How To Move On When You Still Love Him, By Zodiac Sign

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How to Get Over A Man You Still Love, By Zodiac Sign

Why is it so hard to get over someone that you once had a crush on? My friend was already going through so much and this awkward crush situation wasn't helping her. I kept thinking what exactly I could do to help her get over this person, who is obviously not the best choice for her.

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Getting over a crush can be difficult for many reasons. Maybe he works with you and you hence you have to see him every day.

Maybe she is a close friend and you just can’t get over your crush even though you know there is no hope. Or maybe, the person is already taken! That is when you REALLY need to get over your crush. Luckily, your zodiac sign can guide you in this arduous but important process.

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You see, your zodiac sign does not only reveal information about your horoscope personality and likes and dislikes, but it can also show you the wonderful strengths you have been bestowed with. Knowing your strengths is important since it can give you ideas about how you can deal with certain situations or dilemmas such as how to get over your crush.

For instance, knowing that as a Virgo, you tend to overthink things but also have the gift of rational thought, you might be able to understand how to use your strengths to combat any obstacles including getting over anyone!

Each zodiac in astrology has their own way of dealing with things and yours will tell you how best to deal with this issue.

Keep reading, then, in order to find out how to get over your crush, based on your horoscope.


ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

You are very passionate about life and everything else in it. So naturally your crushes can feel pretty intense and you can dwell on these subjects a lot. But, you also tend to be attracted to new challenges.

So a new, much more excitable option could indeed help you get over someone. Yes, I am suggesting that if your current crush seems absolutely impossible to date, not just excitingly difficult, then you should probably divert your attention to other, more interesting pursuits!

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

Taurus, your stubborn and fixed nature might prove to be difficult when you really should get over a two-year old impossible crush! But you are also very practical, which is why you should carefully assess why your current crush is better to be forgotten.

Your need for comfort and security, both physical and emotional, should help you with this.


GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

You are usually one of those signs who have lots of crushes roaming around and it’s generally easier for you to get over them! But every once in a while you will find some absolutely magical who is hard to forget. Sometimes though, as we have discussed, it’s best to forget your crush.

You should therefore use your strong communicative skills and become even more active in your social life. Who knows, maybe you will meet your soulmate at a party, causing you to forget all about this crush.

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

Your emotional and sensitive nature could make it hard for you to get over your crush. Because it’s so much more than just the superficial looks or personality about them that attracts you. But you also crave security and comfort from the familiar. And your loved ones could offer you that.

For you, Cancer, the need to get over your crush could feel threatening, which is why you should seek the assuring love and understanding from your friends and family.

These people love you unconditionally and knowing this would empower you to let go of anything and anyone, who is not able to offer you everything good that you deserve.

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)

When you like someone, more often than not, your pride gets involved. You are so charming and beautiful, why can’t they return your feelings!? Well, as the other signs would tell you, sometimes we may like people who can’t for some reason return our feelings.

In such occasions, you should firstly remind yourself that just because one person is not swooning over you, does not negate the fact that many are! I mean, you really need to look around you. Many people are vying for your attention. So do what you are best at: put yourself out there! A few days in the dating field would definitely make you forget that crush, who is too unlucky to see your charms.


VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

Your perfectionist nature also fills you with self-doubt. It can be very difficult for you, therefore, to get over your crush as the very need might make you feel like you are not good enough for them. This is, of course, untrue.

You could use your logical thinking skills in order to deal with this situation. Think about it, there are so many people in this world. The traits that this crush of yours possess are not unique to him or her. Many others have these and it’s more than likely that you would find someone even better down the road who would come closer to your ideal. So, let it go!

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

You are all about love and romance, which makes you quite fixated on your crush. But tucked inside that brain is also a rational part of you that can assess all aspects of a situation and figure out if a pursuit is worthy or not.

If chasing this crush is not worth your time, you should seriously reconsider. Making a pro and con list could help you make this decision, actually. Also, talking to a close friend on how this is not the best choice for you could make you second guess enough to get over this person.

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

Your intense and passionate soul makes your crushes profound. It’s more than just a physical attraction for you, which obviously makes it harder to let go.

But you also have strong will and determination. Use these strengths to pull away from anything that is just not meant to be. Also, you definitely believe in fate. So why not use it in this case? Just start believing that if it’s meant to be, it will be. Otherwise, let it go!


SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

Your larger-than-life and optimistic outlook make it difficult to give up on a crush even when it’s clearly the time! But your very positive attitude about life could also help you overcome this problem.

Think about it this way: There is a reason why this crush is not the right person for you. The One is actually biding his or her time and could show up any moment. You don’t want to hang on to the wrong one, do you?


CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

It takes you awhile to start liking someone. So when you finally have set your mind on your crush, it’s difficult to be told that you can’t have them. But you are also looking for better opportunities in life and never shy away from working hard for them.

Hence, you should try to look for better opportunities! Yep, I mean look for better love interests, who are as ambitious and successful as you already are or most definitely going to be!

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

You are one of those signs that can live in their heads. Add with that the fact that you are quite stubborn in your wants and beliefs and we can clearly see why it can be difficult for you to get over a crush!

But you are also very active in social justice causes, which can be almost therapeutic for you. You also love to hang out with your large friend group. So bring these two interests together and I guarantee you, you will forget all about this crush in no time!

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

You are a true dreamer, Pisces. In your dreams, it is possible that you are already with that person! This causes you to get too emotionally attached to that dream- but not the person, mind you.

One of your strengths is your ability to feel universal love without much expectations. You can seek the help of meditation, but this strength alone can make you admire your crush without getting too sad about the whole situation. This is how you finally liberate yourself!

Mehruba Chowdhury is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.