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Pole Dancing - The New Foreplay?

Pole Dancing - The New Foreplay?

When you think of pole dancing you might immediately conjure up a dark and seedy bar with erotic dancers undulating their semi-nude bodies around a pole suspended from the ceiling. Men have been fans of this seductive form of dance for years and with good reason.  The moves are enticing, very sexual and provocative.  It’s no wonder that strippers wear workout clothes or sexy lingerie and use their bodies along with a pole this way—it’s effective and highly erotic.
Pole dancing has been around for years, and may have actually stemmed from traveling burlesque shows that had dancing girls that performed Hootchie Cootchie dances inside tents.  The spaces that the dancers performed in were so tight that the tent pole became a prop used during the dance, mostly out of necessity.  Eventually the pole dance evolved to its current form inside clubs and bars, where burlesque performers continued to use the pole in their dancing and it became more socially acceptable. 
 
Pole dancing continues to be used amongst erotic dancers and strippers, but recently has also seen a surge in popularity amongst the general population. Gyms are offering pole dancing classes for exercise and fitness, boasting that not only is this form of dance seductive and sensuous, but it is a very good workout that builds a lot of strength in your body.  Pole dancing is fun and certainly not your everyday run on a treadmill.  It also requires and develops a lot of core and upper body strength.  
 
Even if you aren’t a stripper and you use pole dancing as a form of exercise and fitness, you simply can’t escape the erotic and sexual nature of this type of routine.  The moves are beautiful, from the sultry jazz walk strutting around the pole, to the spins around the pole with your head tilted backward and your back fully
arched.  Sure, it takes body strength and agility to pull this off, but it’s still very sexy all the same.

 
If you can’t find a class to try near you, or are simply too shy to venture out this “big”, you can fully outfit yourself in the privacy of your own home.  A fully removable pole can be purchased that uses suction to attach to the floor and the ceiling.  The flexibility and portability of a stand alone pole is something very appealing to most women, who may not want a stripper pole as a permanent fixture in their living room.  What you wear for your workout is up to you, but make sure it’s something comfortable that you can move in freely. You can go barefoot, wear athletic shoes, or if you want to practice your seductive pole dance, why not practice in your high heels?
 
Once you have the essentials of your pole-dancing routine down, don’t be surprised if your partner wants a private showing of your newly found skills.  And why not indulge them?  Although you’ve proven your athletic prowess by mastering your pole moves, why not use them to empower yourself in a more seductive way?  With a pole designed for private in-home use, you may find that inner vixen coming out of you as well as your inner athlete. Trade in your athletic shorts and tank top for a black push up bra and lacy panties—and suddenly your once great workout becomes an erotic dance of seduction.  In this case, wardrobe definitely counts! 
 
Pole dancing is now available to the masses and it’s bad reputation as something sleazy is past history. Perhaps that beguiling inner stripper that’s been lurking inside you now can come out to play. Pole dancing is a unique and fun way to get fit and feel super sexy doing it. Plus, you never know where it may lead. Is this the new foreplay? Try it and let me know!