You Don’t Need Anyone’s Permission To Feel F*cking Gorgeous

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body positive

You are beautiful no matter what you say.

How much do you love your body? If you are like most women you have a desire to improve your body in some way, you probably have a love hate relationship with your body. Research has shown that 80 percent of women in the U.S. are dissatisfied with their appearance. And more than 10 million are suffering from eating disorders. 
We are constantly sold images of what is defined as sexy and desirable. In many non-Caucasian ethnic groups the fairer skin toned you are the more desirable you are seen in your community. The bottom line is that we become disconnected from the beautiful miraculous nature of our bodies. Instead of celebrating we are constantly criticizing and fighting our bodies.
This constant battle on our bodies leaves us feeling depressed, anxious, and that we are not good enough.
Now imagine what it would be like to feel good in your body, to feel happy and appreciative of it. It’s possible to change your relationship with your body, and once you do you will actually see your body physically become more and more beautiful.
1.  Focus on what you love about your body.
Like everything, what you focus on gets stronger. If you focus on the lack and the negative, the more negative you will get. This is true for our bodies as well. When you focus on what you love about your body, you will find more and more to love! Your body will feel your love leading to health, happiness and ease.  
2. Express gratitude for your body
Think about all your body enables you to do. Make a ritual to express gratitude to different parts of your body daily. Thank your feet for carrying you where you need to go, your hands for helping you connect with others, your hips for attracting potential partners or for helping your body carry a healthy baby.  
3. STOP comparing yourself
You are unique and you do not compare to anyone on this earth. Sociologists and other concerned academics and social critics have traditionally put the spotlight on fashion magazines and other forms of media. Social media is no different. No one is perfect, and in the words of Gloria Steinem, “perfectionism is internalized oppression.”
4. Meditate

When you quiet your busy mind, your body's true miraculous nature surfaces.
5. Practice body awareness by simply observing your breath 
Seriously, it’s like doing yoga when you are not at yoga. Focus on your breath, when you walk, when you are sitting are your desk. Just notice your breath in and out of your nostrils, your chest or stomach.
6. Eat and exercise from your intuition by listening to your body
Forget the schedule or the diet plan sold to you on Instagram. 
No one’s body is the exact same, when you tune in to the subtle needs of your body, your body will get what it needs to look and feel its best.
The more you tune into your body the happier and more empowered you will be. Your body and the body of all women is truly miraculous not a shameful problem to fix, but a gift to be celebrated and honored.  

May you feel honored to be in a woman’s body today. 

Samin is an ICF accredited Life Coach who specializes in supporting women. Ready to make change happen? Sign up to receive her free tips.