21 Super Sexy 'Would You Rather' Questions For A HOT Night In


Learn all about your partner's (secret) intimate desires!

Dirty "would you rather" questions are always a fun and daring way to spice up your and your partner's sex life

The questions in this sex game can range from simple, innocuous questions about hypothetical situations, to super naughty ones more suited to, well, the bedroom. One of the reasons that you should employ this sort of game into your conversation is because it keeps things exciting and it enables you to explore new avenues of your relationship.

How does this dirty "would you rather" game work? 

"Would You Rather" essentially poses questions regarding two hypothetical situations of which the you will have to choose one or the other. This is an excellent way to figure out what each other’s kinks, fantasies, or fetishes are in a fun and playful fashion. This sex game is relatively simple, and the questions can be as sexual or outlandish as you choose.

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Most couples start out with tame questions and make them progressively more explicit as the game progresses and they loosen up. Some couples even incorporate drinking into their games to help keep things light and fun.

But why make the questions dirty? Over time, a relationship can grow dull, and it is important to incorporate these kinds of activities in order to keep the relationship fully alive.

Here are 21 awesome dirty "Would You Rather" questions to get you started:

1. Would you rather I kiss my boss or you kiss him/her?

2. Would you rather have sex with a girl in a lacy bustier or in a bondage outfit?

3. Would you rather be in a relationship with a totally submissive partner or a totally dominant partner?

4. Would you rather have sex with just one person watching, or would you rather have sex with 50 people watching?



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5. Would you rather pursue a life where you could only ever have sex with one partner in the same position in the same bedroom or have sex with a completely different person every time?

6. Would you rather have premature ejaculation and a tiny penis, but be one of the hottest men alive, or would you rather have an incredibly sexual ability with a massive penis,  but be a mediocre looking individual?


7. Would you rather sleep with someone much older than you, or simply never have sex during your entire life time?

8. Would you rather be a virgin until you are 40 and subsequently have the most amazing sexual partners of a lifetime, or would you rather have the most amazing sexual partners until you 40 and then never have sex again?

9. Would you rather remain a virgin until marriage and have a spectacular sexual partner, or would you rather remain unmarried for the rest of your life and have a ton of great sexual partners who never love or commit to you?



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10. Would you rather only ever have sex in bed or only ever have sex outside the bedroom?

11. Would you rather be blind and sleep with the most attractive women in the world as often as you wanted or would you rather have your vision and be the same person you are now?

12. Would you rather proposition a complete stranger for sex (one who was exceptionally attractive), and face the possibility of being rejected, or would you rather receive guaranteed sex from a very unattractive individual as many times as you wanted?

13. Would you rather I go down on you or you go down on me?

14. Would you rather have sex in the kitchen or in the living room?

15. Would you rather have sex with my best friend or your best friend?



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16. Would you rather have sex in front with me in front of our closest friends or have a sex video of us, with our faces blurred out, circulated online?

17. Would you rather get a blowjob from another guy or have anal sex with a guy?

18. Would you rather make out with someone else or watch me make out with someone else?


19. If you were invisible for the day, would you secretly grab butts or boobs?

20. Would you rather give up a promotion or sleep with your boss to get a promotion?

21. Would you rather see me dressed up as a sexy librarian or an exotic dancer?


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As you can see, this is a fun and harmless way that can help both you and your partner open up. This game is designed to get people to explore all of their risk taking behaviors, and to examine all of their wants, desires and kinks, while maintaining a sense of playfulness.

Many people are unable to blatantly describe their fantasies, and this game provides an easy means by which you can explore this part of your partner without being too direct.

Sean Jameson is a sex coach and relationship educator. Learn his very best sex tips by signing up to his free newsletter on the Bad Girl's Bible website.



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