10 Reasons Why Falling In Love With Someone With An ESFJ Personality Type Is So Easy

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According to the Myers Briggs Personality Test, there are 16 different types of personalities. Every person falls into one of these categories based on how they answer a simple questionnaire.

Each of the personality types has specific traits that make them unique, and some are more popular than others. Some personality types contain less than 2% of the world population, others are as high as over 13%. 


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Ranking in at holding 12.3% of the world's population, the ESFJ personality type is clearly one of the most common Myers Briggs personality types of all.

This type is symbolized as "the consul" for several reasons: these people are social, caring, helpful, and practical, which all make for a pretty likable personality.

ESFJ personality types are also known to have really solid, lasting relationships. Whether it's with friends, family, or a romantic partner, their relationships exceed those of all other personality types.

This is part of the reason why falling in love with them is SO easy.


When it comes to dating, everyone has a type and looks for certain characteristics in a potential partner. However, there are a few traits that everyone undeniably wants to see in the person they love. Loyalty, trust, support, and effort are just a few of these necessary qualities that make for a successful relationship.

And yes, you guessed it, the ESFJ personality type has them all! It's impossible not to fall in love with these guys when they're honestly pretty close to perfect. 


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Wondering what exactly it is that makes them so perfect? Well, here's a list of all of the great things that ESFJ personality types bring into a relationship. Who knows? Maybe one day you'll be lucky enough to fall in love with one too. 


1. People with the ESFJ personality type are naturally supportive.

They want to know about your work and home life, your dreams, your ambitions, EVERYTHING. It's important that they know you inside and out so that they can support you through it all.

They will always be your biggest cheerleader, even when you're unsure of yourself. 


2. They make (and keep to) their plans.

ESFJ types absolutely love surprises, so it's pretty much a guarantee that you'll be surprised with many spontaneous, creative dates throughout your relationship. They want you to feel special, so planning something that they know you will love is totally worth the hassle for them. 


3. They're loyal to the bone.

Stability and morality are two of their strongest values. They can be trusted with absolutely everything, and they will never leave your side no matter how tough things get. They want you and ONLY you. 

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4. People with an ESFJ personality type make great parents.

ESFJ personality types aspire to be great parents just as much as they aspire to be successful in their career. Playing with kids is a sense of pure happiness for them, and trust me, they want you to take notice of just how good of a parent they'd be. 


5. They are naturals at avoiding conflict.

ESFJ personality types hate conflict and disagreements. They have no problem being the person who steps up and offers a compromise. When they approach a conflict, they acknowledge it and do whatever it takes to fix the issue at hand. 


6. They are genuinely interested in keeping friends and family close.

Being the extroverts they are, ESFJ people are great at connecting with others. Knowing how important your friends and family are to you, they make sure they spend a lot of time getting to know them. They totally won the "Best To Bring Home To Mom" superlative in the high school yearbook. 


7. People with ESFJ personality type are team players.

If you reach an obstacle in your relationship, they don't want to be fighting on opposite sides of the issue. They want to work out the problem together and use it as a way to make your relationship even stronger.  


8. They're not afraid of commitment.

The word "fling" doesn't even exist in their vocabulary. If an ESFJ type takes interest in you it's because they know you'll make a great partner and they want to pursue something that will last. If they're in it, they're in it for life. 


9. They hold traditional values.

ESFJ personality types aren't ones to navigate the Tinder world. They believe in formal dates, opening the car door for you, and offering up their jacket when you're feeling chilly. Who said chivalry is dead?  


10. They make you feel secure in your relationship.

Money isn't everything, I know. But, ESFJ people are extremely practical and they always plan ahead for the future. Even though you're totally not dating them for their money, it doesn't hurt to know that you'll be secure in a relationship with them. 


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