How He Acts Around You Vs. How He Acts Around His Friends, According To Astrology

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How He Acts Around You Vs. How He Acts Around His Friends, According To Astrology
Love, Zodiac

Let’s be real – everybody acts a little differently around certain people. But, depending on his astrological zodiac sign – he may act completely differently around you than he acts around his friends.


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Depending on the month he was born in and what horoscope sign he has, he may act one way with his pals and a completely different way around you.

It can be frustrating when you’re dealing with a guy that is sweet and romantic as heck when you two are alone, but then is a complete douche bag when his buddies come around to visit.

Maybe it’s time to start thinking of him as “relationship guy” (the guy that you fell in love with) and “dude guy” (that douchey frat guy that comes out occasionally when he’s had a few around his college pals – ugh. Such a turn off).


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Some guys really are who they are regardless of who they’re around. But these types of guys are special and quite rare.

More often than not, a guy becomes a bit different around other males (it’s like other males hit the “dumb a**” button).

Maybe you haven’t seen your new guy around his friends yet and you’re worried because you’ve seen this phenomenon before (totally understandable).

Prepare yourself by reading how likely it is, according to astrology, that he’ll be a different person in “bro mode”.

Find his zodiac sign below and see how he is likely to act around you vs. how he acts around his friends. 


ARIES (March 21 – April 19)

How he acts around you:

Aries are passionate and confident by nature, which makes Aries guys hot as hell. You tend to not have to stroke an Aries guys ego (although it won’t hurt matters any *wink, wink*) and he’s likely to be so passionate with you that you’ll end up weak at the knees.

How he acts around his friends:

With his friends, the Aries guy can be very competitive (bordering on douchey). Occasionally he may even come across as a bit of an a**hole when hanging out with his pals, but his honest nature will make him true to who he is (even if his over-competitive nature with his friends can be a bit of a tun off).


TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)

How he acts around you:

In private, the Taurus is extremely likely to be very romantic and sensual. The Taurus is the most likely of the zodiac signs to enjoy cuddling (score for the snuggly gal) and is unlikely to make you feel neglected in the “kissing department”.

How he acts around his friends:

Around his friends, the Taurus guys are likely to be overprotective and possessive of you. The Taurus is likely to always be touching you in some way to let his buddies know that you’re his girl.


GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)

How he acts around you:

Around someone he has romantic feelings for the Gemini is prone to being very affectionate and gentle. He’s likely to be found lightly touching your cheeks and giving you delicate (and extremely romantic) kisses.

How he acts around his friends:

The Gemini is likely to have a wide range of different friends, all of which he will act differently around having adapted to the social setting. For example – with his work friends he will have adaptive to the work culture and behave accordingly and with his “college buddies” he’s likely to be more rambunctious and fun.


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CANCER (June 21 – July 22)

How he acts around you:

Being very emotional and sensitive by nature tend to mean that the cancer is likely to be very in touch with how he feels about you and is likely to be very creative about how he expresses it. He’s one of the best zodiac signs to talk about your feelings with you but try to avoid criticizing his mother (just trust me on this one).

How he acts around his friends:

The Cancer is a very loyal zodiac sign. Therefore, a lot of his friends he will have had since various stages of his life (i.e. some from childhood, some from high school, some from college, etc.). Around them, he is likely to enjoy good conversation over a good meal, although he is a bit private about his personal life.


LEO (July 23 – August 22)

How he acts around you:

Often, a Leo is the type of guy you can laugh with and cry with. He’s the type of guy that wants to help you solve your problems and wants to help you laugh off your struggles.

How he acts around his friends:

Leo’s tend to be the leader of their “wolf pack”. He is always making sure everyone (especially himself) is having a good time when they’re hanging out together.


VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)

How he acts around you:

Leos are hardworking and loyal, which tends to mean that Leo boyfriends aren’t around as often as you’d like (he’s usually at work or working on a project), but he is so loyal that he is always around when it counts (and usually isn’t unwilling to do the dishes).

How he acts around his friends:

Leo’s tend to be on the shy side, so around his friends, he is usually the quiet one going with the flow. He tends to not like to draw too much attention to himself and won’t ask for help although he is quick to help out when asked.


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LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)

How he acts around you:

Libras are the most likely of the zodiac signs to be a little “socially needy” as they to be unable to stand being alone so he’ll be around most of the time. It’s important to make time to be apart (or for him to hang out with his pals so you can get some alone time).

How he acts around his friends:

Being very fair and social by nature, the Libra tends to interact with his friends extremely well. He is likely to be the guy doing everything to make sure that the social setting is harmonious without any confrontations and limited disagreements.


SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)

How he acts around you:

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Being passionate by nature, the Scorpios can make excellent lovers. However, their passion CAN have a downside in the way of being a bit on the jealous side. It’s important to make sure you have an open and honest dialogue with your Scorpio guy so that he feels more secure and is less likely to become secretive (which his zodiac sign is prone towards).

How he acts around his friends:

He enjoys teasing his buddies and developing long term friendships that lasts for years (or a lifetime). More often than not a Scorpio’s pals will describe him as “a true friend”.


SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)

How he acts around you:

While being energetic, generous, and enthusiastic tend to be make them excellent lovers, they don’t always make the best “forever guy”. Tending to have a need for freedom and travel tend to make them have trouble committing to a relationship long-term.

How he acts around his friends:

While they don’t make the best significant other, Sags tend to make great friends to people who don’t need them around all the time (Sags tend to be a bit flakey). Around his friends (when he shows up), he’s generous and has a great sense of humor, which make him extremely likable.


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CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)

How he acts around you:

The Capricorns tendency to being family-oriented tend to make him serious about his romantic relationships. Capricorn guys tend to be really stubborn and easily annoyed (sometimes even condescending), but he’ll be practical and responsible, which is what everyone woman wants at some point.

How he acts around his friends:

Around his friends, he’s most likely the annoying one who is going home early to be with his family and/or being the designated driver.


AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)

How he acts around you:

Aquarius’ tend to enjoy someone who enjoys listening to them rant about their humanitarian efforts. He may have trouble talking about his emotions, but he’ll be great about helping you out with whatever you need.

How he acts around his friends:

Around his friends, he tends to be all about fun, even if he can be occasionally annoying by talking about his latest cause he’s into. Aquarius’ tend to enjoy intellectual conversations with their peers.


PISCES (February 19 – March 20)

How he acts around you:

For a guy, he’ll tend to melt at romantic gestures. He’s the most likely of the zodiac signs to achieve a very strong emotional relationship with you.

How he acts around his friends:

The Pisces is the most likely to be taken advantage of by his friends due to his tendency towards being overly trusting and always being willing to help others. For example, he’s likely to be the friend that allows his pals to barrow money (that he’ll never get back).


Nicole Bradley-Bernard is a writer who needs coffee more than she needs anyone’s approval. She enjoys putting bright colors in her curly brown hair, spending time outside on cool days and being with her partner in life, Eric, who she considers a continuing source of inspiration.