Constantly searching for things to keep your sex life fun can get very tiring. That's why I wanted to show you my 4 favorite fun sex games to play with your partner. Just a quick warning though: Don't feel like you have to try every single one of them with your man. You don't. Only try the ones that you are comfortable with.
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You've Got 30 Seconds
This first fun sex game is called 'You've Got 30 Seconds' because you are going to be giving each other a time limit of just 30 seconds to turn each other on and get each other off. To play the game, ideally you should have an egg timer as it makes quite a loud buzzing noise when the time is up. But if you don't have one, a stopwatch on your phone will do. Set the timer to 30 seconds and then start it.
Your man will now have just 30 seconds to try and give you as much pleasure as possible. Usually this isn't enough though...which turns out to be a good thing as it's now your turn. You'll have 30 seconds to try and give your man as much pleasure as possible and try to bring him to orgasm.
Now, when you are the person receiving the pleasure, you are not allowed to do anything at all other than sit back and enjoy it. You're especially not allowed to give any directions or tell your partner what you are enjoying and disliking. It's up to them to discover it themselves. You'll find that you will both need multiple 30 second sessions to get each other off. Many couples often report that they get quite competitive when playing, 'You've Got 30 Seconds', trying to win, by getting their partner off first.
A great way to play this is to try some of the blowjob techniques from this killer video tutorial on him. If you do, then you'll find that he has trouble ever winning!
You can also add to the fun by inventing prizes for the winner (the person who orgasms last) and even forfits for the loser (the person who orgasms first).
Hot & Cold
'Hot & Cold' is much simplier to play, but that doesn't make it any less of a fun sex game to play with your man. What you are going to be doing is arranging a few foods (usually about 3-4) that are either warm or cold. Think ice-cream, champagne and sorbet for the cold foods and heated honey, melted chocolate and warm maple syrup for the warm foods.
Note: Make sure that the warm foods aren't hotter than your man, otherwise you may accidentally burn him.
'Hot & Cold' is a sex game that works best after dinner, I'll explain why in a minute.
Next, you are going to bring your man somewhere private, take off his pants and then blindfold him. You now want to tell him that you want to give him a blowjob, but not the regular type of blowjob. Tell him that you'd like some dessert and have a few things prepared. If he asks what, then just say that it's a suprise and will be quite pleasurable.
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Then take a little scoop of ice cream into your mouth and start to very slowly give him a blowjob. Starting slowly is crucial as you don't want to give him too much of a shock. You can continue to give him oral sex, while slowly eating more and more of the ice cream/sorbet/champagne off his penis.