Today, I am going to show you some really hot & dirty truth or dare questions to use on your partner to keep things fun, exciting and most importantly, never boring. While you will usually hear me give some really powerful advice on talking dirty to your man, today I want to focus on dirty truth or dare questions.
(P.S. If you want to learn my best dirty talking tips & techniques, you’ll find them in this powerful video.)
Why Dirty Truth Or Dare?
There are tons of ways to spice up your sex life, but using a dirty game of truth or dare with your man is the perfect way to very quickly find out more about each other (on a very deep level) while also very quickly learning about each others kinks, desires and fantasies.
So Should I Be As Nasty As Possible?
Honestly, no! The idea behind playing dirty truth or dare and coming up with questions is just to keep things fun and to find out about more about each other. If you start off with the craziest dirty questions you can think of, then most likely, you will freak your partner out and vice versa. So the best option is to start with relatively tame questions and as you both get to know each other more, then it's time to start asking and using more kinky questions. If you want some ideas on kinkier & dirtier questions to ask your man, then you'll find this video tutorial on talking dirty very helpful.
One Massive Warning!
One serious problem that sometimes happens when couples start coming up with their own dirty truth or dare questions is that they think that they can use them to trick their partner to reveal details about their past that might be very damaging to your relationship. So please, please do not use these dirty truth or dare questions to find out things about your partner that you will just end up resenting.
How To Use These Dirty Truth Or Dare Questions
Obviously surprising your man with some raunchy truth or dare questions is going to catch him off guard and maybe even freak him out a little. A better way to approach him is to ask him if he wants to play a game of dirty truth or dare some night...maybe even after a few drinks to loosen yourselves up. Next, you actually need to set up the game.
Both of you need to write down an equal number of truths and dares that you want to ask each other. Each take 20 pieces of paper. Write down a dirty truth you want to ask your man on the first 10 pieces of paper and fold them. Then write down a dirty dare on the next 10 pieces of paper and fold them. Your man needs to do the same. Now each of you has 2 piles.
You are then going to play the game in turns. If you go first, then you need to choose a truth from your man's pile of truths. If you don't want to answer it, then you need to choose a dare that you must do. Once you complete either a truth or dare, then it's your man's turn to do the same. The game ends when you both just have a single pile of either truths or dares left.
Now that you know how to play the game, it's time to learn some dirty truth or dare questions to use on your man. First I am going to give you a list of 10 truth questions and then afterwards I will give you 11 dare questions.
10 Dirty Truth Questions
- Have you ever had a same-sex experience? How was it?
- If you could have a threesome with me and someone else, who would you choose?
- What's your favorite type of porn?
- When was the last time your masturbated?
- What do you fantasize about during sex?
- If you were the opposite sex for a day, what would you do?
- Have you ever been attracted to someone that you knew was actually ugly?
- Have you ever tried or wanted to try BDSM?
- What's the biggest age difference between you and someone you have had sex with?
- What is your most embarrassing sexual experience?
11 Dirty Dares
- I dare you to go down on me for the next 10 minutes.
- I dare you play the rest of the game while naked.
- I dare you to use a butt plug.
- I dare you to eat cream off my naked body.
- I dare you to wear my underwear for the next 2 hours.
- I dare you to try anal with me.
- I dare you to take a photo of us naked together.
- I dare you to masturbate in front of me.
- I dare you to lick my feet.
- I dare you to let me spank you.
- I dare you to make some homemade pornography.
More Great Sex Advice
If you enjoyed learning these dirty truth or dare questions, but would like to learn more tips on things like how to properly talk dirty to your man, then you may want to watch this instructional presentation on talking dirty.
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