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James Allen Hanrahan, Author

James Allen Hanrahan - Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Santa Monica, CA


1032 19th st
Santa Monica, CA
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I Believe

"Marriage is the most spiritual thing I've ever done, and I've done a lot of downdog."

 James Allen Hanrahan

About Me

I wrote A Life of Love: after I got married because getting married was the most spiritual thing I've ever done and I've done a lot of down dog. It started me on the journey of learning how to love and share it with others.

 I have been blessed to have an amazing mentor and during that time I created  Chemistry to Commitment To give people insights on how to go from having chemistry with someone and making it last. I share with women how to make it his idea because if it's not his idea there is no relationship.

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I work primarily with professional alpha women and the men who love them. Smart, successful people with an on going war between their head and their heart which makes it difficult to have lasting, loving relationships.

Much love,



James' counsel is helpful because it is memorable! Succinct, pointed, & easy to process James has in very few words given me timely advice on dating that was easy to follow and remember. After meeting James at a Monday night Dr.Pat Allen workshop in L.A. at the Odyssey Theatre, I read his book A Life of Love. He distills Pat Allen's research and wisdom and augments it with a simplicity I relish. It's so straightforward, I carry it with me as a Reference Manual, so to speak. I am a successful business woman in L.A. who is all "man" in the work world. I'm happily following the guidelines of how to be the feminine energy in my dating life and am enjoying the results. I've counseled with James in person and on the phone and can say his succinctness means that every dollar is very well spent - no wasted time of me rattling on. He gets where I was going and provided quick summary and guidance. The book truly is profound and I can't recommend it and him more highly!

Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...
Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way! 

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The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

Getting married and the experience of being with my wife has been the most healing thing in my life. I had no idea it would have such a strong affect on me. Soon after by chance or by fate I met my mentor and studied and read every book possible. I have always been a lover of knowledge and of people. However if you ask me how I became a "helping professional" I must say I did not choose to be one, it chose me. Now when I work with people I tell them "I will walk with you." Because we don't grow alone we have to be reflected.


Success Stories

Engaged To Be Married

James is someone that I know I can go to calm my spinning head and

nerves at anytime!  He is always willing to make himself available and

has such a playful way of coaching that encourages me to let go of

drama and just focus on enjoying the journey.  He helps me bring a

level of lightness and play to my way of communication with the love

of my life.  AND I just got engaged!!  :)


Main SpecialtyDating/Being Single Support
Time in Practice3-5 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseDating Coach
Relationship Coach
I offer my servicesAt my office
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
I am fluent inEnglish
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My Store

Dating Advice For Alpha Women: The Road To Love

"Dating Advice For Alpha Women" is the first book of its kind to ...

USD $13.46

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A Life of Love: How to Create Relationships You Want

"A Live of Love" is a guide book on how to create Male/Female ...

USD $11.75

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