James Allen Hanrahan - Relationship Coach, Author, Dating Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Santa Monica, CA
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James Allen Hanrahan (Other)

Relationship Coach

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Phone 310-736-5973

I wrote A Life of Love: after I got married because getting married was the most spiritual thing I've ever done and I've done a lot of down dog. It started me on the journey of learning how to love and share it with others.

 I have been blessed to have an amazing mentor and during that time I created  Chemistry to Commitment To give people insights on how to go from having chemistry with someone and making it last. I share with women how to make it his idea because if it's not his idea there is no relationship.

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I work primarily with professional alpha women and the men who love them. Smart, successful people with an on going war between their head and their heart which makes it difficult to have lasting, loving relationships.

Much love,



James' counsel is helpful because it is memorable! Succinct, pointed, & easy to process James has in very few words given me timely advice on dating that was easy to follow and remember. After meeting James at a Monday night Dr.Pat Allen workshop in L.A. at the Odyssey Theatre, I read his book A Life of Love. He distills Pat Allen's research and wisdom and augments it with a simplicity I relish. It's so straightforward, I carry it with me as a Reference Manual, so to speak. I am a successful business woman in L.A. who is all "man" in the work world. I'm happily following the guidelines of how to be the feminine energy in my dating life and am enjoying the results. I've counseled with James in person and on the phone and can say his succinctness means that every dollar is very well spent - no wasted time of me rattling on. He gets where I was going and provided quick summary and guidance. The book truly is profound and I can't recommend it and him more highly!

Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...
Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way! 

P.S. Get your own personal coaching http://jamesallenhanrahan.com/coaching.html



The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

Getting married and the experience of being with my wife has been the most healing thing in my life. I had no idea it would have such a strong affect on me. Soon after by chance or by fate I met my mentor and studied and read every book possible. I have always been a lover of knowledge and of people. However if you ask me how I became a "helping professional" I must say I did not choose to be one, it chose me. Now when I work with people I tell them "I will walk with you." Because we don't grow alone we have to be reflected.


James Allen Hanrahan

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Spiritual, but no affiliation

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James Allen Hanrahan

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Fee Range:

Between $51-80 per session

James Allen Hanrahan

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Dating/Being Single Support



Time in Practice:

3-5 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:


Dating Coach


I offer my services:

At my office


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

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Articles by James Allen Hanrahan
Om Girl

Why The Love Yourself First Myth Doesn't Work

Getting ready to be in a relationship? Find out what it really takes to love yourself first.

Pick The Right Guy Why Hot Guys Don't Last

Pick The Right Guy Why Hot Guys Don't Last

How to tell the difference between Mr. Right and Mr. Last Night. Find out when you're getting warm.

Man With Flowers For Date

The Only 2 Things To Look For On A First Date

When sparks fly here's what to look for. The 1-2 of a great first date.

Couple In Love

How To Pick A Guy: 3 Decisions Your Body Makes Dating Guys

You like his online profile. Your body that's a different story.

Young Newlyweds

Deal Breakers: Top 3 New Relationship Must Haves

Turn your list upside down. Consider these 3 key ingredients

James Allen Hanrahan

All Specialties

Dating/Being Single Support