I'm going to show you how to pleasure a man using a few very simple, yet powerful techniques and tricks. Once you see how easy it is to pleasure your man in bed, you'll have one very happy man on your hands! (P.S. If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips & techniques for building sexual tension & turning him on, you’ll find them in this powerful video)
1. Start At The Start - A seriously crucial mistake that girls often make is that they believe men don't like or enjoy foreplay. They know that they get aroused and turned on incredibly quickly so they think that there is no reason to use any foreplay on him. This is just plain wrong!
The fact is that men love foreplay, even if they never express it with words. When you give your man great, long, drawn out foreplay, he is going to have find sex a lot more enjoyable and pleasurable with you. So what kinds of things can you do to really pleasure him with foreplay?
2. Kiss Him With Passion - If you are someone who prefers their man to take control, then you may be someone who waits for him to kiss you and for him to control the pace of kissing. A great way to change things up and really ramp up the pleasure is to take more control while kissing him.
So instead of just waiting for him to kiss you, trying grabbing him and just start kissing him. He will be both very surprised and very turned on.
3. Massage His...Ego - No matter what kind of guy you are with, he is going to have an ego. And men love nothing more than to have their ego massaged. An awesome way to do this is to show him that you can't keep your hands off him. Areas that men love to have massaged and touched include their neck, back, butt and their ears (the ears are like a secret place that not everybody seems to know about!).
4. Learn Some Awesome Oral Sex Techniques - Without a doubt the easiest and most effective thing you can do to make sure you pleasure your man properly each time is learn the best oral sex techniques to use on him. If you want to learn my most powerful bj techniques, then you'll find them in this video tutorial.
5. Don't Be A Starfish - If you ever wanted a shortcut on how to pleasure your boyfriend in bed, then being enthusiastic about is a major shortcut. You see, there really is no bigger turn off for your man than what I like to call Starfish Syndrome. I know 'Starfish Syndrome' sounds a little weird, so let me explain...
It's what happens when you act like a....starfish, not really moving or getting involved in love making with your man. You must absolutely avoid Starfish Syndrome if you want to pleasure your man in bed. Things you can do to be more proactive and enthusiastic in bed include using your hands to grab and scratch his back and bum, making eye contact, changing what position you are using and taking the lead from time to time.
It can be a little nerve wrecking when you first try to become more proactive in bed with your man. Don't let this worry you, it's totally natural. The important thing is to keep on trying. As you do, you're confidence will build and you'll be surprised at how fast you improve.
6. Think About What You Say To Him - If you are normally almost silent in bed, then it may be time to start getting a little more vocal. Most guys really love it when their partner talks dirty in bed. You don't necessarily need to sound like crazy pornstar when talking dirty to your man, but do at least moan loudly and let him know when he's doing something that you particularly enjoy.
Again you don't have to scream out long, descriptive sentences. Simply whispering in his ear that you love it when he does something in a certain way or even moaning in his ear is the perfect way to make sex much hotter and pleasurable for both of you. You may find this section from the Bad Girl's Bible to be helpful for building your confidence and as well as learning specific dirty things to say to your man
7. Don't Be Afraid Of Trying New Things - The main reason guys (& girls) get bored in bed is because they fall into a routine. They end up using the same 2 or 3 moves in bed and as a result they stop looking forward to and getting excited about making love.
This is one of those deadly relationship killers. Yes, boredom is bad for your sex life, but it's actually worse for your relationship in general. To counteract this routine and potential boredom, you need to constantly try new things, which leads us to...
8. Get Some Great Advice! - If you are serious about learning how to pleasure your man in bed, then you need to constantly work on and improve your skillset. Yes, great sex really is a skill that you can learn, just like any other. If you are looking for even more advice on how to pleasure your guy, then you'll find my best tactics in this detailed & powerful tutorial video that will teach you how to give great oral sex. Click here to check it out now.
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