How To Give Him A Blowjob He'll Never Forget

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How To Give Him A Blowjob He'll Never Forget
Use these five tips from real guys to give your man great oral sex.

Going down on your guy is one of the biggest gifts you can offer him. Receiving oral pleasure is an amazing treat, giving him the opportunity to relax and receive tons of pleasure with none of the pressure of reciprocating. It is the chance to focus all of your attention on his pleasure. Giving oral to your lover is an act of erotic generosity. So whether it is to celebrate his birthday, a promotion at work or just a random act of spontaneous love, giving him great head can be an important way to lavish him in pleasure and let him know you care about his sexual satisfaction.

What makes a blow job unforgettable? What do men most want when they get the chance to receive oral pleasure? Common sex wisdom suggests that enthusiasm and confidence go a long way towards making you a master of giving oral sex. But we wanted to dig deeper and ask men directly what they love most and how to make a blow job as pleasurable as possible.

 

We gave the guys in our Pleasure Mechanics community the chance to sound off about what they love most about getting head. Here are the top five tips from the hundreds of responses we received to our fellatio survey.

1. Make it fun for both of you. 30% of our survey respondents said that receiving oral sex was "extremely important" — a "deal breaker" for a happy relationship. An additional 36% said they were "very important and hard to live without!" So to make sure your man is sexually satisfied, learn how to love going down. It is essential that women make this experience something they want to do and never endure discomfort or pain in the bedroom.

Learning how to coordinate hand job techniques with oral stimulation can be a fast track to not only giving a great blow job, but making it something that can be a pleasurable experience for both of you. Most men want more pressure and stimulation than you can ever deliver just with your mouth. Using your hands in combination with your mouth is the best way to give him all the stimulation he craves. 

Want to learn how to love going down? Check out our free podcast episode: Fellatio! Discover How To Love Giving Oral Sex

Remember, oral sex is not just about sexual pleasure. Most men we surveyed expressed a deep emotional gratification from receiving oral sex. One man expressed the emotional gratification of receiving oral pleasure: "makes me feel accepted and loved." Another very enthusiastic guy said this: "There needs to be a word stronger than "love" to describe how I feel about receiving (and giving) oral sex."

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