You'll be really glad to know that learning how to make a guy cum powerfully is surprisingly simple. These 5 tips will help to blow your man's mind, the right way.
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It's Okay To Be Nervous, But You DO Need To Be Passionate - If you don't have that much sexual experience, then you may be nervous or even feel awkward when you get sexual with your man. That is totally normal. You're not different from anyone else.
But just because you are feeling nervous, doesn't mean that you shouldn't be passionate. If you are passionate about what you're doing, then your man will be a very turned on, even if you are not totally sure of what you're doing.
So if you are having sex and not totally sure about what you should be doing, then just become more passionate. In this case, you'd start thrusting back onto your man, grabbing and holding him tighter, scratching his back and moaning louder than usual.
Handjobs Are Good, Blowjobs Are Better - Your man's penis is by far the most sensitive part of his body. So if you want to know how to make your guy cum, then you must pay attention to it.
One way to give it some attention is to grab it with your hands and start jerking him off. To give your man a good handjob is easy, you just need to grab hold of his penis just like you'd grab an umbrella. Then start to move your hand up and down over it. You don't want to hold his penis so tightly that it hurts, but if you hold it too lightly, then it's not going to be that pleasurable for him.
The head of his penis is where you'll find the most nerve endings...In other words, it's the part of his penis where he get most pleasure from. So make sure to play with it a lot when giving him a handjob. You will find more similar techniques by clicking here.
Obviously you are going to take his penis into your mouth when giving him a blow job, but remember what I just said: the top of penis is where he gets most pleasure from.
So when giving him a blowjob, try to focus most of your attention and effort on stimulating the top of his penis with your lips, mouth, tongue and the rest of your mouth.
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Extra Tip: If you want your handjob to feel like a blow job to your man, then try using a bit of lube...your man will be very grateful.
Find Out His Fetishes - When learning how to make a guy cum, you'll find that it's far easier to make him cum when you do things that really turn him on. But remember that every guy is different. Some get turned on by things like seeing you wearing revealing clothing, while others find things like anilingus to be the biggest turn on for them.