There is always a lesson to learn when things don't work out the way you planned.
By Briana Johnson — Written on Oct 17, 2018
Recently went through a breakup? You thought everything was okay between you and your partner, yet somehow everything fell apart.
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You don't really know how you ended up single? Look no further, as I'll explain to you what exactly happened, and what kept you from receiving your happily ever after. Will it be completely accurate? No. Everyone is different and every relationship is different.
So, of course, there will be some inaccuracies, however, there are always things to learn for when you look to approach a new relationship.
Maybe you were too stubborn, or maybe your partner spent too much money when it wasn't warranted.
P ersonally, I know a lot of my tendencies based on being a Virgo have affected some things in my relationship. Learning from those helped me to be better in my current relationship.
We all have flaws, and things we should work on, so don't get discouraged if some of these things caused a relationship to implode.
Even your partner's horoscope traits could have had something to do with it, and of course, maybe neither of those things attributed to the break up at all.
It is better to know if they could've contributed to your relationship's demise though. So, according to astrology, here is why your last relationship ended based on your zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
You’re impulsive. Being spontaneous can often keep relationships spicy. However, there’s a difference between spontaneity and impulsivity. Once you become too impulsive, anything can happen from financial issues to emotional issues. You might even be known for leaving your partner on a whim without notice. Most partners may not be willing to deal with a person who leaps into everything before planning.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
You’re stubborn. You’re known to be stable and dependable. Your partner can count on you to always pull through when they need you. However, you’re also known to be unyielding in everything you do. Sometimes, that can be grating for a partner and your relationship. Its okay to relent sometimes, and step back in order to allow your relationship to breathe.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
You hate commitment. You don’t want to be tied down. You’re a free spirit who most often wants to explore the world alone. Some partners are willing to relent to this, however, most won’t appreciate a partner who is liable to leave at the drop of a dime.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
You’re moody. While you can be over-emotional, that excess emotion can turn into moodiness when you don’t get your way. You are so known to give more than you receive, but you also desire reciprocation. Without it, you are known to do petty things, including resorting to brooding in order to get your way.
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LEO (July 23 - August 22)
You’re selfish. With always wanting to be in the spotlight this can often manifest in placing yourself before your partners. With this, you may make plans that they may not be okay with, or even search for other partners who you believe to be better than what you have. You should focus on placing other’s needs before your own at times.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
You’re critical. You are known to be a perfectionist, seeking the best in every situation. As a result, you can often be critical of yourself, your partner and your relationship. Though in some cases this is fine, constant nit-picking will drive your partner away rather than keep them near. Try not to be so criticizing of others, Virgo.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
You’re apathetic. Though you are known to be emotional when you care for someone, after a while, you’re also known to grow apathetic. Eventually, the onslaught of emotions will tend to annoy you (usually after something you don’t like happens) and you isolate and harden yourself so that you don’t care about the relationship, or even your partner anymore.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Monogamy may not be for you. You’re a master in the bedroom with a healthy sexual appetite. As a result, you sometimes find yourself entertaining other people, or delve into sexual fantasies your partner may not be comfortable with. Also, since you aren’t known to be a liar, your partner will eventually know and will leave.
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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
You’re too honest. Always valuing honesty, you aren’t afraid to hold back, even with your partner. This happens mainly when you’re angry and your hot-blooded nature emerges. This honest energy can often be crass, and harmful, and your partner may end up leaving with a lot of hurt feelings.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
You’re a workaholic. You are very ambitious and totally willing to work all of the time. This can bring you great financial security, but also alienate your partner. Sometimes you have to clear your schedule and let loose the reigns so that you can let your partner know that you care for them, Capricorn.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
You’re flighty. Your emotions range from passionate, to dull in a flash. Due to this, you are more likely to not want to continue a relationship after a while. This will manifest in a lack of care to your partner, and they will eventually leave, seeking someone who shows them the emotion that they need in a relationship.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
You run away from your problems. Relationships are almost destined to have some static. In healthy relationships, these issues are resolved in non-volatile ways. However, you hate confrontation, and will actively look for ways to avoid it. This can cause relationship problems to fester, and never be resolved, which will eventually lead the relationship to destruction.
Briana Johnson is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture, and relationship topics.