James Allen Hanrahan - Dating Coach, Author, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Santa Monica, CA
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James Allen Hanrahan (Other)

Dating Coach

Contact information

Email me

Phone 310-736-5973

I wrote A Life of Love: after I got married because getting married was the most healing thing I've ever done. It started me on the journey of learning how to love and share it with others. I have been blessed to have an amazing mentor and during that time I created  Chemistry to Commitment To give people insights on how to go from having chemistry with someone and making it last. I share with women how to make it his idea because if it's not his idea there is no relationship. When you know what to say and how to say it to a man he will be able to hear you and you can build a life together. The insights I share are not for everyone however if they are for you they will change your life and you will be glad you found them as I was.

Much love,


Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...
Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way!

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The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

Getting married and the experience of being with my wife has been the most healing thing in my life. I had no idea it would have such a strong affect on me. Soon after by chance or by fate I met my mentor and studied and read every book possible. I have always been a lover of knowledge and of people. However if you ask me how I became a "helping professional" I must say I did not choose to be one, it chose me. Now when I work with people I tell them "I will walk with you." Because we don't grow alone we have to be reflected.


James Allen Hanrahan

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Religious affiliation:

Spiritual, but no affiliation

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James Allen Hanrahan

Payment Options

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Fee Range:

Between $51-80 per session

James Allen Hanrahan

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Dating/Being Single Support



Time in Practice:

3-5 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:


Relationship Coach


I offer my services:

At my office


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

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Articles by James Allen Hanrahan

What Men Think About Being A Man In Life

It turns out it's not just about having a girlfriend. For men only.

Computer Problems

5 Reasons Why You Should Stop Online Dating!

Somtimes a picture isn't worth a thousand words. Find out what real people are saying.

How To Get Over 'This Guy' You're Obsessed With

How To Get Over 'This Guy' You're Obsessed With

Racking your brain trying to figure him out? Here's a better idea.


3 Chemicals Your Body Makes On Dates

Wondering how to understand your feelings? It's chemical. Video


Why Aren't We Having Sex?

What do you do when you stop having sex? Friends, lovers or business partners?

James Allen Hanrahan

All Specialties

Dating/Being Single Support