How To Get A Relationship, NOT A Hookup

Love, Sex

Timing is everything when it comes to finding love. Here's how to time it right.

The difference between having a relationship with a guy and being just a hookup for him has everything to do with the time of day. You set the tone based on the time you continually meet him. If you want relationships more than a hookup, we're going to need light.

Meeting a guy at a club when you're in full makeup and dress spells hookup if you're not careful. Guys always want you at night. The trick of turning it into a relationship is the daytime. If a guy wants to be with in the daytime when you're not in full makeup then we have something to talk about.

Evening dates are sexy and romantic however it's the sun and the light of day that makes things real. Before you have sex with a guy spend the other 23 hours of the day with him. Find out what it's like to be with him all day before you have sex with him all night, rather than after.

Until he knows he can be with you in the daytime and enjoy it, you are only hooking up. If you're okay with that, it's not a problem. If you want more of a connection wait until you see him in the daytime to build a relationship. Read A Life Of Love.

Much love,


P.S. Watch How To Know If You Have Chemistry In 30 Seconds.

P.P.S. For Quality men read A Life Of Love and Dating Advice For Alpha Women.


Explore YourTango