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These 4 Hand Job Moves Will Give Him The Best Erection Of His Life!

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4 Hand Job Moves To Give His Penis A Stronger Erection
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Your penis is bigger than you think … And there are natural hand techniques to enlarge it too!

We live in a world where the size of a man’s member can generate intrigue, admiration, exaggeration, derision, and comedic relief.

Despite the fact that everybody knows the size of a flaccid penis is an unreliable measure of the size Mr. Happy will be when he’s feeling perky, most men can’t help but compare their equipment with the guy standing nearby in the locker room.  

And women?

Let’s face it. Women gossip.

Whether he’s hung like a horse or a quarter inch killer, sooner or later, a guy’s manhood will come under scrutiny.

Fortunately, when a penis is scrutinized up close, it’s true size is a wonder to behold ― and to be held.

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You see, there is much more to the marvelous male organ than you can see with your naked eye.

Nearly one third of a man’s member is buried deep inside his pelvis.

This part of his sexual anatomy is termed the “root” of the penis. That’s right. Not only does a penis possess a shaft and a head, it also has a root. His dick is rooted to the bones of the pelvis via several tough ligaments.

Pretty amazing, yes?

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I have more wonderful news about your joystick. You can make it bigger and healthier by massaging the root through your perineum.

And if you have a willing partner, regular stimulation of the root, combined with suckling on the shaft and head, can add another 20-30% in girth, length and overall dimension to any man’s penis.  

That and a big grin …

According to my research, blow jobs are the #1 biggest unmet desire of men from the ages of 18 to 80.

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I am going to tell you exactly how to parlay this new information into playful penis palpating pleasures.

But just for fun, let’s consider a couple other interesting facts about the human penis that every dick-worshipper should know:

Most of a man’s penis develops from the very same embryonic tissue that becomes a clitoris in the female of our species.

Likewise, what develops into the skin of the shaft and the foreskin of the head is the very same tissue that becomes her labia minora, i.e. vaginal lips.

That’s why your meat is so sensitive!

Unlike the penis of most mammals, the human penis has no bone. Your boner is boneless.

Note: I said boneless, not spineless.

What makes the Big Guy so big is truly amazing. The body of the penis (both inside and outside) is made up of three columns of tissue that look surprisingly similar to the underside of the space shuttle. (Okay, so maybe I have an overactive imagination.)

His hard-on relies entirely on these columns, which become engorged with so much blood his penis stands up, totally erect. The root of his penis is well-equipped to aid and abet this glorious erection by a strong, fibrous band of specialized ligaments that keep it buried deep in his pelvis.

Here's a video with Jim Benson, men's sexuality trainer and Tantra master and me about the benefits of engorging her vagina and your penis through massage

Now, let’s apply this knowledge and invite the entire penis out to play;

When I give my man oral sex or pleasure him with my hands, I make sure to massage underneath his scrotum on his perineum. Guys love it when you stroke this area. A great way to gain access is to climb on and orally pleasure him in 69 position so you can use your hands and mouth.

Alternatively you can ride him backward in the reverse cowgirl position. Then reach down and lightly stroke the “landing strip” between his anus and his scrotum to enliven the root. You can actually feel his buried shaft with your fingers.

As you’re cradling it, call his attention to the sensation. Connect his brain to his inner stalk and encourage him to “make it hard.”

Be aware that some guys can get a little squirrely because the perineum is so close to the pooper.

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Unless he already likes his rosebud stroked, of course, in which case add that into your touching pattern.

Men get over their initial squeamishness quickly, because this area is home to millions of highly sensitive nerve endings.

Go slowly, as it can generate intense sensation for a lot of men.

At first, his perineum may be hard ― like a trampoline.

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The root of his penis may be soft and weak. With gentle ministrations, the perineum will soften and his root will get erect.

And that spells some seriously pleasurable sensations and a longer, firmer erection.

Building this strong base through massage will also help him last longer during intercourse. I think of this special massage time as laying in a base of strength to his penis.

Note: I like to use organic coconut, grape seed or avocado oil for male genital massage.

And now, here are the four hand moves that I consider “best practices” for getting him hard from the inside out:

1. Use light, flat, consistent pressure from your fingertips or the flat of your curved knuckles on his perineum while using your other hand or your mouth to stroke or suckle the shaft and head.

2. Push in on each side of the root of his penis under his balls (same place as above) by spreading the pointer and index finger and pressing in on the two channels on the left and right side of the perineum. Press gently but firmly on the inhale, release slowly on the exhale. Then move your fingers 1/16th of an inch and do it again, until you’ve “walked” your fingers the full length of those channels.

3. Stroke upward, light and slow, from near the anus along the perineum, onto the buried root, and up under his balls in a long, slow move that will drive him wild.

4. Cup the mound of engorged tissue by touching as described in 1-3 above, lightly squeezing and playing with the root as it gets harder and harder.

With all of these moves, it’s important to start with a light touch. You are introducing a lot of sensation.

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The more you do it, the longer the entire length of his penis gets. Suckling is what increases the girth and adds to the overall robustness of his erection.

Notice I didn’t say sucking. I said suckling.

Compress your tongue to the roof of your mouth with his penis in there like a baby nurses at a nipple. This will turn you on and that sucking + compression expands the tissue in his corpus cavernosum such that the diameter of his shaft expands.

And you get an added bonus for your effort: a longer, stronger, firmer hard-on to ride.

Susan Bratton believes that knowledge is power in the bedroom. In this video, "How To 10X Your Oral Sex," she demonstrates in tasteful yet sexy detail four oral pleasuring techniques you can try tonight: Cunnilingus (for her) the Lick & Roll Oral and the U-Spot Flick. And fellatio (for him) The Lord of the Rings and Every Which Way But Loose.

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