5 Ways to Turn Him ON


5 Ways to Turn Him ON
Spice things up! He'll be happy when you bring these steamy moves to the bedroom.

By Kelly Rouba, GalTime Writer

Have you and that special someone fallen into a routine that feels more like a rut?

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When it comes to adding spark to your sex life, it takes two. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t be the one to take the lead.
The good news is that most men don’t need elaborate schemes to capture their attention and bring the va-va-voom back into the bedroom. Oftentimes, a simple gesture, like wearing sexy clothing, is all it takes to turn them on-- and show them you care.

While most women enjoy being romanced, it can be daunting when it comes to reciprocating and knowing just how much is enough. So if you’re looking for some fresh ideas in how to turn your man on, Stacie Ikka, founder of the dating consultancy Sitting In A Tree, offers these few simple tips to help you get started.

5 Ways to Turn Him ON

1. Take control in the morning. Be his human alarm clock. If you know he has to be up at 7 am, get an early start by initiating a morning romp (i.e. “Honey, it’s time to rise and shine, and I mean ALL of you!), followed by a homemade breakfast to send him on his way.

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2. Dress up. On date night, wear his favorite dress (one that he’s complimented you on in the past or perhaps one he’s bought for you) with a sexy thong and then subtly let him know what you've got on underneath that dress as you make your way to dinner. 

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3. Whisper in his ear! If you’re out and can’t wait to get back home for some alone time, whisper something provocative in his ear, like “This party sucks. Let’s get the heck out of here now so I can have my way with you.” See how fast he gets up!

4. Talk Dirty. We all know it’s important to be a lady and a gentleman in public, but behind closed doors, there’s nothing sexier than some dirty talk. The best approach is to verbalize your feelings, needs, and desires during times of intimacy. Doing this will not only enhance the experience, but it will also educate your partner on how to fulfill your sexual needs on an ongoing basis.

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