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Don't be surprised.
By Alexis George — Written on Jan 21, 2019
Why would a guy come over to your house without notice?
If you’ve ever heard of the term “popping up,” then you know it is rarely ever used in a good way.
When someone is described as just popping up, this usually means that they are known to show up places without being invited.
They are most likely trying to start trouble or prove their suspicions. Either way it is frowned upon. But what if we looked at popping up from a different viewpoint. Could it be possible for a person to just show up somewhere without having bad intentions? Definitely!
Specifically, in the case of a man showing up announced, he might really be trying to either win you over, romantically surprise you, or plead his case. Whatever the reason might be, he has probably decided that showing up in person will result in a better outcome.
A good way to tell why he might be doing this is to find out more about his zodiac sign. The different character traits associated with each horoscope sign give us an idea of why a person may act the way they do.
Knowing this will allow us to be more understanding of their behavior and allow us to not assume the worse when they are exhibiting behaviors that might seem weird or dangerous to us. If you are seriously interested in a guy that shows up unannounced, it won’t hurt to find out why.
You may be surprised to learn what is going on inside of his head. This can better help you prepare for how he will respond to certain situations throughout the relationship.
For example, if you know he hates planning then you can expect that he will randomly pop up if he gets excited about something.
Or maybe if he is insecure then you know if you’ll are fighting that he will pop up to make sure the fight won’t result in you seeking comfort from someone else. Read below to see why your guy just shows up, per astrology traits.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Your Aries lover is impatient. He has a hard time waiting for anything, including a text message response. If you’ll aren’t on good terms and he senses you are upset, instead of waiting for you to reach out he will simply show up at your doorstep. He wants to fix the problem as soon as possible, so he will be persistent in his efforts to do so.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
The sign of Taurus can be Possessive. He wants to spend as much interrupted time with you as possible. Sometimes he forgets that you have other friends, so he will just show up and announce his plans to spend time with you.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
A Gemini hates being alone. If he is by himself for too long he will start to go crazy. Because he is into you, he won’t mind having you keep him company. He will likely show up at your house with food and convince you to have meaningful conversation with him.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers can be suspicious and insecure. When he hasn’t developed a certain level of trust with you he might be more inclined to show up where you are to make sure you aren’t playing him and spending time with other guys.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
There is nothing a Leo likes more than showing off. When he is in a relationship will do just about anything to show how powerful he is. This includes showing up unexpectedly to your job, house or wherever else with flowers and other gifts. He likes the attention and wants to see your reaction in person.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Virgos worry a lot. If he hasn’t heard from you for an extended period of time, then he will assume the worst. He will attempt to convince himself that you are just busy, but after a while of checking his phone and pacing back and forth he will simply show up to your last known location to be sure you are fine.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Maintaining peace is one of the most important things to a Libra in a relationship. When you’ll are having a disagreement, he doesn’t believe in communicating over the phone. He will get frustrated easily because things get lost in translation and can only worsen the problem. At this point he will stop replying to messages and end up at your door. He wants to end the fight as soon as possible without your feeling being too hurt.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
When a Scorpio man falls in love he can become overly attached to his partner. Being around you puts him at ease, so he will want to be near you all the time. Because of this he will find ways to show up wherever you are, this way he can get a small dose of your love to keep him going throughout the day.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
A Sagittarius is known to have faith in lucky outcomes. This means he can choose extreme methods to try and win you over, especially if you haven’t been showing him much interest. This includes showing up unannounced. He thinks that surprising you will force you to truly give him a real chance of getting closer to you.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn’s like to control every little thing. When he shows up without you expecting him, it gives him control over the situation. In the event that he has messed up in some way, blindsiding you allows him to avoid his own bad actions as he shifts the topic to you and talks about how you caused him to act a certain way.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
An Aquarius knows that he can be distant. He enjoys being alone but knows that this makes him a challenge to be with sometimes. Because of this he likes to show up when you least expect him to.
When doing this he is able to show you that he was thinking about you and that even though he likes his own personal space he likes you enough to make you happy by spending time with you.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces love romance. He is known to take you on dates that are unplanned. It is not unlike him to just show up on your doorstep, nicely dressed, telling you that he has a magical night planned for the two of you.
Alexis George is a writer who covers love, relationship advice, astrology and personality topics.