Why People Who Love Each Other Fight, Per Astrology

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Just because you love someone doesn’t mean that you’ll won’t fight from time to time. When you are with a person you learn so much about them, including their personality traits, which can include their weaknesses and dislikes.

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These personality traits can start to drive a person insane, especially after they have been with someone for an extended period of time. It almost makes you upset that you love them so much that you would be willing to overlook the things you dislike about them.

Here's a good way to find out what would be some triggers that lead to fighting. Find out what would make a person fight with their partner would be to look at their zodiac sign. This information can give you insight about their personality traits that you might have otherwise overlooked.

It could either help you decide on whether or not you want to engage with this person before you even begin to fall in love, or it could help you decide on how to interact with them when you are in love. Either way their zodiac sign will at least explain why they act the way they do and how that could cause you’ll to argue.


If they are a Scorpio, then their personality traits include being jealous and distrusting. Their partner might find that this causes them to fight because Scorpio has a hard time believing they aren’t doing right by them.

This could get tiring as a Scorpio will almost always find something suspicious that their partner does as a way to go do research and insist that they will find out the truth. Knowing this ahead of time can prepare their partner to have fights any time they do something that even looks or sounds suspect. Find out why people in love fight based on their zodiac sign.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

Aries are speedy beings who always need to be active. This means that when the activity stops they become moody and impatient. Aries usually end up taking their frustrations out on their partner as a result.They don't take into consideration how that person feels which can cause fights when they're in love. An Aries will care more about their own feelings and boundaries so they don't have the patience to focus on their partner's. 

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)


Taurus don't like a lot of things, including insecurities, complications or changes which are all things that come with being in a relationship. They get into fights when in love because of their stubbornness and unwillingness to compromise.


A Taurus doesn't know how to loosen up and hear different approaches to solving problems. Because of this they end up with a lot of anger and frustration issues that they don't know how to overcome. This causes tension in their relationships. 

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

As a Gemini there are two main things that cause them to get into fights when in love. They hate being confined and they hate repetition and routines. As a result Gemini's find it hard to have lasting emotions with any partner.

They are all about exchanging positive information, not finding ways to fix problems or mistakes. This is usually why eventually they might end up taking their own route to further their aims and leave that person behind if they can't get on the same page as Gemini. 

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

A Cancer's weaknesses include being pessimistic, moody, insecure and suspicious which can cause many fights when they are in love. Their partner never knows what to expect from them and that makes them hard to get to know.

They will argue with their partner about almost everything since they let their emotions get the best of them. But because Cancer's value their image they will end up making many unhealthy compromises that will just result in even more moodiness and self-pity on their end.

LEO (July 23 - August 22)


Leos are self-centered people who neglect the needs of other people. This can cause fights when in love as they assume a leadership role and only care about how their partner is serving them. If they aren't being treated like royalty then it is likely they will cause an uproar.

Leos will also start to impose their lifestyle on their partner even though they clearly show no interest in doing things the way a Leo wants all the time. Their partner will get fed up and a lot of arguments can happen as a result of this.


VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)


Virgos can get stuck in the details, which causes them to be overcritical. Because of this they take a careful approach to life. This can make them fight when in love as they come up with an equation for their partner to follow.

Virgos believe this equation can be used to prevent and solve problems in a relationship. However it can have the opposite effect as it causes them to search for the problem in any and every thing their partner does..making them pick fights over the tiniest things. 

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)


In trying so hard to avoid confrontation, Libras will carry a grudge for the longest. This can cause fights when they're in love their partner can start to take advantage of them as they speak on their behalf. Libras will get upset that their partner forgets that they have their own opinions and can speak up for themselves.

If there are no clear boundaries set where Libra can still be independent and stay true to their core personality, then they will continuously fight with their partner as they try to assert their power. 


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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)


Scorpios are distrusting and jealous, causing them to get in heated fights when they are in love. They will almost always suspect that their partner is out doing something wrong. This will make them search the house or their partner's social media pages in hopes of finding out the truth when they think they are being lied to.

If they keep looking for trouble then they will find it. Eventually the fights will get to be too much and their partner will distance themselves because it is hard being in a relationship with someone who doesn't trust you. 

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)


Sagittarius will say anything that comes to their mind, even if it is rude and can hurt their partner's feelings. This causes them to fight in relationships because their partners feel disrespected whenever they ask Sagittarius to do something.


They will always respond in an insensitive manner as if asking them to say or do something is the most irritating thing in the world. They have to learn how to respond in a socially acceptable manner if they want the fights to end.

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)


Capricorn's find a problem with almost everything at some point. They don't know the proper way to respond to when their partner's differ too much from the, so they will argue their beliefs until the end of time.

This will cause them to fight when in love as they will be a condescending know-it all who doesn't know how to compromise. Even when the fight  has finally come to a close, they will continue to bring it up because they are unforgiving and put a lot of focus on the past. 


AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)


An Aquarius has really strong views which makes them hard to deal with. They will have fights when in love because they are uncompromising and temperamental. Aquarius born will not like it when their partner disagrees with them.

Instead of agreeing to talk about why they feel the way they do, they will run from expressing themselves. This means that many problems go unsolved which just continues to add tension to the relationship. Before you know it either them or their partner will blow up. 

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)


Pisces can be sad quite often which causes them to have the desire to escape reality. They don't like to face their fears head on which leads to them fighting when in love. Instead of taking responsibility for their actions or lack thereof in a relationship, they like to play the victim. 
This can make their partners mad because a Pisces will always try to make them seem like the bad guy. A lot of times they will play victim just to get attention from their partner which only makes matters worse. 

Alexis George is a writer who covers love, relationship advice, astrology and personality topics.