16 Struggles Only B*TCHES Understand

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Ugh, you have no idea.

B*tches get a bad rap. Sure, we're not always the nicest, sweetest, or quietest people, but one thing you can count on: bitches are the most honest people in a given room.

We don't give enough f*cks to sugarcoat anything to spare your feelings, so if you need a voice of brutal truth, your best bet is absolutely to ask a b*tch.

What's more is that qualities associated with strong women — like assertiveness, strength, independence, outspokenness, and the aforementioned honesty — are often what gets a woman labeled a b*tch to begin with.

Knowing what you want, how to get it, and being vocally defiant when you're not getting what you deserve in any given situation may well get you labeled a b*tch.

When you put it that way, isn't it better to be a b*tch than a doormat? Because while b*tches may get a lot of bullsh*t, they don't tolerate any of it — and as a result, b*tches get a ton of respect, whether their detractors want to admit or not.

That said, being a b*tch isn't always a picnic. Here are some reasons being a b*tch isn't always easy ... but is almost always ultimately worth it:

Being a b*tch usually starts early.
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B*tches will tell you things you don't want to hear, so then ... well, they get labeled "b*tches."
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It's hard for you to hide your feelings.
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lady gaga dont even
Even when you say something nice on the surface ...
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im praying for you though
... Everyone knows what you really mean.
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Judging people comes naturally to you because sometimes, people are just really f*cking stupid.
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judging people
And if you make someone upset with your sass ...
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i will give you something to cry about it
Apologies aren't your thing.
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barbie i would apologize but i really dont give a fuck
You never agree to disagree because you know people who disagree are wrong.
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entitled to your wrong opinion
You never mince words.
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octavia spencer the help eat my shit
Ever.
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rupaul drag race go choke on a dick
EVER.
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nicole kidman life tear you apart
Even when you're not saying anything out loud, your body does the work for you.
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Being called a b*tch doesn't bother you at all.
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christina aguilera bitch
You even admit it yourself.
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khloe kardashian keeping up with the kardashians i am such a bitch
And this is why.
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