Constantly searching for things to keep your sex life fun can get very tiring. That's why I wanted to show you my 4 favorite fun sex games to play with your partner. Just a quick warning though: Don't feel like you have to try every single one of them with your man. You don't. Only try the ones that you are comfortable with.
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You've Got 30 Seconds
This first fun sex game is called 'You've Got 30 Seconds' because you are going to be giving each other a time limit of just 30 seconds to turn each other on and get each other off. To play the game, ideally you should have an egg timer as it makes quite a loud buzzing noise when the time is up. But if you don't have one, a stopwatch on your phone will do. Set the timer to 30 seconds and then start it.
Your man will now have just 30 seconds to try and give you as much pleasure as possible. Usually this isn't enough though...which turns out to be a good thing as it's now your turn. You'll have 30 seconds to try and give your man as much pleasure as possible and try to bring him to orgasm.
Now, when you are the person receiving the pleasure, you are not allowed to do anything at all other than sit back and enjoy it. You're especially not allowed to give any directions or tell your partner what you are enjoying and disliking. It's up to them to discover it themselves. You'll find that you will both need multiple 30 second sessions to get each other off. Many couples often report that they get quite competitive when playing, 'You've Got 30 Seconds', trying to win, by getting their partner off first.
A great way to play this is to try some of the oral sex techniques from this killer video tutorial on him. If you do, then you'll find that he has trouble ever winning!
You can also add to the fun by inventing prizes for the winner (the person who orgasms last) and even forfits for the loser (the person who orgasms first).
Hot & Cold
'Hot & Cold' is much simplier to play, but that doesn't make it any less of a fun sex game to play with your man. What you are going to be doing is arranging a few foods (usually about 3-4) that are either warm or cold. Think ice-cream, champagne and sorbet for the cold foods and heated honey, melted chocolate and warm maple syrup for the warm foods.
Note: Make sure that the warm foods aren't hotter than your man, otherwise you may accidentally burn him.
'Hot & Cold' is a sex game that works best after dinner, I'll explain why in a minute.
Next, you are going to bring your man somewhere private, take off his pants and then blindfold him. You now want to tell him that you want to give him a bj, but not the regular type of bj. Tell him that you'd like some dessert and have a few things prepared. If he asks what, then just say that it's a suprise and will be quite pleasurable.
Then take a little scoop of ice cream into your mouth and start to very slowly give him oral sex. Starting slowly is crucial as you don't want to give him too much of a shock. You can continue to give him oral sex, while slowly eating more and more of the ice cream/sorbet/champagne off his penis.
Next, you can then switch to something completely different...like some warm honey. The change should surprise your man, but more importantly it will make for a completely different texture.
The only problem when performing 'Hot & Cold' sex game is that your man will often come before you have a chance to try all the foods on him. That's why I always recommend to use no more than 4 different foods.
This last one is a particularly fun sex game to play with your man. There is something incredibly horny, hot and arousing about having sex when you are both hot, sweating and sliding all over each other. It feels more primal and naughty. For some, the best way to achieve this is by having sex in a steam room or sauna. But that's not a possibility for everyone. And besides, you can't really lie down when you're in a sauna or steam room.
An awesome way to replicate the sweaty fun of a steam room or sauna while enjoying the comfort your own bed is to use a natural oil like coconut oil and cover both yourself and your man from neck to toe in it. Also make sure that the heat in your room is turned up quite high too, so that both of you are sweating quite a lot.
Feeling your bodies easily slide over each other during sex is incredibly hot and can make for some really passionate, animalistic sex. In a way, this is not so much a fun sex game, but more of an incredibly way to have great sex.
The 'Try Not To Have' Sex Game
By far the hottest sex game I know or have heard of is called the 'Try Not To Have Sex Game'. It sounds a little weird when you first hear it and it's certainly counterintuitive, but the fact is that it's super powerful at building sexual tension and literally making you want to rip each others clothes off.
To play the game, you are not allowed to have sex...but that's not actually a ton of fun. The way to make it fun is to try and entice your partner into initiating sex with you, while he is doing the exact same thing to you. The loser is the person who gives in and actually initiates sex. The winner is the partner who holds out the longest.
When you hear about the 'Try Not To Have Sex Game' first, it actually sounds stupid and kind of dull, but once you see how good it is at building sexual tension, anticipation and arousal then you will understand just how much fun it is to play.
A great way to make it extra interesting is to each add $10 dollars to a jar for every day that you play it. The winner then gets to spend all this cash on an activity for both of you.
These 4 fun sex games are a great start to having a wonderful sex life. But if you are serious about learning how to build sexual tension and turn your man on, then you should take a look at this powerful presentation video. If you are looking to learn some techniques to keep him very satisfied when you're going down on him, then this video tutorial here will show you everything you need to know to give your man perfect oral sex.
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