I wrote A Life of Love: after I got married because getting married was the most spiritual thing I've ever done and I've done a lot of down dog. It started me on the journey of learning how to love and share it with others.
I have been blessed to have an amazing mentor and during that time I created Chemistry to Commitment To give people insights on how to go from having chemistry with someone and making it last. I share with women how to make it his idea because if it's not his idea there is no relationship.
I work primarily with professional alpha women and the men who love them. Smart, successful people with an on going war between their head and their heart which makes it difficult to have lasting, loving relationships.
James' counsel is helpful because it is memorable! Succinct, pointed, & easy to process James has in very few words given me timely advice on dating that was easy to follow and remember. After meeting James at a Monday night Dr.Pat Allen workshop in L.A. at the Odyssey Theatre, I read his book A Life of Love. He distills Pat Allen's research and wisdom and augments it with a simplicity I relish. It's so straightforward, I carry it with me as a Reference Manual, so to speak. I am a successful business woman in L.A. who is all "man" in the work world. I'm happily following the guidelines of how to be the feminine energy in my dating life and am enjoying the results. I've counseled with James in person and on the phone and can say his succinctness means that every dollar is very well spent - no wasted time of me rattling on. He gets where I was going and provided quick summary and guidance. The book truly is profound and I can't recommend it and him more highly!
Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...
Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way!
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The Reason I Became A Helping Professional
Getting married and the experience of being with my wife has been the most healing thing in my life. I had no idea it would have such a strong affect on me. Soon after by chance or by fate I met my mentor and studied and read every book possible. I have always been a lover of knowledge and of people. However if you ask me how I became a "helping professional" I must say I did not choose to be one, it chose me. Now when I work with people I tell them "I will walk with you." Because we don't grow alone we have to be reflected.
James is someone that I know I can go to calm my spinning head and
nerves at anytime! He is always willing to make himself available and
has such a playful way of coaching that encourages me to let go of
drama and just focus on enjoying the journey. He helps me bring a
level of lightness and play to my way of communication with the love
of my life. AND I just got engaged!! :)
|Main Specialty||Dating/Being Single Support|
|Time in Practice||3-5 years|
|I practice in||All areas, please inquire|
|Additional Expertise||Dating Coach|
|I offer my services||At my office|
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
|I am fluent in||English|