sliced bread. Perhaps you man may not feel loved by people in his job or maybe even you, doing more things that make him feel special will help you.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus loves relaxing so perhaps his work or friends is giving him too much stress. Giving him some space to relax which will make him return back to normal.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Geminis have very short attention spans so maybe your man just went through a very long boring office meeting and he just needs time to himself. Give him that time.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers are very emotional so perhaps they received some kind of negative comment that hurt them. If you give them space to get over it they will be fine.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
They value prestige so when they don’t feel respected by the people around them they become angry. Giving him random loving affirmation will make him relax.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo's value reason so when they have for example a group task in the office, and everyone is acting based on emotions rather than fact-based reason he becomes upset.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libras loves to receive attention so when they don’t get that attention they become angry with the world. Give him attention and he will treat you like gold.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpios love work. They are workaholics, and they know it. When they’re relaxing a lot and not doing much work they become annoyed.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
They value adventure, so taking him out to a new country or state will surely give him peace in his mind about the stresses in his life.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
They value meditation, so you need to give him space to be able to combat his inner demons on his own through mediation.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius want to always change things, perhaps you need to change the paint on your room, or go to a new restaurant, or completely redesign your whole life. Aquarius needs to find some way to make himself happy.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
They value creativity, so maybe instead of doing the stereotypical movie and dinner date spice it up with an Escape Room Night, or possibly bowling. Whatever can make your man feel like you are putting in the effort to make him feel happy.
Steven Hall is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture, and relationship topics.