What You Absolutely WON'T Put Up With From Him, Per Your Zodiac Sign

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The stars know you've got standards.

We all have lines that can’t be crossed, things that we won’t tolerate, and actions that we won’t put up with. And these things can affect our relationships.

If you’re dating a guy and he refuses to get a job, you might have difficulty in seeing any kind of future with him, or if you’re seeing someone has made it clear that they want you only as a booty call and you want more than just sex.


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If you’re honest with yourself, you know what you want and will go about setting standards you want adhered to.

Everybody has set standards and a bar that must be reached. If your standards are impossibly high, that could make you unintentionally weed out some possible partners; if your standards are too low, then you’ll find yourself settling on someone who really isn’t a good fit for you.

By setting standards, you’re able to decipher and see any red flags that are being presented. You might have had a boyfriend in the past who seemed great on paper, but when you met him certain things he said made you feel uncomfortable. You ignored the feeling you got from him initially and things progressed, but that feeling didn’t go away, especially when he continued to these things that were supposedly just his sense of humor.

 

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The more involved you got in the relationship, the more his insulting jokes were... until you were forced to recognize that saying these things weren’t funny and that you wouldn’t put up with it anymore.


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People are going to change but not just because you want them to, and they may not change in ways that you want. It’s better to know what you’re willing to tolerate and what’s the standard that must be reached.

Never turn a blind eye to something someone does that goes against what you believe in, and never lower your standards out of desperation. Here's what you refuse to put up with, according to your zodiac sign.

 

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

You're done if he's a lazy-ass. It's one thing if he has occasional lazy times but when he never wants to do anything except hang out on the couch, you know he's not for you. You're no longer going to be the one who has to do all the work in the relationship. You're sick of him not making one positive action for you.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

 

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

You're no longer going to deal with a guy who won't answer a direct question or any question in a straightforward manner. You hate when someone gives you the runaround, and if he's not going to be honest with you and give you a straight answer, you're done with that kind of shady behavior.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

 

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

You won't put up with him giving you mixed signals all the time. He says one thing and does the other. You can't tell if he's into you or not and it's not acceptable. You want someone whose actions back up their words. Good communication is precious to you but it's clearly not important to him.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

 

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

You're over having a text relationship only. It's fun to get the "good morning" text and the sweet "good night" text but that's not enough to sustain a relationship. There's more to a relationship than messages on a screen and you need to be able to look him in the eyes and touch him. Since he is making no attempt for more of a real-time relationship, you're done.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

 

LEO (July 23 - August 22)

The one thing you truly will not stand for is being ignored. You know you're amazing and when he barely acknowledges you or pays you any attention at all, you know there's a problem and it's most likely him. You'd rather be with someone who can't take their eyes off of you and is captivated by everything you say and do.

 

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

 

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

You won't tolerate a liar. If someone has trouble telling the truth, then you can never be sure of the validity of anything they say and that they're even faithful to you. There's no second chance when you've caught someone in a big fat lie; they can move on to someone else and leave you the hell alone.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

 

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

While you appreciate someone with charm and good manners, you can't deal with a bullsh*t artist. You have zero tolerance for any guy who tries to con you, cheat you or is just some kind of scumbag. You know you deserve more than empty promises and people trying to take advantage of you.

 

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

 

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

You like sex a lot but that's not all you want. You're over guys who just want you for sex and nothing else. You want something that's real and satisfying, not someone sexting you at 3 AM because they're horny.

 

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

 

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

You're done with someone controlling you. You're independent and can make your own decisions, and you don't need some jerk trying to get you to dump your friends so you can spend more time with them. Give up your autonomy? Nope, that's not happening.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

 

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

You're over some guy who refuses to grow up. You're not his mother nor are you his babysitter. You need a man who has his act together, not somebody who is an immature little man-baby. It's OK to have fun but it shouldn't be your only life goal.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

 

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

You won't stand for being somebody's second choice. If they can't see how incredible you are, then it's time to kick them to the curb. You're tired of him trying to make plans with you at the last minute because some other girl canceled. You're nobody's backup plan.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

 

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

You will not accept anyone's empty promises. If he says he's going to do something, then you expect him to do it. It's disrespectful when he doesn't consider your feelings at all, ever. If he's not serious about being with you, then he needs to get out of your life. You've been hurt enough already without someone treating you so poorly.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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You're done if he's a lazy-ass. It's one thing if he has occasional lazy times but when he never wants to do anything except hang out on the couch, you know he's not for you. You're no longer going to be the one who has to do all the work in the relationship. You're sick of him not making one positive action for you.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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You're no longer going to deal with a guy who won't answer a direct question or any question in a straightforward manner. You hate when someone gives you the runaround, and if he's not going to be honest with you and give you a straight answer, you're done with that kind of shady behavior.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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You won't put up with him giving you mixed signals all the time. He says one thing and does the other. You can't tell if he's into you or not and it's not acceptable. You want someone whose actions back up their words. Good communication is precious to you but it's clearly not important to him.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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You're over having a text relationship only. It's fun to get the "good morning" text and the sweet "good night" text but that's not enough to sustain a relationship. There's more to a relationship than messages on a screen and you need to be able to look him in the eyes and touch him. Since he is making no attempt for more of a real-time relationship, you're done.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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The one thing you truly will not stand for is being ignored. You know you're amazing and when he barely acknowledges you or pays you any attention at all, you know there's a problem and it's most likely him. You'd rather be with someone who can't take their eyes off of you and is captivated by everything you say and do.

 

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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You won't tolerate a liar. If someone has trouble telling the truth, then you can never be sure of the validity of anything they say and that they're even faithful to you. There's no second chance when you've caught someone in a big fat lie; they can move on to someone else and leave you the hell alone.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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While you appreciate someone with charm and good manners, you can't deal with a bullsh*t artist. You have zero tolerance for any guy who tries to con you, cheat you or is just some kind of scumbag. You know you deserve more than empty promises and people trying to take advantage of you.

 

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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You like sex a lot but that's not all you want. You're over guys who just want you for sex and nothing else. You want something that's real and satisfying, not someone sexting you at 3 AM because they're horny.

 

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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You're done with someone controlling you. You're independent and can make your own decisions, and you don't need some jerk trying to get you to dump your friends so you can spend more time with them. Give up your autonomy? Nope, that's not happening.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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You're over some guy who refuses to grow up. You're not his mother nor are you his babysitter. You need a man who has his act together, not somebody who is an immature little man-baby. It's OK to have fun but it shouldn't be your only life goal.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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You won't stand for being somebody's second choice. If they can't see how incredible you are, then it's time to kick them to the curb. You're tired of him trying to make plans with you at the last minute because some other girl canceled. You're nobody's backup plan.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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You will not accept anyone's empty promises. If he says he's going to do something, then you expect him to do it. It's disrespectful when he doesn't consider your feelings at all, ever. If he's not serious about being with you, then he needs to get out of your life. You've been hurt enough already without someone treating you so poorly.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One

 

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