How To Make The First Move On Him, Per Astrology

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Are you dying to make the first move on a guy but don't know if you'll scare him off if you do?

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Ever wonder why those guys that come up to you and are cute until they open their mouths and tell you their pick-up line, that you have already heard about one hundred times that night, do not leave a lasting impression in your mind and scare you off?

Well, for starters they did not have their personality and personal style shine through their overused line of, are you from Tennessee because you are the only ten I see.

So let’s flip the switch! In order to make the first move with him, you need to be comfortable and confident.

Making the first move is always a little nerve— wracking, everyone feels the same way, but do not worry you got this! Every woman should have her own unique moves that become her signature weapon that drives a man wild.


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As long as you are comfortable with making the right first move for his zodiac sign you can use it until you find Mr.Right, you will be confident that he will remember you! You walk into your Saturday night hot spot and are ready to work your magic on the guy of your dreams across the room.


You definitely will not be walking up and reading a rehearsed line that you and your girlfriends wrote in the Uber on the way over, at least you should not be!

You need to show him your own style and personality while listening to his zodiac sign requirements from the moment you lay eyes on him without being too dramatic.



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Not every woman has the same moves on the dance floor, so why have one universal first move for every guy you meet?

His zodiac sign tells a lot about his personality and style so here is a comprehensive list of what your first move should look like on the gorgeous guy across the room that won’t send him running for the hills.

Per astrology, here's how to make a first move on him using his horoscope sign. \

1. ARIES (March 21- April 19)


These types of men love competition and exude confidence so use your leadership skills to your advantage. Go up to him and simply say hi. Be upfront and these boys will love your outgoing personality and confidence of just walking over and approaching them.

Making the first move will make him go crazy for you already since you are portraying confidence! Once you have exchanged hello's talk about anything you have done that is competitive.

Maybe you were on the swim team and won some medals or have a winning streak at mini golf—which can double as a date for future references!

2. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20) 


Touch is so important for these zodiac signs. Be flirtatious when you approach him and get him to talk to you. Lightly place your hand on his forearm and let it linger for a few seconds. He will surely notice this sign of flirtatious movement and instantly feel a level of connection and attraction.

Let him make the next move after your first slight touch and try to keep your hands off of him after the first time to drive him crazy. He will try to do anything to get you to flirtatiously touch him again, so wait for his cue. 

3. GEMINI (May 21 — June 20)


He is sure to be witty and fun, so you can be playful and smart. Approach this zodiac sign with an intelligent tease that is not too harsh. Let him know that he would be a ten if he had worn a blue shirt instead of the yellow one.

Remember to smile coyly at him while teasing him to let him know that you are being flirtatious and witty so he does not become serious and confused.

4. CANCER (June 21 — July 22)


Men with this zodiac sign are emotional and sympathetic however they find it hard to open up to strangers. Try to ease your way into a Cancer's friend group and from there flirtatious signals can be exchanged while making this sign comfortable enough to flirt back.

Try talking to him about something you are deeply passionate about and he will likely see your passion and take a liking to you are your desires that you shared. This can strike a close bond between both of you.

5. LEO (July 23 — August 22)


Natural born leaders and always looking for fun which makes the men with this zodiac sign easy to impress with stories of adventure. Go up to him and talk about fun things you have done recently. 

He will appreciate your courage of making the first move and his warm-hearted personality will help him see you as the kind and wonderful woman you are.

This fun loving guy can be impressed by your creative ways of approaching him that are entertaining to him, so perhaps sign up for karaoke and dedicate the song to the man with blue eyes and a white shirt.

He will surely notice you and the courage it took to get up there and sing him a song. Make sure to let him come to you after your choice of song because his dominant personality traits will want to chase you down to meet the girl with the courage.


6. VIRGO (August 23 — September 22) 

With this shy and analytical sign make sure that you make the first move in a nondramatic way that does not bring too much attention to the both of you.

Make the first move by getting close to him and asking him for help with something, he will notice the small details of your encounter and feel a little more comfortable talking to you.


Make sure your favor is not too demanding. You can strike up a conversation about nature or animals after thanking them for the help they gave you. He will be flirting with you in no time!   

7. LIBRA (September 23 — October 22)

Since men with this sign hate being alone try to approach them when you see the opportunity that they are about to become isolated by friends.

Once just about to be alone you can swoop in and have a conversation because they will be dying to be talking to someone in order to not have to be alone.


Libra's tend to enjoy the outdoors so finding common ground with your love for walking your dog or distance running on hilly trails is a must.

8. SCORPIO (October 23 — November 21)

Since men with this zodiac sign are fierce and passionate, playing with him and showing your more seductive side should be your go-to first move. Tease him a little bit. Do not go too far.


Try talking to his friend or another guy close to him while casually glancing his way locking eyes with you for a few seconds. This flirtatious move is a tease and instills a ting of jealousy in him that he will want to get rid of and talk to you.

Mess with his mind a little bit to create the fun and emotion filled moment that will leave him wanting your number. Make sure you do not be outright mean though!

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9. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 — December 21)


These guys are all outgoing, fun loving and funny so use these innate traits to your advantage! For the first move with this zodiac sign tell him your best joke. Use your humorous side to run your best joke by him and see what he thinks.

He will love your enthusiasm and his sense of humor will kick in with an opening line of a joke making him think highly of your abilities to make him smile.

The joke doesn't even have to be amazing, just make sure it is not too straightforward or challenging. Start with a light-hearted easy to follow joke and tease him by asking him to tell you a better one. 


10. CAPRICORN (December 22 — January 19)

The men with this sign tend to love tradition and practicality so taking a normal approach to casually and politely introduce yourself will rub off in the best way. He will appreciate your great manners and take an automatic liking to you over other women who throw themselves at him.

Once you have him reacting positively to your kindness and polite demeanor you can talk about your families. He will love anything you tell him about your nephew and how you babysit him often!


11. AQUARIUS (January 20 — February 18) 

For an intellectual and playful side of first moves that this sign will love, scan the room for the guy you find oh so attractive. Check him out from the other side of the room first and slowly begin making your way closer to him.

Try to establish eye contact throughout your move closer to him while observing what he is drinking, who he is talking to, and of course, if he keeps staring back at you.

Once you get close enough to him since you have held previous eye contact you will likely feel more connected and then you let him hear a well planned and unexpected compliment.


Be sure to not over gaze in his direction and definitely do not be creepy when you try to lock eyes. Try to catch his eyes for about six seconds then look away.

He’ll be anxious to talk to you because of an established connection and want to get to know the woman behind the game that he cannot seem to stop playing with you.

12. PISCES (February 19 — March 20)

The sentimental, gentle and compassionate side of you should definitely make the first move by smiling and offering a compliment to men with this sign.


He will love your raw emotional side of a well thought out compliment and his friendliness and love for romance will ensure the conversation goes smoothly.

Be calm and collected as you speak with him about your favorite music or artist. Talk about what artistic interests you have that you can possibly do together ... in the near future!

Natalia Jaramillo is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.