James Allen Hanrahan - Relationship Coach, Author, Dating Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Santa Monica, CA
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James Allen Hanrahan (Other)

Relationship Coach

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Phone 310-736-5973

I wrote A Life of Love: after I got married because getting married was the most spiritual thing I've ever done and I've done a lot of down dog. It started me on the journey of learning how to love and share it with others.

 I have been blessed to have an amazing mentor and during that time I created  Chemistry to Commitment To give people insights on how to go from having chemistry with someone and making it last. I share with women how to make it his idea because if it's not his idea there is no relationship.

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I work primarily with professional alpha women and the men who love them. Smart, successful people with an on going war between their head and their heart which makes it difficult to have lasting, loving relationships.

Much love,



James' counsel is helpful because it is memorable! Succinct, pointed, & easy to process James has in very few words given me timely advice on dating that was easy to follow and remember. After meeting James at a Monday night Dr.Pat Allen workshop in L.A. at the Odyssey Theatre, I read his book A Life of Love. He distills Pat Allen's research and wisdom and augments it with a simplicity I relish. It's so straightforward, I carry it with me as a Reference Manual, so to speak. I am a successful business woman in L.A. who is all "man" in the work world. I'm happily following the guidelines of how to be the feminine energy in my dating life and am enjoying the results. I've counseled with James in person and on the phone and can say his succinctness means that every dollar is very well spent - no wasted time of me rattling on. He gets where I was going and provided quick summary and guidance. The book truly is profound and I can't recommend it and him more highly!

Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...
Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way! 

P.S. Get your own personal coaching http://jamesallenhanrahan.com/coaching.html



The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

Getting married and the experience of being with my wife has been the most healing thing in my life. I had no idea it would have such a strong affect on me. Soon after by chance or by fate I met my mentor and studied and read every book possible. I have always been a lover of knowledge and of people. However if you ask me how I became a "helping professional" I must say I did not choose to be one, it chose me. Now when I work with people I tell them "I will walk with you." Because we don't grow alone we have to be reflected.


James Allen Hanrahan

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Spiritual, but no affiliation

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James Allen Hanrahan

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Fee Range:

Between $51-80 per session

James Allen Hanrahan

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Dating/Being Single Support



Time in Practice:

3-5 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:


Dating Coach


I offer my services:

At my office


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

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Articles by James Allen Hanrahan
Neglected Wife

3 Reasons You Don't Want Your Ex Boyfriend Back

If at first you don't succeed with an ex. Do you want to try again?

Angry Wife, Happy Husband Watching Football

Why Beta Relationship Advice Doesn't Work For Alpha Women

Alpha women have new relationship challenges. Are you an Alpha?

A Happy Bride

3 Steps That Make All Men Committable

All men are committable. The secret is to where and to who?

Trouble In Paradise

Does Living Together Destroy Your Chance Of Marriage?

Yes things happen. Is it happening to you?

Distant Woman

3 Secrets Why Guys Leave You

It's not the truth that hurts. It's not knowing the truth.

James Allen Hanrahan

All Specialties

Dating/Being Single Support